Why You Have To Move On From Bad Relationships

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By David Wygant October 15, 2013 233 Shares

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You’ve just met a guy. You’re on your first date. And suddenly he starts telling you all about his last bad relationship, and going into detail about all the things his ex did so wrong to him. How does that make you feel?

Doesn’t do much for the “moment” does it?

Well, it’s exactly the same for men. No man wants to hear you listing all the things your last boyfriend did wrong. It’s like you’re giving your date a big checklist of all the things he musn’t do. You HAVE to leave your past relationships in the past before you start dating again. You have to stop being so angry at your ex, before you’re going to attract someone who’s right for you.

Until you put what happened in old relationships behind you, you’re never truly going to move on. I’ll explain more in the video below. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Denise

Friday, October 18th, 2013

Hi, David. I have had a relationship ( or so I thought was a relationship) like what you speak of. He always brought up his ex in every conversation. It was like there was three of us instead of two. Mind you he was divorced nearly two decades ago. I was doing everything you speak about. I listened intently to him thinking he just needed to vent a bit. He always tested me, passed with flying colors. I really cared deeply for him. He would always ask me bizzare questions like " what if I got a bunch of tattoos'? I responded " would it change who you are?" He did not respond, asked again and the third time he said no, so I said it would not matter because after a while I would not even notice the tattoos, just the person. I suffer from really bad migraine headaches , I said to him do you know what helps get rid of headaches? he looked at me, smiled and said my ex told me to go away when she had a headache, then she cheated and I did not want anything to do with her because I did not know where she has been. OMG, mood killer, not to mention my headache was 10x worse. Not to mention we were together a year. I paid for her, she was an all our dates even though she is married to someone else. I was not her, did not behave like her and yet paid for her wrongs. Women are not the only ones who do this. I do did not make him pay for my ex husband beating me. I gave him a clean slate and actually loved unconditionally. I did not get the same in return. He would always say it was done to him so he treated me the same. He left me, starting fights, saying that I said thing I had never said. Please do not make woman think it is all us. Guys do it too. Dating has just become way too difficult, I am seriously thinking of spending the rest of my life alone. No one is worth that much pain, especially if the do not like it don to them, they seriously lack empathy. It should be a two way street. Are there any self help videos for men? They need to know how to act around women. I f you want to talk to us, do it, if you say you are going to call, do it. If you want to go out with us do not be 2 hours late. If you like us and we like you, that is 50% of the battle won. Build on that. In my experience men lie to get what the want. They are great actors. I always bond through emotion, reaching the heart, well what is left of their heart. They used and moved on. But in my past, the men that left me wanted me back, I do not go back, This guy I am telling you about, he has not even dated since he left me. They come to find love is not easy to come by, and they were lucky enough to have found someone to love them. Oh well, I moved on, whether it was alone, or went out with someone else. This guy I really love though. When we connected it was powerful. We are soul mates. There is no other for either of us. I do not let him see it bothers me, that my feelings matter, if he shows coldness to me doing nothing to him that was wrong, then it should not matter to me. I am whole, successful, and my heart was ripped out and crushed yet I will not let him see it bothers me.

Brandy

Monday, October 21st, 2013

Denise, if you still feel that strongly for this guy you may want to reconsider. He needs a good therapist that can help him work through his issues with the ex. You could also go to couples' counseling.. Things don't always go smoothly, and can get better with outside help. If you give him a second chance let him know that this is his final chance. If he fails again, then walk away knowing you did all you could. Good luck to you!

Why You Have To Move On From Bad Relationships

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