I’m going to be your love coach in 2016.

I am driven to help you find love this year, or to realize the love that could already be in your life.

That’s a big one for most of us. We don’t realize the love, or the potential that already exists. So many possibilities are actually there but we don’t see them.

I’m going to be personally responsible for showing you that serendipitous moments exist even in this swipe obsessed, Internet filled, lazy dating world.

Think about it. What do we all want?

We want that serendipitous moment, boy meets girl.

A Harry Met Sally moment…

When you meet someone new and sparks fly. There’s some kind of magic in that moment.

The problem is, those moments happen more often than you think, but we are all too obsessed with our devices and “the next best thing” that we ignore them.

But I promise you, your day is actually filled with these serendipitous moments, like…

Boy flirts with girl at the supermarket, but boy is too shy to ask her for a phone number. Or maybe his daughter is with him at that time, or his son.

She leaves wondering, did he like me?

We’ve all been through that. We’ve all met people, and nothing happened. Then all of a sudden the universe, the very next day, brings the two of you together. What is the universe trying to do?

Sliding Doors.

Remember that movie? He runs out of the hospital and the doors slide closed to the elevator. She gets out, she’s looking down, he’s looking down, and they both miss each other.Serendipity

Serendipitous moments.

They happen all the time, even in today’ swipe obsessed world. As a matter of fact, my amazing best friend, my copyrighter, the guy who tweaks everything, was telling me about this girl he matched on Tinder. They flirted back and forth, she flaked and did nothing.

Then, she Facebook friended him. He sent her an email. Nothing happened. Then on JSwipe she picked him for the third time.

Serendipity.

We ignore these serendipitous moments because we’re constantly searching for whatever perfection has been marketed to us.

This perfectionism is very unhealthy. We’re constantly thinking there’s a bigger better deal. That somehow or other the next person we swipe is going to be our absolutely perfect match.

But the universe keeps delivering the same people over and over again because serendipity is the universe’s way of telling us to wake up.

How many serendipitous moments are you missing on a daily basis?

Think about it. Probably a ton.

This year my goa is to get you to see the serendipity that is already in your life, because it still exists. It’s what we’re all craving.

We’re going to talk about how to listen to the universe, so you can wake up to the love that you deserve and desire.