You Asked Her Out . . . You Pay!

Recently I was on the phone with a female client of mine, so recently in fact that it feels like right now! The bottom line is: If you ask a woman out on a date, you pay!

I’ve heard from so many women that a guy will ask her out on a date, and then when it comes down to paying he will ask her to split the bill. I believe that first dates should be simple dates, i.e., coffee dates, a walk in the park, things that don’t cost a lot of money.

You don’t know this person, so why should you invest a lot of money in someone you may never see again?! Men who take women they don’t even know for an expensive dinner on a first date are idiots! Trust a woman with your mind . . . not with the food that’s being served across the table.

When dating, the proper etiquette is he or she who asks out the other foots the bill. I’m a firm believer in equality.

I do not believe when dating somebody that the man has to pay for everything so that a woman can build up her 401K. There comes a point in dating where things should be split, especially if both of you are making equal money.

Now if you’re a man who has a lot of money and you’re dating a woman who has little money, then if you don’t pay for a date you’re a cheap bastard and you don’t deserve to have any woman go out with you! If you’re a woman who makes a lot of money and you expect a man to pay for everything, then you’re self-centered and not participating in a real relationship based on equality and understanding of ones financial situation.

The bottom line is this: If you ask somebody out on a date, you pay the bill. If you can’t afford the dinner, take her out for coffee, take her out for a drink, or take a walk in the park. You’re looking for the perfect match . . . not someone who’s going to get you into debt!

Ok Ladies lets hear your thoughts and don’t hold back!!! And guys how do you feel when a woman pays?

Also lets talk today about some great non traditional first dates so the bank account is not depleted to zero while trying to meet someone. Some men just don’t have any creativity so lets help them out!!!