You!

You, my brave, courageous, amazing, friend, are not a loser, no matter what you may think.  You my amazing, great friend, are interesting and exciting. And you, my amazing friend, are a real person.  What you need to stop doing is analyzing your conversations.

You’re like a f*cking therapist in your head, constantly analyzing your conversations, constantly re-evaluating yourself. Even when you talk to a member of the same sex, you’re thinking, “I’m not good enough, how can somebody like me.”

Here’s an experiment in social education. I know you can do this.  Go out one day, and say whatever the hell you want. Now, do not tell a woman who’s got great breasts that she’s got great breasts, or a great ass.  You know what to say, within the realm of being a normal individual.  I want you to go out and I want you to pay compliments to people. You see, you don’t speak your mind because you’re constantly inside your mind, constantly beating yourself up.  You’re constantly evaluating every word you say.  And if you do that, you’re never going to be happy.

The Key To Creating Genuine Attraction

So you, my amazing, incredible friend, who’s got a personality, let it out.  Here’s the deal about life.  People are either going to like you or they’re not.  People are either going to connect with you or they’re not. So why not just show them, be the amazing person that you are.  Why, evaluate yourself.  You have friends, and some of you have great friends. Some of you have interesting friends. The bottom line is, no one’s going to get to know you until you allow you to be you, this beautiful, amazing, loving person.

Love yourself.  Be this person.  Take care of yourself.  Go out there one day, say what’s on your mind.  It’s such a powerful, amazing experience to say what’s on your mind.  You’ll see people react to you like never before.  As a matter of fact, they’re going to react to you like you’re the greatest guy in the whole world because you’re speaking your truth. Most people monitor themselves and don’t speak the truth.

I love speaking my truth. I love going out and just saying what’s on my mind, because the law of attraction’s going to work this way.  You’re never going to be able to manipulate attraction.  You’re never going to be able to find somebody when you manipulate attraction. Meaning you’re never going to be able to look at somebody and make them like you by being something that you’re not.

So try to be the person that you are. Be the amazing person that you are every single day.  By being this person every single day, you’re going to have an opportunity to create real attraction in life, real friendship. You’ll allow people to get to know you.

You’re already amazing.  It’s not your fault that you think you’re not.  The fact of the matter is, the reason why you think you’re not is because you’re always comparing yourself to other people.  Go out there and say what’s on your mind.

You are amazing.