I hope that got your attention.

I’m going to share some things with you right now that may make you take that vibrator and blow it up.

In my dating life—and believe me, I’ve had my share of women—I’ve found that women who are vibrator dependent are the worst lovers you can possibly have.

Let me explain why.

I’ve found women that love their BOB—battery operated boyfriend—are impatient, quick lovers.

Here’s the reason why: a vibrator takes absolutely no sensuality to induce and orgasm.  There is nothing erotic about it.  It is very easy.  You put it on your clit, you turn it on and you have a huge orgasm.

A lot of women go for that Hitachi Magic Wand.  That’s even quicker.  It can get you to cum in five seconds if you hit the right spot.

There’s no foreplay; there’s no build-up.

Women who are vibrator dependent tend to get very impatient when it comes down to foreplay or when it comes down to allowing a man to please her.  They tend to get in their heads a lot more because they’re so used to having that quick vibrational blast.

But in reality, their bodies aren’t designed that way.  Nobody is designed to cum in five seconds.

Nobody.

So women that use the vibrator too much tend to always feel frustrated during or after sex.  They get in their heads a lot more than women who have become more sensual explorers.  (And I’ll talk a little bit about sensual explorers in a second.)

Women who depend on a vibrator will often get stuck in their heads for the first few minutes of oral sex.

“Oh my god, he’s going to take long.  He’s going to take long.  He’s going to take forever. What if I don’t orgasm…”

And they don’t allow the process of building up, the whole enjoyment of just laying there relaxing because their bodies are trained to orgasm quickly.

Now, isn’t an anti-vibrator blog—not at all.  I think they have their time, they have their place and they’re fine.

But here’s a suggestion: consider that women who actually take the time to masturbate using their hands, touching themselves, having no fear of going inside and exploring, finding where their G spot is, playing with their clit—tend to be amazing sensual explorers in the bedroom.

They take their time in bed.  They take their time on the man.  They allow the orgasm to come—pun intended—naturally.

They’re not impatient with it.  If they are slow to orgasm when a man goes down on them, then they’re okay with it.  They’ll kick back, relax and enjoy it, because they train their body to be touched.  They train their body to be explored the natural way, not the vibrational way.

This is not an anti-vibrator blog, put perhaps it may be time to put that Magic Wand down.