Do you know why most women run from men who approach? Especially if you are shy, not a stalker, and all you want to do is say “hi” with no hidden agendas?

It’s all because some of you wait so long to approach them. You sit there wondering “How do I approach her? What do I say?”

And all you are doing is stalling… By the time you actually muster up the nerve, you scare her half to death.

Here is an email I received from a client.

Dear David,

There is this adorable girl that i am interested in. Me and my colleague hang around near her office during lunch break almost everyday.

At times she turns around to see me when we are seated around and she is walking with her office group during the break.

Twice i tried to go to talk to her but could not muster the courage to do so. Today i decided that i will make up my mind and get over my approach anxiety.I waited till her office closed.She came out of her office and I went straight over.

I was talking on my cell phone. And when she saw me coming she pretended that she was calling someone.

I said Hi.But then she didnt stop, she kept walking. So i followed her. And then she kind of started running.It seems that i scared the hell out of her. This is not what I wanted.

Kindly advise what I should do next. I really like this girl.

Thanks & Regards,

T

Today’s podcast is all about how to get rid of that nervous feeling and never scare another woman again!

Do you know why most women run from men who approach? Especially if you are shy, not a stalker, and all you want to do is say “hi” with no hidden agendas?

It’s all because some of you wait so long to approach them. You sit there wondering “How do I approach her? What do I say?”

And all you are doing is stalling… By the time you actually muster up the nerve, you scare her half to death.

Here is an email I received from a client.

Dear David,

There is this adorable girl that i am interested in. Me and my colleague hang around near her office during lunch break almost everyday.

At times she turns around to see me when we are seated around and she is walking with her office group during the break.

Twice i tried to go to talk to her but could not muster the courage to do so. Today i decided that i will make up my mind and get over my approach anxiety.I waited till her office closed.She came out of her office and I went straight over.

I was talking on my cell phone. And when she saw me coming she pretended that she was calling someone.

I said Hi.But then she didnt stop, she kept walking. So i followed her. And then she kind of started running.It seems that i scared the hell out of her. This is not what I wanted.

Kindly advise what I should do next. I really like this girl.

Thanks & Regards,

T

Today’s podcast is all about how to get rid of that nervous feeling and never scare another woman again!