Why Being Promiscuous After Divorce Is Sacred To Your Soul

Go ahead, let your hair down.

That’s right, you have my permission to get out there and have as much sex as you possibly can. Please figure out exactly what you want.

It’s funny. A friend of mine is dating a woman. A very, sexually evolved woman.

She, like most women, was married.

She, like most women, got divorced because her husband would rather watch reruns of ESPN than basically have crazy sex all night long.

I call this the fault of genetic engineering.

When we (men) are 21-years-old and we’re hard 24/7, you’re 21-years-old and you’re full of Catholic guilt and other things, and sex is not exactly something you want to do six hours a day. For us it’s our favorite activity.

As we mature and get older, our testosterone goes down. Our energy level goes down, and we just don’t want to have sex 17 hours a day.

Women in their 30s and 40s and 50s love having sex non-stop. It’s a genetic misalignment.

So, women get divorced from lazy guys who don’t want to make love to them for endless hours and then they go out there and the experience their sexual revolution, and that is where I give you a permission to be promiscuous. Seriously. Sleep with as many guys as you want. But, of course, I know, be careful. Don’t come home with any diseases.

Have a young lover if you want. Have an affair with a woman if that’s what you crave. Have a three way. Wear a dress with nothing underneath and allow your lover to play with you under the table.

Whatever your heart’s desires. Be naughty. Let it all out. Because here’s what’s going to happen. Eventually you’re going to find a relationship. You’re going to find the young one’s mentally and emotionally can’t keep up with you.

So that’s going to lead you back with an older guy again.

And the older guy is not going to want to have sex as much as you do, but it doesn’t mean that he’s not going to want to make love. It doesn’t mean that he’s not going to want to be monogamous. Doesn’t mean that he’s not going to want to satisfy you. He just may not want sex every minute of every day. So go crazy, now. Get it all out of your system.

Enjoy it. I’m not judging you. I could care less whenever I date a woman and she’s had sex with 100 guys before me or two guys before me. All I care about is that she connected to her body. She feels satisfied from all the experience that she has. She hasn’t judged herself and she’s open and willing to have a deep connection with me.

So if you’re single now, write down all your sexual fantasies.

Write down all your sexual fantasies. Live them out. Enjoy them. Because eventually, you’re going to want to be monogamous relationship. You’re going to want to connect with a guy that way. You’re going to want to have that type of relationship again.

We may or may not have the same sex drive as you. Granted, in the world of relationships, we should attract somebody who’s got a decent amount of sex drive. But, still, one person in a relationship always has a little bit more than the other person. I’ve been in lots of those relationships where I’ve had a little bit more, and I’ve been in some relationships where she’s had a little bit more. As long as you can both satisfy one another on a regular basis, you’ll be fine.

That means getting it all out now. Enjoy sex. Enjoy your body. Enjoy yourself. Enjoy the world that’s being presented to you. That way, when a great relationship comes your way, you’ll be ready for it.