What Makes a Woman Sexually Excited

Do you want to know what makes a woman sexually excited? Do you want to know the one thing that turns a woman on more than anything in this world?

Before you read the rest of this I want you to think about your answer. What do you think turns a woman on sexually more than anything?

I want you to write down your answer right now. I want you to write it down on a piece of paper. I don’t want you to look at this article right now, I want you to write it down.

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Then lets see if you’re right.

You want to know what makes a woman really sexually excited? To feel connected to you, to be listened to, to be heard. To feel like you actually want to get to know her. To feel like you want to know all her secrets, all her emotions, all the complexities that makes up her as a woman.

That’s what really turns on a woman on sexually. To be able to connect mind, body and soul. It’s not any special technique. It’s not a technique that you do with your fingers or your hands or some magical sexual position that you’re going to learn that you can do with your penis. It’s got nothing to do with that. It has to do entirely with connecting with her as a woman.

Connecting to her mind, her body, her soul so she feels safe and secure.

You see, some women can have one night stands and they might be able to just get physical for the night but they don’t feel safe. They’re doing it because they, well, want to have sex and they feel safe enough with you that they’re able to go and have sex. But that’s not great sex to her. That’s not off the charts amazing sex to a woman at all.

That’s just getting off. You see, if you want to have earth shattering sex you need to build up that trust. She needs to feel safe – safe at your house, safe in your arms, safe and secure. She needs to feel like she can cuddle up and snuggle up next to you. She needs to feel like she can communicate and be heard and listened to. Those are the things that really turn a woman on.

Otherwise, it’s just physical sex and you’re never going to get all of her if she’s just having physical sex with you. You want all of her. You want to experience every beautiful bit of what the woman is all about. You want to experience her soul, her mind, her being, her energy. You want her to willingly give herself to you and do it in such a beautiful way.

So don’t rush sex when you meet somebody. Build up the trust, wait an extra week or two. Build up the relationship, throw a little romance in there, throw some candles, great conversation, cook her a meal, give her a rub down.

But more importantly, build up the trust. Make her feel so safe that when she finally gives herself to you she’s giving all of her. That to me is the best sex.

When you look really deep into her eyes and see the essence of who she really is, it’s a beautiful experience. And it’s one that I want all of you not to rush. Even if you’re just getting to know somebody, you don’t know if they’ll be your girlfriend. When you wait, you build up the trust. You get all of her. It’s such a big difference. I’ve had a lot of one-night stands in my life. I’ve enjoyed them. They’ve been egotistically fun. It certainly beat masturbating.

I stopped having one-night stands quite some time ago. My life changed immensely. Now I literally build up sexual tension. I build up exactly who we are and what we’re all about. I build up the anticipation. I connect with her in ways that I need to connect. By doing this, it gives me the opportunity to really connect with her and have the greatest sex. I figure that’s what I’m always looking for. I’m looking for really amazing, great sex with a woman that I can connect with very deeply.

That’s it.