One of the greatest books that I’ve read — and I’ve recommended it to so many people — is The Five Love Languages.

Why? Because in it, this amazing therapist broke it down ever so simply. We all have love languages.

We all have a love language that makes us feel great. Some of us have more than one.

And once you understand your partner’s love language, you’ll be able to fulfill them — fulfill their love tank, and make them feel really desired and wanted. And then, in turn, they’ll want to fulfill yours.

Sounds simple enough, right? Well, it is. And let me tell you something else: it’s something that I use as one of the tools in my toolbox when I date.

You see, dating is all about finding somebody who is your equal. Somebody who you can have fun with. Somebody who you can talk to and feel free with.

Somebody you can have great sex with.

And the list can go on and on and on.

The five love languages is great because it gives you what I call the beginning knowledge on how you need to authentically push the right buttons.

You see, whenever I go out with a woman, I always find out what her love language is.

If it’s physical touch, then I’m going to be more touchy.

If it’s words, then I’m going to make sure that I use words to make her feel really good.

If it’s active service, I’ll make sure that I do things for her in the beginning of the relationship that make her feel desired and safe and secure.

If it’s quality time, I’ll make sure that I schedule things with her, and make sure that I give her my undivided attention.

If it’s gifts, I’ll make sure that I give her little things so that she feels loved.

I do this not to win her over. I do this because I’m interested in her as a person, and I want her to know that I’m serious about getting to know her.

We have so much great information that’s out there — the five love languages being one of them — but there are definitely some flaws in The Five Love Languages. A lot of us have trouble actually expressing how we want to be loved, and the book really doesn’t go through that as well.

That’s why I do a fantastic seminar called The Love Blueprint.

The Love Blueprint is really about understanding your unique blueprint:

  • How you want to be loved.
  • The type of person you want to be with.
  • The type of sex you want to have.
  • The type of communication style you have.
  • How you like to sleep next to somebody.
  • What an intimate moment is for you.
  • How much sex you want to have.

And the list just goes on and on and deeper and deeper and deeper.

I do the seminar for the love blueprint because you have to present your unique blueprint to somebody, and your blueprint and their blueprint have to mesh on many levels for you have a really fulfilling relationship. Because if your blueprints are not aligned, you can literally be doing the five love languages to each other non-stop, but you’re not going to really go down to the much deeper things that you need to experience.

So when I read The Five Love Languages, just like anything else I read, it truly inspired me to really go deeper.

Because to me, if I read something, I always know that I can go even deeper into the subject. I can dive deeper, and I can help people out even more.

That’s why I do what I do because I want to help all of you really find the love that you’re looking for you in your life. The love that you deserve and the love that you desire. And the love that, well, has evaded you your entire life.

So that’s why I’ve got a love blueprint seminar coming up. You need to check it out right here.

It’s February in Los Angeles.

Here’s a special that I’m running: You buy a ticket and bring a friend for free. So you’re literally splitting the cost of the ticket. It’s a great deal because you’re going to go to a co-ed room and be able to express your unique blueprint, find out what your blueprint is, and learn how to communicate it to the members of the opposite sex.

You will not have to waste your time on bad dates any more. It’s probably the best dating insurance you’ll ever buy in your entire life, because on the first date you’ll understand exactly the type of person that you’re with. Check it out. I’d love to see you in February in Los Angeles.