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Welcome to this post-Valentine’s Day edition of Podcast Wednesday with David Wygant!
Today, Obi and I discuss the major difference between the sexes, especially when it comes to arguments or differences of opinion.
Click play, listen, and let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
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About David
1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.
I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.
Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.
David, this was very difficult to listen to as a woman. I feel like I have to defend us women but I'm only talking to my computer. Ugh! I persevered though because I really want to know how to relate to a man better. Hey, I willing to learn.
David, I just love what U have to say! You have enlightened & given me such valuable knowledge. The info is so important just on my personal presentation that people see & in relationships.........Again, thank you & I'll keep following you:) And, YES, I'm buying "Naked!" Di
Men seem to amaze me they will take their buddy home and when he clears the vehicle the guy will pull off...but when a woman takes her friend home she will wait there until she gets in...Women think with emotion and men are programmed to forget about situations...I have a bad habit of not forgetting about something and here comes out the boxing gloves me vs myself again with the monkey chatter in my head. Then here I go with the reliving situation over and over again in my head. Today the spell has broken and I am ready to go and find someone to share my life with...
Would love to get men and women in the same room together and have them listen and talk about each other. No holds barred. Just open communication. Why do we go to our "separate camps" when we want to discuss the opposite sex? Why can't we learn to communicate effectively with each other? Learn to respect each other and our differences?
This whole escalation to "jabing your balls" and "the bitching" wouldn't happen most of the time if men would "practice acknowledgement". The conversation would go a little like this, (he) "I did not realize that what I said would hurt you", "I was not trying to hurt you" and "I will try to not say insensitive things like that again". For us women, we keep bringing things up because we don't feel acknowledged nor do we feel like our hurt feelings matter. Guys seem to be better at "sweeping things under the rug", but women can't because we're more sensitive and feel deeper.
I am not sure about all of this. I just see different ways of dealing with communication. Testosterone makes men so focused. It is what it us there for. This hormone assists in hunting.
David are you able to link KJD's thoughts on this topic to the women's forum? I personally found what he had to say very insightful.
Totally with Jackie here. The problem is not the woman's memory. It's the man's harsh rebuttal.
I was having a discussion with a man I'm interested in recently. I said "There were things that happened; actual facts. You have one interpretation of what happened. I have a different interpretation of what happened."
All I got from him then was the deer-in-headlights look.
And you know what? What the heck is wrong with "reprimanding" you types when you actually did something *wrong*??
(Not in front of your friends, though. That's not cool. But I don't see anything wrong with calling men out in private when they've acted like absolute egregious primates -- in public. And sometimes it doesn't have anything to do with "what we could have done differently". Sometimes you all just want to act like you've lost your minds.)
I did like the fact that you took the time to do this podcast for us. Nice work. Thank you. :-)
I agree with David this year is naked year its all about making love i dont want to fight i just want to make love to my guy life is to short for the arguments and fighting i want my man to love me all over i love his touch and this year and every year and for years to come i understand men like no other woman in the world and to please him is what i do want to best so lets bring the loving on..
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