Was I Born with Game?

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By David Wygant November 9, 2012 153 Shares

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I hear the excuses all the time…

“That’s just not me, it’s not who I am.”

“I’m not tall or good looking. I don’t have money.”

“I’m not like you, I wasn’t born that way.”

Listen:

Nobody is born with anything but a big head and a clean slate.

So watch as I set the record straight:

Nowadays, dating is more competitive than it’s ever been — download this free report to learn 6 proven skills to stand apart & succeed in the modern dating world.

About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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John

Friday, November 9th, 2012

"Looks don't matter at all" ??? Completely ridiculous. No way you can tell me that a guy who is 5'4 and 250 lbs, has the same opportunities with women as a guy who is 6'2, athletic, and good looking. I'm not saying that looks are everything, but to say they don't matter at ALL is just plain absurd.

Hans

Saturday, November 10th, 2012

In a way, I agree with you, John. But then again, looks are just the hook. I know many guys who I consider good looking, but when they open their mouth, they are so boring, even I run from them. The trick is first of all to be really self confident, and to think of yourself as the hottest thing on Earth. And that is where David is right. In that state, looks do not matter one bit. How you accomplish that, well, that is the question. But if you do, it is totally irresistible. I remember you talking about the time when you worked in a bar - try to remember the state of mind you were in then. I bet you countless girls would love to sit behind the steering wheel of your semi truck, start the engine, feel the vibrations...I am just thinking out loud here. I used to think that I would only be attracted to Victoria's Secret models. I found out that it is more the female vibe that is attractive. The more of it, the more you are attracted. Heavy women can give it off, as well as ugly women; I haven't really figured out yet how looks and vibe are connected. There is a Dutch singer, Caro Emerald; she is heavy, but heck she is sexy. Check out this link and tell me if you agree. I am not sure if I am allowed to post YouTube links on David's blog, if you don't see the link, do a YouTube search for 'caro emerald back it up official video'. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jo1cyl0QbWo

Pam

Thursday, November 15th, 2012

Yes, Caro has a great vintage sound. I first found out about her on a retro blog that I follow, as the blogger was posting about "modern" singers with a retro sound. I have also been a huge fan for over 20 years of a Polish singer named Basia. She is very jazzy/samba sounding. I finally got to see her in concert a couple of years ago and she was awesome.

Nathalie

Thursday, November 15th, 2012

Wow I am a Caro Emerald fan now lol I checked out "The Man" and I LOVE it..I really love her music, its so modern jazzy sounding and her look is kind of 1940's ..so adorable..Bad Romance is my favorite song from Lady Gaga hehe and I just loved Caro's version too.. Funny I have never heard of her or music before..

Pam

Wednesday, November 14th, 2012

I like Caro Emerald. I have "That Man" on my playlist and she does a great version of Lady Gaga's "Bad Romance."

Nathalie

Saturday, November 10th, 2012

Thanks for sharing that video Hans, I really liked it, never heard of Caro Emerald..I agree she just exudes sensuality in her moves and her singing...She's curvy with extra minutes hehe and she owns it and works it..that is very sexy..(to me) I think this may be where looks and vibe are connected..The gorgeous model who doesn't believe she is all that beautiful and has low self esteem (this happens more than you think unfortunately) and the the woman who would be considered "less beautiful" but owns her beauty and and very high self love will give off that vibe and exude sensuality..

Matt

Friday, November 9th, 2012

Hey John I'm just going to say that looks really don't matter as much as you think. If your 5'4 and 250 lbs you probably don't take care of yourself and thus do not think very highly of yourself so your not going to be attracting women! Let me tell you this and I hope it inspires you! Just a little over 3 months ago I was absolutely horrible at actually attracting a girl through connecting with her. I was super nervous around girls I liked and could not talked to them for shit even if they talked to me I would be so in my head and nervous I would put off terrible energy and she would run! After 3 months of really listening to David's products and following his advice I have changed so much it's ridiculous!! Up until 3 months ago I have never really been on a real date with a girl! Now I'm dating and am talking to 4 girls who just 3 months ago I would never imagine even talking to them. And 1 of them it's getting pretty serious! I'm just saying David knows his shit and what he is talking about. I can't believe how much his stuff has helped me. Granted I have bad days, but my bad days are starting to become fewer as the months goes on!

John

Saturday, November 10th, 2012

Well, first off, I'm not 5'4 or 250 or even close to it. I'm demonstrating extreme ends of the spectrum. Like Hans said, looks are the hook. A woman knows the very second she lays eyes on you, wether or not she would consider you a "possibility". If she decides you are NOT a possibility, nothing you say, or do, is going to change her mind. Period. The guy who is 6'2 , athletic, etc.. is going to have a wider range of women consider him a possibility, and he will have more options, than the 5'4 guy. I'm not saying looks are everything, but when David says they don't matter AT ALL.. that's ridiculous. I've challenged David for YEARS now, to prove that looks don't matter at all, like he, and others in the seduction industry claim, and he has never been able to do it. Others here have challenged David to post a video of a short / fat guy successfully approaching, and attracting women.. someone HE has helped, and he has never done that either. We only see videos of him, coaches, and students that are tall / good looking.. or David talking to bus stop advertisements, cutouts of women, and pictures of women. (amazingly, they didn't talk back!)

Colin

Saturday, November 10th, 2012

I don't know what you're talking about, David. Of course I was born with game. I had two girls fighting over which one of them I was going to marry in pre-school. In retrospect, it turned out to be a good thing that I never let them put anything on paper because one got morbidly obese, and the other developed a serious drug habit. She's out of rehab now though, so you never know... At some point, I lost it though. Instead of just running around at 4 or 5 years old, saying whatever I wanted to a girl, playing around, and having fun, I got socialized into whatever it is that ruins men in America. I had to (and still have to) unlearn that. Meeting attractive women in college isn't hard for most guys, so this stuff works fast when you're 19, but it takes years to really unlearn your socialized tendencies and then relearn how to truly attract women. It's serious work that requires you to look at yourself, figure out your problems and insecurities, deal with those, decide to be a winner, go out, kick ass, and take names.

nick

Saturday, November 10th, 2012

I was watching Tyra Banks show a while back . They had some 20 and 30 ish women on .. good looking and they said they liked guys with a little more weight . maybe not a lot but mormal with a little bit of gut. Because guys who are really athletic and muscular sometimes cause pain . you know if shes riding the guy. Also they feel guys like that are full of themselves.

John

Saturday, November 10th, 2012

Nick.. what women say they want, and who they select, are completely different. I'm not saying you have to be tall, and perfect looking, but the tall / good looking guy has many more options. This is my evolution on the subject.. I used to think you HAD to be tall / perfect looking to even have a shot... I no longer believe that. I now know that different women find different things attractive. Most women are going to be into the tall / perfect / Tom Brady looking guys.. Some are going to be into heavy guys / short guys / etc. , but not nearly as many,, but they are out there. My thought on the subject now is you need to work on getting as fit, and as much in style as you possibly can, Then, you need to make the approach and guage her reaction to your approach, to determine wether or not she is one of the girls that might be into you. If she responds positively, go for the close. If she responds negatively, next her and move on. That's what I've been doing. I'm still working on the inner - confidence to go for the close,, but I'm getting there. Pickup should be easy.

Bobby

Tuesday, November 13th, 2012

Absolutely fuckin loved this blog

Andrew

Sunday, November 18th, 2012

it seems like most men are born with "game", with the social-skills, conversation-skills, in order to pull girls, women, know how to get a girlfriend, thats why so many guys lose their virginity, have their first girlfriend like late middle-school, or high-school, or just before they turn 20, it's like they were naturally, instinctively born knowing how to approach and talk to women, knowing how to get a girlfriend, meanwhile some other guys like me are natural born strugglers

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