Catchy title isn’t it?

Who would walk away from great sex?

I’m talking about toe curling…

Soul to soul, heart to heart, eyeball to eyeball sex. I’m talking about sex that you can feel through your entire body from head to toe.

I’m talking about some of the best sex you’ve ever had in your life, where you literally feel and see things you’ve never seen and felt before.

Sounds really great doesn’t it? God, imagine coming home to that every single night. Imagine coming home to a lover that just wants to please you in every way, shape and form, every single night, and give you the most amazing sex imaginable.

I got an e-mail recently from somebody who had been in a relationship for a couple years with somebody and the sex is exactly as I just described.

Some of the best sex he’s ever had in his entire life.

But, he says that it’s not emotionally where he needs to be.

Well, I know it’s hard when you find a lover that is just so amazing, and let me tell you, it’s been a challenge for me as well.

I’ve been with some lovers that were just unbelievable on all levels. Sex that just blew me away. I’ve always been a highly sexual, very passionate person.

I’m into pleasing women in many different ways.

I have loved the way women come since I was a young man.

And I want to have a woman who is highly orgasmic and really able to let go, let her body go. It captivates me beyond belief, because it makes me feel very powerful as a man.

It makes me feel as a man that I can do anything with her in bed and I can be the lover that she’s always wanted.

I’ve had the type of relationship.

And I’ve walked away from those relationships as well.

Several times in my life, I have.

Why? Because…

I know emotionally I either can’t give them what they need.

Or they can’t give me what I need.

It’s difficult to walk away from great sex.

But…

If you practice abundance in all areas of your life, the more you walk away from the things that you love because you know that it’s not everything you need in a relationship, the greater chance your going to meet somebody who is going to fulfill you on all the levels that you need including sexual.

My advice to this man when he e-mailed me was just that.

I always tell people all the time, don’t date your type, date your standard.

Imagine that your type already exist.

If you’re like me, you’ll crave a deep, passionate really self aware person who is just a sexual dynamite to the core on all levels. I know that exists. As a matter of fact, I have an abundant mentality around that.

I know that woman is out there, I know she’s waiting for me, and I know she’s ready to receive me.

I want someone who is my emotional equal. I’m her emotional equity, and that’s very important. Because I’m not going to be everybody’s cup of tea, nor is she going to be everybody’s cup of tea.

We’re going to recognize each other as two very different unique people and we’re going to, well, capitalize on that the second we meet.

So if you’re in a relationship and the sex is the thing that’s holding it together, then I strongly suggest you get clear, and you get abundant when it comes down to sex.

Because if the sex is good now, imagine what the sex will be like when you’re full on emotionally connecting to each other. Literally having a soulgasm between the two of you, because the two of you are on the same page emotionally, as well as sexually and spiritually.

As a matter of fact, I did a great podcast on soulgasms a while back. You can find it on my podcast page.

I’ve got another person I know with a relationship, having the best sex of his life.

But… with somebody who is not his emotionally equal at all, and yet he can’t seem to let go because he doesn’t have the abundant mentality around relationships that he should have.

And there’s no harm in that, because every person operates differently, and everybody needs to receive the lessons from the universe, God, on a much different level than others.

As far as I’m concerned, I’ll walk from great sex if everything else isn’t on the level I need it to be. Or, if I can’t give somebody all that they need, because that’s also doing an injustice to other people.

If I can’t be all that somebody needs and we’re having great sex, there’s no reason for me to hold on and hold her up, and not allow her to go on her path.

Because she needs to stay on that path. She’ll have great sex again, but she’ll also have somebody who loves and adores her on a level that she needs and she desires and deserves.

It’s only being fair.