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By David Wygant September 10, 2013 153 Shares

Nowadays, dating is more competitive than it’s ever been — download this free report to learn 6 proven skills to stand apart & succeed in the modern dating world.

David_Wygant_Story People ask me all the time how I got to where I am now. What made me want to become a dating and relationship coach? How did I start? Was I always good with women. Anyone that’s followed me for a while knows back in my 20’s I was no use with women at all.

I suffered approach anxiety, I didn’t know what to say, and I thought it was all about becoming great at pickup. That was until I realized something which changed my life forever.

Check out the video below and I’ll tell you what it was.

Nowadays, dating is more competitive than it’s ever been — download this free report to learn 6 proven skills to stand apart & succeed in the modern dating world.

About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Al E. Neuman

Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Getting laid is a piece of cake, that's what she said Otherwise you had some good things like how you described what being vulnerable is not

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John

Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

This was nothing but a bragging post.

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Bob

Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

What the hell is the difference from this 6 minutes of yammering about "being authentic",from the old standby of what every girl, mother, and idiot friend always says, who knows absolutely nothing about how to create attraction in a quality woman? Oh, just "BE YOURSELF" and everything will be fine. HA, what a load of crap. You wanna go out there and just "be yourself", go ahead, and have fun watching porno the rest of your life wondering why it doesn't work.

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mike

Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

To be honest this is the first time I've (personally) seen David talking candidly face to face to the camera without the bells and whistles. We've been following this blog for a while now Bob and John so we know David. Don't forget there are new guys tuning in all the time. I think it's a good idea for them to see something like this. Bob, you're not a fan of being yourself? Is this because you havenn't had much success getting women that way? Could it be because you're (or come across like) an arrogant, sexist, angry old chap who openly advises just getting women drunk to get them to bed because it's "not worth your time" to court them properly? I don't agfree with everything David does or say by a longshot. I'm certainly not a fan boy but surely being a new confident, alpha version you yourself isbetter than being some dick who just spews out pickup lines non?

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Bob

Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

If all you have to do is just "be yourself", you sure as hell don't need to pay a dating guru to tell you that. You can ask any Jane, Dick, or Harry, and they will tell you that, for free. If you have problems, low confidence, and lack the skills, and knowledge, on how to attract women, "being yourself" will fail every time. "Being authentic" only works after you have spent years learning how to undue 'being yourself" with all your wrong conceptions of how to attract women, that society has incorrectly taught men from the time we were babies. David speaks of this quite a bit, so until you unlearn and your incorrect ideas of what being a man is, you can never "be authentic". I have no trouble meeting, dating, and getting women, because I have learned how they think, what they want, and how to create attraction with them. Noing that, I have no desire to settle down with any ONE of them ever again. Been there done that twice, and lived with many for years as well! You all seem to think we are all on here to find our 'soul mate" or a wife, or girlfriend. I want none of that! I enjoy being able to talk to them now, and know exactly what they are thinking, no what to say to them next, and how to take the proper actions needed to get them to go out, have fun, and just spend some pleasant time with, until I am ready to meet another one. I want no ties with a woman. I go where I want, when I want, and only need female companionship when I desire it, and that is the trick. Learning how to have it when You want it, not having to have it all the time, and putting up with the negatives of having a female all the time for the times when you only want them some of the time.

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Ross T

Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Great comments David mate In my 30s now and can totally relate to what your saying. Life is all about growing and evolving into a better and well rounded genuine open person where you're constantly fighting against your demons be that insecurity lack of confidence past history. I consider myself like a rain forest constantly revitalising and growing but always with a state of modesty. Life is about connecting not performing some routine on people and women, geuninely connect with them and dont give a shite about the outcome. Its tough attitude to have but if i can do it and change and grow and work on my skills and always try to improve my personality and character wise then anyone can. Ross.

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Brad

Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

This is a fantastic blog ! I think the main misunderstanding regarding the concept of 'being yourself' is that it does NOT mean to openly display your insecurities or any other hangups. It means going after what you want, and going after it like the devil goes after poor souls. Women love that, when a guy really wants them, and wants them badly. I know a lot of guys, and I might even include myself, who play it cool, who even fake indifference. This is just boring, and it is boring not only to women, but to men as well. People are dying to see the real you, trust me. Just think of your favorite football player, do you want him to be indifferent and distant during that interview ? Hell no, you want him to be fired up, confident, you want him to be the one who is simply going to win that game. You want him to look you in the eye, and you want him to be the one who leads his team to victory. Translate that to dealing with women, and you become irresistible.

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stephen

Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Thanks David. You never fail in helping me become a better person whenever I log into your blog.

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