Nothing makes me happier than seeing a smile on my little girl’s face.

There are things that I do with her that, well, I would never do on my own.

Part of being an amazing dad and an amazing parent is to do the things that your kids really love because it’s not about you. It really is about them.

Every amazing thing that you do that they love is another memory that they’re going to think about when they get older. They’re going to think about the time dad took them to the summer fair.

You ate cotton candy together. You both went home with sticky fingers and a stomach ache and you had so much fun.

They’re going to remember the trips to the beach and you sitting there by the water building them a sand castle.

They’re going to remember the first time you ever took them on a plane.

They’re going to remember so many things.

The Father Daughter Bond

I remember I dated this woman a couple of years back and her dad would always take her away on weekends. That was their thing to do.

He’d take her to Palm Springs.

He’d take her to Santa Barbara.

They’d drive to San Diego.

Get on a plane and go to Mexico.

The two of them would hang. He would teach her about life, business, love, everything.

They had an incredible, beautiful bond. I remember when I went out with her, she was one of the healthiest women I’ve ever met. Her relationship with her father was so healthy, so the way she thought of men was extremely healthy.

Treat Her With Respect

The way a father treats a daughter is a precursor to the way a daughter is going to want to be treated in her relationships moving forward.

When you treat your daughter as a princess, when you treat your daughter as an incredible, beautiful person, and you fill her life with so much love, she’s going to have an incredible respect and an incredible feeling when she meets men. She’s going to know quality men over the assholes.

For all the women reading this post right now, think about your relationship with your father and then think about the type of men you’ve attracted in your life. If you had a relationship with your father that wasn’t that healthy, you’ve probably gone out with guys that were assholes because you’re programmed to date what you think you deserve, instead of what you desire.

Make Your Kids Feel Special

So recently, Josh, who works with me, brought a friend of his over so she could help out on some videos and just give some feedback for men to learn more about women.

She said something to me off camera that I thought was very magical: Her dad was her best friend.

So I asked her, “What were the three things that really made your dad make you feel special?”

This is a must for any fathers out there. For all of you who have a daughter or daughters, all of you who are thinking of starting a family. Even down the road, when you meet someone special, if you think you’re going to have kids, you need to really think about how to treat a child when you have one.

This is one of my favorite videos I’ve done in a long time. It means a lot to me because of the love that I have for my little girl and the love that I feel whenever I see her. One day, maybe she’ll be interviewed on a couch by some guru and she’ll be talking about her dad, and I would love for her to talk about me the way this woman is talking about her dad. And it really is all up to me, to be present, full of love, and amazing to this beautiful little girl.