Black friday 2011. A great day to go out and people shop this weekend. The stores are going to jam packed with many opportunities to meet men and women.

Plus I think all of them will be on sale, this weekend is a great time to get a deal on a potential mate. Do you want to know my number one way to meet people today? The message is hidden in this blog so you better read it carefully.

Today I want you to reflect on what you think about the first thing in the morning.

What did you think about this morning?

Every morning when you wake up, if you’re thinking about yesterday, what happened yesterday, and what went wrong yesterday, then you’re basically in Yesterday Zone.
When you wake up in the morning, you have to think about what an amazing, beautiful, incredible day you’re about to experience.

Everything you experience each day is brand new.
Tell yourself, “Everything I experience today, every new person who I meet today, every new conversation I have with a person I already know, is a brand new experience in my life.”
Why? Because you can’t blame any of the people today for anything that happened to you yesterday or the day before.

That means that every woman you go up and talk to each day is an invitation to a brand new experience.
Tell yourself, “Every woman that I talk to, I want to find new out things about, because if I’m open and I’m curious, I’m going to learn something about myself. If I learn something about myself every day, it means that I’m growing as a person every day.”

The more people that you can find out about and experience, the more you will grow as a person.

A great mantra that I want you to have every single morning when you wake up is, “There’s a lesson to be learned every single day.”
Go find that lesson. Be almost child-like, and be so excited about looking for what lesson is out there for you to find and uncover today. If you think about every conversation that you had today with a new person, you’ll find that there was a lesson to be learned in it.

Really think about the conversations you had and you will find that lesson: “Bingo, I found it in the last woman that I spoke to in the book store!” Things like, “I stopped listening to what she said after the first 2 minutes, and I lost her… Lesson learned for next time.” Or, “I found out she’s going through the same type of relationship issue that I’m going through right now, so we understood one another and I got a new perspective.”

Life is about sharing, giving, and experiencing. The more you give of yourself, the more people around you will give back. When you are the leader, be the leader of giving, and give to people. So if you give a lot, they’re going to give a lot. If you lead and give to the women you come across every single day, the women you come across will follow and the right ones will give you everything you could ever want.

So tell me, what was the hidden gem that you can now walk up and talk with anyone about?