A couple of weeks ago I wrote a blog post called, “The Power Of Investing In Yourself.”

Almost a week later, everyone was still talking about what I charge an hour for coaching. Some of you will never pay that kind of money, and can’t imagine anyone paying $300 an hour for a dating coach. My coaching IS $300 an hour, and I’m worth every penny. As far as I’m concerned, I should charge even more. You see, as an entrepreneur, and as someone who believes in themselves, one of the first things you do when you start your business is to answer the question, what do you value your time per hour?

In order to be successful, you have to value your time per hour. You guys are fixated on all the wrong things from that blog post. I read your comments. I don’t have time to react to all of them because I’m busy doing other things, but I do read all your comments, and I do respect your opinions. That said, so many of you have such limiting beliefs it’s unreal!

Who cares what I charge? Who cares if you don’t think I deserve it? Who cares if you think people are crazy to pay it? It doesn’t matter. That wasn’t the point in the blog. The point of that post was to get you to start thinking about life on a much deeper level. Instead, you guys became obsessed with dating coaches, and what they charge.

Some of the crazy comments about how dating coaching isn’t an industry, and that real estate is an honest industry. IT workers only get $100 an hour so why should dating coaches earn more. The whole point was about investing in yourself. It was about doing the little simple things for yourself to make your life amazing.

It’s not about the money. It’s about making your life unique, special, and amazing. You only have one life. You have one shot. The way you value your time is your choice. I respect the guy that works in McDonalds for $10 an hour as much as the consultant that charges $10,000. It’s whatever the market will bear as one of you said correctly. The guy who makes $10,000 is different to the guy who works at McDonalds because the guy at McDonalds doesn’t believe he can make $10,000 an hour. Years ago there was a guy who did seminars about millionaire mindsets, and one of the first things he taught me was this…

You have to decide how you value your time. What do you want to make, and what do you value your time?

To be successful in life you have to do that; even if it seems like a ridiculous figure right now. For instance, if you’re used to earning $30 an hour, earning $100 an hour probably seems outrageous. It’s all you’re used to. Change your beliefs. Change your mindset. Change your outcome, and learn to dream big. But when you dream big, you need to be sure you have the work ethic to make it happen. If you think you can reach your goals. Then live it, breathe it, be passionate about it, and be damn good at it. 

I know a guy that charges $1,000 an hour just to talk to him. He’s an insurance sales guy. I think to myself, “I would never pay him $1,000.”

But I know many people have, and they’ve learned so much because those 60 minutes were so precious to them. They learned so much, and they’ve all benefited immensely in their business. It’s all about beliefs. You’ll read about beliefs are all over this blog, and that’s why I write this every single day. That’s why I put keep putting out programs to help you with different dating and relationship issues. If you don’t feel like buying them, other people do. If you think they’re overpriced or underpriced or whatever it is, I don’t care.

Change your beliefs, and change your mindset. Life is limitless. Stop limiting yourself. I read the excuses every day. “I’m 5″6′, I can’t read women. I’m a little overweight. I can’t meet women. I can’t meet men because no man over the age of 50 likes me, and I’m 61.”

It’s unreal. The limiting beliefs are non-stop. I don’t have any limiting beliefs at all, and when I do have a limiting belief, I work on it. I call myself out on my shit. That way I no longer have those limiting beliefs. I do this every single day with myself. I make sure I call myself out because I want to live the most amazing life every single day. Is my message getting through to you, or are we going to spend another week obsessing about what I charge? Once again, you may not think it’s worth it, but tons of people do. The people that do think it’s worth it get a lot from it. People tell me all the time how their life is infinitely better after they work with me.

I can’t wait to see your comments today. I’m all eyes. Let’s see if we can keep this blog about the overall theme and message, instead of about what David Wygant charges per hour.