The Perpetual Turn-Off
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Let’s talk about behaviors that can really turn people off. Passive aggressive behavior is one of those behaviors.
We have all been passive aggressive in our dating lives. You will think, “I am not going to call them. I am going to wait for them to call me. Even though I always call them in the morning, this time I think I won’t call them to see if they miss me and really want to talk to me.”
This type of thought process continues even once you’re well into the dating process with someone. You will think, “Even though I want to kiss them, I’m going to wait for them to come and kiss me so I can see if they really want to kiss me.”
Do you realize that when you engage in passive aggressive behavior like this that is never works? If you wait for a kiss, the other person is going to feel your energy waiting for a kiss and they are not going to want to kiss you. That is going to leave the two of you at a draw and a standstill.
Let’s say the person you email first every day, you decide you are not going to email. They are going to feel you playing that game, and they are not going to email you back.
Passive aggressive behavior is ugly. It is one of the ugliest things in the world.
It is attention-seeking behavior. It is also gutless behavior. People who are passive aggressive tend to be gutless because they are so afraid of what other people say.
They are always self-conscious and looking for approval from other people. At the same time, they are just so afraid that if they say something to rock the boat or say something what they really feel, then all hell is going to break loose.
Passive aggressive behavior is something you need to avoid. If you want something in life, you need to ask for it. Don’t play the passive aggressive game with somebody.
If you want to call someone, call them. If you want to ask someone out, ask them out. If you want a kiss, go for it.
Stop waiting and hoping that other people are going to feel your energy and give you what you want. It’s a sign of weakness, and it’s called passive aggressive behavior.
It’s something that a lot of us have been guilty of doing. I know that I have pulled it at times in my life. What I finally realized is that every time I have tried passive aggressive behavior, it totally backfires.
You don’t ever get the desired result you want by engaging in passive aggressive behavior. It is a turn-off to anybody who is on the receiving end of that behavior from you.
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