middle age online datingEvery day in my inbox this email comes in…

“David, my life is great. I’d just like someone to enjoy it with. One of my problems is I’m 42 years old, and most the men attracted to me online are in their 60’s.”

It’s amazing isn’t it?

Another beautiful woman of 42 years old, who has to deal with older guys chasing them online. Well guess what. Get used to it. When you’re online, you’re always going to get the older guys pursuing you relentlessly. 

When you’re 25 years old and you’re online dating, you better prepare yourself for the 50 year old guys coming on to you non-stop. If you’re 42 years old, get ready for the 65-year-old men. You can’t do anything about it. It’s just the way online dating goes. For some odd reason, older guys truly believe the best way to meet younger women is using online dating.

Most these guys would never approach a younger woman in person. They’re too afraid. So they go online where they feel braver. The trouble is they can be really pushy. They email non-stop. They constantly try to convince you to go out with them. That’s why it’s important you make your age range requirements clear on your dating profile. If you don’t want tons of emails from men in their 60’s, say you’re only interested in men between the age of 30-50 whatever it is.

Personally, I suggest you go up to 10 years older than you. You could even go up 20 years if you like older guys. It just depends where you’re at in your life and what you want, but 10 is normally a good number. Don’t get frustrated, because out of all those emails you get every week, I’m sure there’s one or two that are decent. Not just that, but start emailing men yourself. Don’t wait for men to chase you.

The best thing about looking for love online is you can go man shopping every night. For me online dating for women is like having “Manazon.com.”

Go for it. If you spot a guy you’re attracted to, send him a little message and see what happens. It’s so easy. Life is about going for what you want, and online dating makes it much easier when it comes to men. You can sit watching repeats of “Sex and The City,” nibble on chocolate, and see what comes into your inbox!

You might just meet the man of your dreams!