The 3 Perfect Things to Say to ANY Woman

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By David Wygant July 27, 2012 537 Shares

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There she is:

The hottest woman you’ve seen all week.

You want to talk to her but the monkey chatter has already begun…

…and you’re at a loss for words!

Stop it.

Let situations like this be a things of the past! Watch this video and find out the 3 most perfect things you can say to her in ANY situation.

Watch now:

Nowadays, dating is more competitive than it’s ever been — download this free report to learn 6 proven skills to stand apart & succeed in the modern dating world.

About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Bob

Friday, July 27th, 2012

That's a great video. It is what I naturally do all day long. If there is a romantic connection, the girl will give you the little signs, that guys in the know, will notice, and the conversation will escalate from there. If there isn't, you just got in some practice, and will feel even more confident on each following approach. Three cheers for the guru... Hip Hip hooray!

Kaveh

Friday, July 27th, 2012

Wow, one of my favorite sentences from his video "There is not perfect thing to say" So true, so true!

Kevin

Friday, July 27th, 2012

I already am clever and I don't use ky.. I do that shit dry!

John

Friday, July 27th, 2012

Hey David.... I just wanted to say... I think that is actually the BEST video I have ever seen you put out, hands down. Finally real, solid, useful, advice about meeting people. That was REALLY helpful, and if I wasn't so damn tired, I'd go out and use that right now. (And NO, I'm not "back". I just wanted to say that. )

David Wygant

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

John Come back I need to bust your balls about the Bengals in a month!

bob

Friday, July 27th, 2012

John, Don't leave the blog. You have been here too long. You have learned so much and made so much progress. Don't let a few misunderstanding judgmental fools affect the way you feel about yourself and the real progress you are making. They are self righteous, conceited, bigots, who should be ignored. They think that by just saying happy words, thinking happy thoughts, and writing lol, haha hehe smiley face bullshit nonsense, that that is all that is needed to "make real, meaningful progress". They have no idea how the "real world" works. The ups and downs, realistic living, getting ahead,and how to learn to cope, without letting it get you down, other than writing happy words and saying how great, and happy they are, while insulting those of us that are realists, and trying to make "realistic, substantial" changes in our lives, instead of their nondescript happy words with no depth. Don't let "averageness" and ignorance, affect real lifechanging progress, that is a very slow process, when done correctly. Best of luck, in whatever you decide!

David Wygant

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

John I agree dont leave. Especially when football season is so close!!

Jeremiah

Friday, July 27th, 2012

then why did you bother to post?

Leanne

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

"Hello" is a perfectly acceptable pick up line!

JR

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

Yes, but hello doesn't give you anything to continue the conversation with. I'm pretty sure any guy can simply say hello, what most have issues with is what to say AFTER the hello. What David showed is a good way to dive right into a conversation easily without having to think all that much.

Nathalie

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

After hello, followed with How are you doing today?..I have picked up there with a smile and the conversation continues.. As David says in the video, you can say "Hey, how are you doing today?" and just really listen, its all about being real..So really what ever comes across as authentic really works..

Nathalie

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

I agree..hello is simple and just as obvious!

Mike

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

What is so attractive, what you say or being honest from the heart? Obviously, David has a great point here!

Nathalie

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

Honestly for me, I myself enjoy the "shorter" things guy say lol, like "Hi there beautiful" always gets a smile from me...and a nice way to start a conversation.. Or at a bar an "older" guy simply asked me, "enjoying your drink, sweetheart" hehe it made me smile and talk to him since it seemed sincere and gentlemanly.. I had a guy once comment on my coat, it was an unusual coat and asked me if I made it myself..and that started a conversation..

Collin

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

A woman's going to pick up on the fact that you're talking to her to try to validate yourself just the same as she's going to pick up on you just wanting to have sex. When you're concerned with what being with a woman can do for you, it's going to chase her off. However, if all you want ultimately comes down to, "Hey, let's get to know each other and have a little fun," you're going to see a lot more success. Stop being some emotional leech who is trying to find that magical woman to save you from your emo music and just go have some fun.

Leon

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

I personally think "hello" is a luke-warm introduction. A situational approach is much better. For instance, you're in a store, you can walk up and talk about the weather, whatever she's looking at, inviting her to lunch and getting to know you, the economy, etc. But before any of that, it takes at least some social skills. Not everyone will be ready for boot-camp style "get out there and talk to women" kinda attitude.

Collin

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

If someone's not ready to "get out there and talk to women," they need to get the sand out of their vagina and do it anyways. They're not going to develop social skills by sitting in their dorm room and playing video games.

Collin

Sunday, July 29th, 2012

I may be a condescending ass, but I'm a condescending ass that got out there, met women, and improved my social skills. The number of people I've met just this summer is easily in the triple digits. "If I can't be good at it from the beginning, I'm not going to try," is a recipe for never getting anything done. Your conversations may be full of tension and desperation in the beginning, but the point isn't that you need to be smoother than James Bond from day one. The point is to practice and get better. The more anyone practices, the better they will get. Sure they'll fail a lot, but so what? It'll get easier in time because they actually had the balls to try and the endurance to not give up.

Bobby M

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

It's not that easy though, because forcing yourself out of your social bubble can cause a lot of tension and desperate energy, which is a turnoff. And I doubt you're going to get someone to take your advice and be chill about everything, if you're a condescending ass about it (whattup David).

Bobby M

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

Curel is where it's at.

Shane

Saturday, July 28th, 2012

When approaching/talking to women, I try to think of what women have said when they have approached me. Generally, when women come up to talk to me, they will comment on my jacket (a leather with patches and pins I made myself) or they'll comment on a book I'm reading asking if it's good. That's the stuff I ask women about. Interesting clothing, jewelry, books, whatever. I'm a notoriously bad bowler, and when I go bowling with buddies, I usually catch women laughing after I slip and throw a gutter ball (I swear I don't do this on purpose). Then I'll go over and talk to them asap. I'll razz them and ask if they can do better (they usually do the next turn) and so they get to razz me. It's all in good fun, I'm not going over there with the intention of picking them up. If she's interesting, I'll push it and see what happens, but if not I don't care. I enjoy solitude and reading books and such. Those are one person activities and I'm a big "me time" person. This definitely helps my outlook and don't give a shit attitude because I'm not bullshitting. I really don't care if they reject me. Maybe try commenting on general things like that?

Tom

Sunday, July 29th, 2012

This video just came at the perfect time in my life, everything I've been learning, paying attention too, you just summed up in 2 minutes. I feel like I know all I need to know, and its all so simple!! Life is good and it's getting better, exciting times!

Manny

Sunday, July 29th, 2012

Sand in vagina is such a stark image. Where do you come up with these? Sex on the beach? When it comes to approaching women I think guys have to play off the momentum and that momentum isn't exactly what you think. There can be several awful approaches and those can still inspire the guy as much as a successful approach can. Try it, crash like Icarus for daring to go too close to the sun if that's the level you're working from. Hey at least you flew and you had one hell of ride doin' it right? You're still alive after that car wreck of an approach. Now do it again!

bob

Monday, July 30th, 2012

Vacation observation. It is so easy to get laid by a strange woman, who you just met,and barely know, while on vacation, and she is so easy and feels safe that no one will find out. But, meet one that is really into you, wants a future with you, and that same girl will give it up to every acquaintance she comes into contact with, with no question. But, The poor guy, who really appreciates her, wants her attention and love, is the last one to get the sex, and has to wait while she is giving it up to six other guys she doesnt give a shit about. I tell you, women have some screwed up ways of thinking....And don't even tell me this is BS. I have seen it over and over.

Nathalie

Tuesday, July 31st, 2012

Not all women are like that..Women who want to have a happy solid relationship only wants and appreciate the guy who adores her..

Zach

Monday, July 30th, 2012

Deeyam Manny, that neck is massive. Bob, your misogyny is showing as usual. Perhaps if fewer peopled committed bias fallacies to serve the purpose of a rhetorical device, we'd get fewer ignorant statements such as yours. I'd say you should research some statistical evidence for your ridiculous claims but I doubt you can adequately assess it, judging by your awful interpretation a while ago (if my memory serves me correctly) of a statistic of the number of men who discovered their child isn't actually theirs. You used this statistic to say that a certain number of children aren't the son or daughter of his or her father. The number of men is 1/3 right? That's the number of men who suspect their child isn't theirs and got tested, not the actual number of men who aren't the fathers of their children. If a man can easily tell his child isn't his, why would he get tested? The real number is most likely much, much lower. I'll watch the video later when I have time.

bob

Monday, July 30th, 2012

Idiot reply as usual, by our misquieded "scholar" of the blog. The message I quoted was weeks ago, and it was not 1/3 of men got their child tested, because they were suspicious. It is a fact that 1/3 of men are raising children, assuming it is theirs, when in reality, (if they were tested) would not be theirs, but from a fling, or affair, as I stated above. It is so easy to have one, when the man is away, with a strange woman, who knows it is safe, and will never get caught.Women are so horney, and want something new, that they will seek out ways to find fresh "meat", without getting caught. No man wants to know the truth about their kid not being theirs, and will always assume they are, unless proven otherwise, beyond a shadow of a doubt, and even then resist believing it. It would ruin everything they hold dear about their marriage, trust, and beliefs about their (presumed) precious children. You will never get men to actually test their children, as they don' really want to know the truth, or it would upset their whole fantasy life.

bob

Monday, July 30th, 2012

Here is a quick google study showing up to 30%, but I have seen many studies showing at least 35% of fathers raising children they presume are theirs, are from another mans semen... August 2005 A study from Liverpool John Moores University in the UK has found up to 1 in 25 fathers are unknowingly raising another man's child. The research, reported in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, was drawn from studies of men and women wanting proof of paternity from testing as well as studies based on genetic health screening. The researchers in Liverpool found that rates of cases where a man was not the biological father of his children, in some studies to as much as 30%.

manny

Tuesday, July 31st, 2012

i suspect that that study is heavily biased towards english women. remember england is the land that produced graham greene, lady chatterley, and some very tawdry 1950s bw films about married noble women gettin it good by working class lotharios. haha i love england. (zach thanks i work out hard)

Shane

Tuesday, July 31st, 2012

There are just as many dysfunctional men as there are women. There's no point in generalizing. Some women are better than some men, and some men are better than some women. There's no "better" gender. We're all individuals.

Nathalie

Tuesday, July 31st, 2012

This felt good to read..so true :-D

Zach

Wednesday, August 1st, 2012

You cannot have scientific evidence for the fact that 1/3 of men are unknowingly raising another man's child. That study cannot take place. The study is that 30% of men who test themselves for the paternity of their presumed child aren't the biological father. I cannot believe you are failing to understand this. That says 1 in 25, I don't see how that helps your point. Again paternity test. Most men are so clearly the father of their child they have no reason to get tested.

bob

Wednesday, August 1st, 2012

The researchers in Liverpool found that rates of cases where a man was not the biological father of his children, in some studies to as much as 30%. Can't get much planer than that jack ass. And you are wrong, as you usually are with your hypersuperiority responses, trying to impress the blogs readers, into believing your mental prowess. By the way, that will not get you laid buddy. Your inexperience and ignorance continues to embarrass you, and make others think of what a foolish little man trying to prove his intelligence, and superiority, when there is obviously none by continually attacking me, even when you are ignored. I happen to know about 15 guys that I have discussed this with. out of the 15 four admit to having kids that they know are theirs, and their "exgirlfriends" did not tell their new men, that it is not their kid, and let them raise them as if they were. They all kept this secret even today after someof them over 20 years...Small study, yes, but none the less, a study.

deepak

Monday, October 29th, 2012

This is it... David Wygant, your work is paying off in mumbai india...if you come here sometime, it'll be my pleasure to show you around town and introduce you to real indian women..not the indian ones in new york or california... Thank you for transforming my universe

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