Want A Perfect Date Idea? Take Her To Target

I love to go to Target! Somebody wants to take me to Target? Will be ready in half an hour!!! LOL

The $1.29 Date. I love it. Great idea D! I like to run errands with my dates, and I'll make her my "sex-retary" and have her be in charge of organizing the errands we'll run that day. It's fun role-playing for both of us, and I still get my shit done! What other non-traditional date ideas can we come up with?

LOL I Love it! You know, you are right about the restaurant dates. I find watching someone eat to be the most boring of times you could have. Target---lets go!!:) I am a walks distance to our Target and I am there far too much, but I like when they put the new little stuff in the front shelves as you walk in---oh and by the way-they range from .99-$3.00, so you should not have a problem with the $1.29. Hey, you can find some neat stuff! I had a Luau and found SOOO much stuff there to decorate for this party, and it ended up being the bomb.:) I am still getting asked when is my next party---have no clue! Good idea David. Some women would scoff at this, but if you are wanting to get to know the person it shouldn't matter if it is a dinner date, Target or sitting in the middle of an empty football stadium! I say this is right "Target" for a fun date! LOL (Couldn't resist that one;)

Umm that shoul say right ON Target there. The word "ON" really is needed;) Like that "sex-retary" idea Uberman. That is a new role play I haven't heard of, but good idea.

Great Video David!!! I could not agree with you more, that choosing dinner for a first date is the worst idea ... watching each other chew and conducting what amounts essentially to an interview is horrible! There are so many great things to talk about at a place like Target ... not to mention, there is always good people watching when you do something like this, so that's always a good source of things to talk about :)

That is right, Pamela! What kind of fun it coud be to sit and watch each other chewing?

Hey Uberman Here are a bunch of more non boring dates. 50 best non traditional dates that u should try DATING TIPS: Can't think of anything FUN to do? Here are a couple of ideas to do with some friends, or that special "friend" you won't admit you are actually more then just "friends" with: -go X-Bowling (a.k.a. disco bowling) -pack a basket full of yummy treats and go to a pretty park and have a picnic -go to Starbucks and grab a latte -rent canoes and paddle around in the nearest lake/river -play tennis -get a pick-up game of basketball going w/ the boys (or girls, or both) -go to a place where you can paint your own dishes or cups, and create a masterpiece with some of your friends to cherish for years to come -go on a ferry ride without your car and just walk around when you get to the other side -get all dressed up in your fresh gear from when you were 8 and go to 80's Night @ DV8 -go in someone's hot tub -dress up all fancy and go to a play, opera, symphony, or just a nice place for dinner -play Twister or other fun board games from back in the day -go see some Improv -play in the rain (sometimes it actually rains around here) -play Truth or Dare (doesn't always have to be about kissing!!! (Although that is fun sometimes)) -play Red Rover, Duck Duck Goose, or other fun games outside -go for a walk -have a dance party @ someone's house -take the bus to random places, get off, then study or read -watch the sunset...................then/or watch the sunrise -go to the zoo -go to old diners anytime after midnight -go camping -bake together (deserts are really fun!) -go to the laser show, or the IMAX -go to the top of a really tall building downtown -go to a baseball or hockey game -go to the golf course (it is just using your 9 irons and putters, really easy and fun!) -Go to the circus -Go sightseeing in your own city, pretending to be tourists -Have fun at an amusement park -Visit an agricultural or environmental tourist attraction in your city. IE: biodome, aquarium, planetarium, arboritarium, botanical gardens, etc. -Minigolf -Take your date to a haunted house -Before Halloween, why not pick out a pumpkin together and carve it -Take your date to a comedy club -White water rafting is an EXCELLENT idea! -Take a hay ride together -Go to a sports game (professional, college, or even a random highschool's) -Go clam digging or muscle/perwinkle picking together -Take a ride in a hot air balloon -Go horseback riding -Take a one-time class together -Go ice skating on a deserted pond -Go for a hike -Take a short pottery making class together -Try shooting pool -Go on a tour of a local industry -Visit a museum -In-line skating -Go to a drive-in movie -Go to a dance -Go for a drive in the country -Go out on a double date -Buy a canvas and paint a picture together

So, since we all seem to agree that this non-dinner type of date is a great idea, here's a question for you David: Since men generally choose the where & when of a first date, how does a woman like myself get out of the first date dinners and into a first date Target run????

Pamela Tell them that you would prefer a non traditional date......dinner is great for a 3rd date and you would prefer getting to know each other in a more casual way.

Great list!!! Twister would probably end up to be the funnest of all, but as far as the fantasy date, I am mesmerized bu the thought of going on a hot air baloon ride. Picnic with canoes;) This list I need to copy, because I plan on doing me some dating or "non-dating') I like that better, The non-date. Still like that sex-retary idea

That sex-retary role would be fun!!! Lots of DICKtation to be done;) LOL

Play Twister? Does anyone on this blog want to play Twister with me? Joan? Pamela? The Uberman? :)

Good date suggestion David! Ha Twister hugh? I have played that 2 times and that can be a workout in itself:) Joan, I think I am with you on that hot air baloon ride. Sounds intriguing to me. Too bad what goes up must come down;) Ha ha Looks a little calm here today compared to the week. Ha Like the sex-retary idea Uberman! Thats a new one. I see a few of these ladies like that idea as well. Either one of you can be my sex-retary and we can start with a long letter of "dick-tation.";)) The mind of a "Naughty Girl" never stops does it?! Ha Love it. Well, have a good weekend all. I'm out

Nice comment Jacob:) So Dr. Fenner you want to fly up up and away in my beautiful balloon?;) It would be really cool---I think? Who knows, I might be afraid of heights and not know it until too late. lol "Naughty Girl" is "up" for the adventure one of these days:) Where is everybody? I guess its the weekend hugh? Darkpoet, you are usually here everyday. U doin ok?? Inquiring minds want to know!?! Well, time to go. Have a great night everyone. Have fun---be safe:))

On of my favorite "creative dates," was getting some coloring books and crayons - and having fun coloring! It was memorable. The hot air ballooning is fun! Been several times!

Brian, thats a good idea! I think anything where you can act silly, stupid, like a kid---you know? You can print coloring pages off the internet as well:) I'm envious of the hot air baloon ride:( No,I am happy you got to go and have fun. One day I will go. I think it would be cool to fly over wine country. Just bored here, "stuck" at home and thought I'd give some input for what it's worth:)

This is such a weird coincidence! The guy I am seeing called me up for an impromptu "date" of running errands Friday. I was in as soon as he mentioned Target! *lol* He wanted to grab a shirt and tie for work, so it was fun to just see him in a more natural element. We joked around in the men's underwear section (I referred to them as panties *lol*) before getting down to the business of our mission. It was great to see him in a more "normal" situation than when we're at dinner or having drinks. We're heading to the movies tomorrow, but I'm DEFINITELY going to refer to the list you posted for our next date, David. I already wanted to go to a drive-in (fortunately, I found some nearby!) and we did the comedy club last night. But this list can keep us going for awhile :) P.S. We talked a bit about our sexual appetites during our last date and I know this conversation will continue over the next couple of weeks. He seems very open to discuss whatever, which made me feel more at ease. I'm so happy I found this site when I did!

Hey, this is "home alone with Joan;" Entering into the---still early f'in hours of the night---I have burning questions needing to be answered! lol Is there a Drive In Movie left standing, still??? Are there men who really just enjoy a nice country drive, or riding horses on the beach in the light of a full moon? Would the pottery class be as sexy as the movie Ghost? Is there honestly a man who would like to bake deserts and lick the beaters with you? Would a man actually like to cuddle in the same sleeping bag with you while camping? Is there really a man who would sit/lay and watch the sunset to sunrise with you? Does anyone really invite you to their hot tub anymore? Biggest question---is there ONE man on this blog who would even take the time to answer ONE of these questions??? I am going to have to bet--- not. I hope there is, but I have a feeling if any get answered, it will be by a woman. These are the thoughts and fantasies that go through womens minds. Damn am I bored! Oh, you could tell? You are very perceptive:)) Well, this is Joan, in need of a bone, with a moan and groan in any tone, signing off for the night. Keep it hot an give it ALL you got!!:) Buenos Noches

I know I'm not a man, but I'm still awake so I'll help! First of all, if you head to www.drive-ins.com you can look for them by state and whether or not they are still open. I live in Philly and there is 1 left in Jersey but a ton are throughout PA that are still open. Also, Philly does outdoor movies/drive-ins during the summer...other cities probably do the same. I think some of the men I've seen on this site will reply if they read your comment. We always get some good info from Jacob and Darkpoet...not to mention David! I think that SOME guys do think of doing some of these things, however, I think some guys are also concerned with their image and afraid ideas like that will seem "corny." Ahh Joan, we've gotta get you hooked up! What's the story, there?

Thanks Jaime. I appreciate your help. Yea, I would have to say Jacob, Darkpoet and David are my favorites! Jacob has an extra special big heart and always has something good to say:) Not that the other two don't, but he relates to me verbally the most. He is one that IS into these kind of dates. Well Jaime, without too much boring drawn out details, the story on my non-hookup? I have been trying to make a marriage work for 20+ years, the whole time having a cheating player for a spouse. He is good looking and cannot say no to beautiful women, even though suposedly committed. I ought to be "committed" for how stupid I have been in trying to make this lost cause work, but you know what? It's all good:) I will "hook up" I am sure of it because I am "fed up." I have had so many opportunities knock, but have restrained---I don't know why?! Trying to be faithful as promised? Well, I see the light and I am ready to really just go for life in full gear. Thanks for your concern. I relly do appreciate it, and believe you me, I WILL hook up---promise. Don't know when---but I plan on some hooking up girl!! My pole is ready to go and I am ready to catch me an exotic, erotic "fish"! LOL Thanks for the heads up on the drive in. I love the drive in movies. That is one of the great things of yesteryear they had to screw with.

LOL Hey Jaime---I found a drive in---45 miles away, but hey you know what? it would be worth every milw:) Thanks again!

Try naked twister and cover the mat with oil.......What do you think Joan:)

The Twister! My favorite game for all ages! But I think it needs three people - one who reads the instruction and two who are playing. Should the third person become part of our non-traditional date or not? Where should we keep the third person for our "naked twister" variation of the game? In the other room?

Joan, don't cry! Put your Personal Ad on Craigslist and you will find somebody who lives locally. I can help you to write an ad. I am not as good as David, but I always get many replies. Cheers, girl! We all have our dark moments!

David, lol I think that ups the fun factor greatly! I will supply the oil! I am well stocked---NO not for personal use---for my clients. LOL Personal stock at home;)

Jessica, your sweet. I really don't need Craigs list. There is a multitude of men out there locally/semi locally. It is not that opportunity hasn't knocked, I just haven't opened the door--- but once---lol WELL, I found the keys and now I can unlock the proverbial door, and be free to be able to be proactive in interacting with men who aproach, instead of meandering around and vanishing before anything can develop, all in the name of "commitment." LOL BUT thank you for the suggestion, and if I need it I won't hesitate. You're sweet to offer:) Sounds like Twister is the game we all want to play! Why don't they have a game called "Twisthim?" lol I say if this is a 2 person date thing, you put the Twister wheel in the middle to be able to reach it. For a one on one date and the addition of the oil, "TwistHER" could become a very erotic game! Yea I know, I am TWISTED!;))

I love you, Joan!!! Twister is the winner so far! And I would go for TwistHIM!!! :)

I love you too Jessica!!! :) I really love everyone here--well I think there have been a few one time stopper byes I could have done without, BUT they don't matter. I can work on my computer stuff, do my massage work, stop in here and have some fun throughout the day and feel good at the end of the day. I am glad for the day I "stumbled" upon your site David. Really does make my day, and my gratitude to you and everyone else here is too deep to express:)) OK Enough mush! I have a great new invention that will put a whole new "twist" on twister/twisthim! Leave it to the TWISTED to think of this. lol How about instead of, "right hand blue," change that to right hand-- left boob! lol Left hand--right butt cheek---and so on!! Sure you wouldn't be playing very long, but this would be the 2 player only version on the oily mat, and a couple of rounds---you'd both be winners! ;) Anyone want to help patent THAT one?! lol Oh, I think I might need more sleep here. My sicko status is in overdrive!

Cum on Jim! Where is that smile of approval;) lol

I have another suggestion. Team work! TwistHer Team vs. TwistHim Team. Only slightly twisted people are invited. Would be a good idea for a pool party. All participants will get a complimentary massage by Joan! :)

LOL Jessica. Sounds like an interesting concept. Only one thing---who do i get a massage from when I am all done giving them? By that time, I will more than need one! Can you bring in james Bond for me?! lol Kidding you

You want James Bond? Sure! I am going to tell a magic spell and your James Bond will appear! :)

Lol no Jessica--it doesn't HAVE to be James bond. Just get me a man who knows ho to use his hands. I might want to steal him away somewhere a little more private later;)

Joan, You want a man who knows how to use his hands? We should ask David! David, if women wants to find a man with good hands, what she suppose to do? In addition to signing up to your Boot Camp? :)

Ok lol Jessica. You are so funny. lets see if David ever answers that question---yawn. lol I am kidding;)

Jessica, where can I learn one of your majic spells? LOL A friend just sent me this link in my email in reference to my hot air baloon ride fantasy date comment. https://www.coloradoballoonrides.com/ It would take majic to get me there;) I wish I believed in majic spells, but somehow----? You let me know if you have ever found one that works and WHAT it worked for??! lol

I checked the hot air balloon site. Price per person is $225. Honestly, I would rather go to Target. Or play Twister/TwistHim/TwistHer. LOL.

Magic Spell... I know one that worked on my boss. I wanted my boss to disappear and... she took two weeks vacation. Does it count?

LOL LOL YES! That spell counts! lol Yea, you could get a lot at target with $225 dollars. It would be very romantic to go on a balloon ride with him because he is a romancer, but yea---I could never say yes to him spending on me at that price--well at least not right now. Who knows what the future holds? Yep---Twister/Twisthim---that and the art of Tantric sex/massage are where my real passions reside. ;)))

Jessica, do you realize we are like "stuck" on the Target date blog? lol Girl, don't you have a list of "turn ons" for todays blog? I put all my "clean turn ons;) The others would have seemed obsene and boorish. :)

Personally, I don't care about this Sexy Blonde. I am a Sexy Blonde myself! :)

AWE Jessica--shame on you:( She cared enough to share? I am sexy too, but that doesn't mean we can be biatches lol You know? I figure if David trusts her enough to let her post a blog--and a good one it is---I will respond, and I di! You know me. Girl, I cannot twist your arm, but another persons input would be nice:) You are a "piece of the furniture" as I am here;)