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Stop talking and start doing.
That’s it.
And oh my God, I am so sick and tired of people talking and not doing.
There are so many people in life that I run into on a regular basis that are non-stop talkers.
Sometimes I want to look at them and go, “excuse me talker, and non-doer, do you really believe your bullshit?”
I run into people who tell me that they know how to have a great relationship, yet their relationship is one of the worst relationships I’ve ever seen.
I run into people all the time that talk about how they will go change their life, lose weight, make more money, meet more people. Yet, every single day they do nothing but talk.
Talk, talk, talk, talk, talk.
Talk is cheap.
Stop talking and start doing. Shut up.
I know there is great talk and talk is really great to be able to pump yourself up so you’re able to get the momentum you need to even start actually believing the talk. I get it.
But there is a time and a place to talk. Talking yourself into a new belief system, I get it.
Talking yourself up before you give a speech, I get it.
Talking yourself up before a big meeting so you feel confident going in, I get that.
Talking yourself up before you have a tough conversation with somebody so you feel empowered, I get that.
Talking yourself up with mantras like, I am unstoppable, that Tony Robbins says to himself, over and over again until he became unstoppable.
I get that, I do that. I call it the pre-game talk.
I talk myself up, I make myself feel incredibly confident, and I go into a meeting, discussion, or an event feeling the best version of myself.
But then I walk the walk. I do what I say, and that’s the difference between a talker and a doer.
When somebody calls you out on the mistakes that you made, shut up and listen.
They’re doing that to make you better at what you do.
No matter how big an expert you think you are at whatever you do, if somebody else has a conflicting opinion or has more experience than you, shut up and listen.
Why? Because that person is going to give you a lesson. A lesson to make your life better, make your business stronger, make your love connection stronger, whatever it might be. Strong people who talk non-stop and never listen are actually the weakest people I’ve ever met in my life.
How the hell do you learn if you just keep talking and not doing?
And talking, and defending, and not listening.
Shut up and listen.
And shut up and do.
Did I make my point clear? Do you understand where I’m coming from?
Do you have anything left to say?
Let’s hear it down below.
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Vonnie
Monday, March 27th, 2017