It’s time we all stopped obsessing about our weight.

It’s time we start embracing the power of who we are.

Face it, ladies: you’re never going to be the perfect wife—ever.

I know women that are skinny and wish they were five pounds heavier. I know women that are chubby and wish they were 30 pounds lighter. I know women that are tall and they want to be shorter. I know women that are short that want to be taller.

But here’s the issue: you’ve got to stop obsessing about your weight because the more you obsess about your weight, the less life you live.

There are men all over the world that love women of all shapes and sizes.

Let me share a story with you:

I have a buddy that loves the exact opposite of what I like.

I’m a work out person. I’ve been working out my entire life. I like women that are short and petite—athletic women that love to run along the beach or spend hours in a yoga studio.

I like women that work out. It’s just what I enjoy. It’s what I’m attracted to.

My buddy laughs at me and he says “you’re only dating these wafers”—that what he calls them. He looks at them and says “you know, you’re going to break that woman! I don’t know how you do it, because for me, I need a woman with meat.”

He says, “I like my women big, powerful. I like a little cushion.”

The two of us are proof that men like women of all shapes and sizes.

It’s time you started loving yourself, because that’s the important thing. If you love yourself—I mean, really you love who you are—do you know what’s going to happen?

You’re going to find the guy that loves you just as deeply.

In fact, once you’re ready, you’re going to meet a man that loves you in the proportion that you love yourself. Because that’s how it works.

Embrace your body. It’s never going to be perfect.

You might have saddlebags; you might have a little extra thickness on your sides; you may be depressed because one breast is slightly larger than the other—whatever.

But who cares?

Men are attracted to women that find themselves sexy, and that’s what it comes down to.

I’ve seen women that are heavy, with all of the above “conditions” that would normally upset another woman. But they accept their bodies and walk around confidently. They’ve got that twinkle in their eyes. They just exude sexual energy.

And I’ve got to tell you something: I’m not even attracted to that type of body style, but I can’t keep my eyes off of her because it’s the way she feels about herself.

Stop wasting time obsessing about your body and start obsessing about all the great men that want to absolutely indulge in everything that you are. They want to embrace your beautiful, round, full-figured body. Trust me, there are plenty of them.

Start practicing abundance and start realizing that full-figured women have a wide range of men to date.

Look around.

Go to a Target. Go to a Walmart. Look at the local women that are built just like you. Look at the wedding rings on their hands, look at the men that they’re with, and realize that there’s no reason for you to ever be alone.

It’s your choice. Embrace your beautiful body now because it’s the only one you’ve got.