Stop Being A Dating Speculator!!

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By David Wygant October 27, 2010 157 Shares

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So you went out on a date and now its the morning after.

Who do you call?

Who can help you figure out each and every moment of the date?

Who is going to confirm all that they said on the date?

Who is going to stop you from being inside your head all day after a date.

Guess who?

Me and this podcast will help you stop being a neurotic dating speculator!

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Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Claire

Wednesday, October 27th, 2010

I had to laugh when I heard this because we all do this. However, as usual David is correct. Dates are about getting to know one another, and not speculating. Have fun, keep it light and flirt a little. Also, continue to hang out with friends, and/or date other people so as to not sit around and psycho analyze everything. Sometimes when someone says something, they mean just what they said. Nothing more.

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Mary

Wednesday, October 27th, 2010

So right on David! Thanks for your reminder of what we all do so well and yet so not serving to all of us. I too have learned this concept the hard way and appreciate the reminder!

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Colby

Wednesday, October 27th, 2010

Very true. I would rather control my life, then let my 'considerations' in my head take control. With that said, the past is done with, the future is'nt fun beacause it's not even here, the present is were the fun is. Live in the present. Here to serve, Colby

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Kevin

Wednesday, October 27th, 2010

Some reason the podcast drops out right after you said "Being single means this" then silence.

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Farley

Wednesday, October 27th, 2010

This podcast hits home for me. I went a date that turned out in a double date(date brought her roommate allong, roommate brought a male friend along.) We had a fun activity date, went to the beach, etc. I did not follow up immediately with a second date, because I thought it was the needy thing to do. Suddenly I got busy the next two weeks with school and family. Called the date Saturday during the day. Called twice but no answer. Still did not get a call back. Boy, did I speculate (to myself though). I finally decided Im leaving it for what it is.

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Amit

Wednesday, October 27th, 2010

hey david, thanks! for today's podcast, and just in geeneral. with love and appreciation, Amit

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nemo

Wednesday, October 27th, 2010

man your microphone is ssooo clear i can hear a helicopter flying on the end of the podcast

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Fontana

Wednesday, October 27th, 2010

I couldn't help but laugh hearing this podcast because it is very true not only in regards to dating but at times to other situations as well.

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Wednesday, October 27th, 2010

On somewhat of a side note, let's grow up and stop relying on the dating speculators and inviting them into our dating lives. My dates and relationships are not a team effort and I don't want to date a woman and her team of advisors. A friend of mine was on a date yesterday and said one of the girl's friends called her DURING THE DATE to see how my friend liked the wine, how the date was going, etc. Taking the call was wrong in my opinion, but regardless..BUTT OUT!! And the female date needs to grow up. She's not in high school anymore and I'd hope she doesn't need her friend to call and check in or come over to go to the bathroom with her so they can review the evening's activities. How tacky and unthoughtful. Perhaps the caller's life is so shallow that she has to live through her friend, but let's grow up. These women are in their 40's. If you had a great date, let's tell the other person. Let's tell them we want to see them again. Let's be adults about it and have fun. Great podcast, David

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Atiq

Thursday, October 28th, 2010

Daer my penice is very short because when i am quite young i am started the hand seek now i am 27 yers old but my penice is like a child i want my penice is very long and fatei am enough worrid so please help me and select some sex medecin for me Best regard ATIQ

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Josh

Thursday, October 28th, 2010

I'm guilty of all this and more ... Thanks! I can see the light :)

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David Wygant

Thursday, October 28th, 2010

@ Kevin Where you able to listen to the podcast?

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David Wygant

Thursday, October 28th, 2010

@nemo That is my private helicopter shuffling me off to whole foods for lunch:) Now that would be a life to be able to jet around and not deal with LA traffic!

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Kevin

Thursday, October 28th, 2010

@David Nope, it drops out for me around 2:40 in, it won't even download either.

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Jensyn

Friday, October 29th, 2010

Awesome post David.

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