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By David Wygant November 2, 2007 382 Shares

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Sex In The Light Or Sex In The Dark? By David Wygant

It’s funny. I had an interesting conversation with someone the other night and they asked me “Do you prefer sex in the light or sex in the dark?”

I am all about the light. I’m not talking about blaring stadium-type lighting so I can see the crowd cheering me on as I get close to orgasm. I’m also not talking about a spotlight on her face so I can interrogate her saying “Did you cum? Did you cum?!” like a detective from a bad 70’s tv show.

I love candlelight. I love sex during the day. I prefer to have some kind of light, because I do not want to miss the payoff.

I work hard at pleasing my woman . . . I’ve got to see that orgasm face. Does she shut her eyes? Does she tilt her head a certain way? Does her head turn all the way around like Linda Blair in “The Exorcist?” Moaning is wonderful, but I have got to see my work.

Not only that, having some form of lighting allows me to admire the shape of her body. I also like to look deep into a woman’s eyes during sex.

There are times I don’t mind having sex in complete darkness, like in the middle of the night when you wake up having sex and don’t know where it started. Darkness in that situation is wonderful. After all, who wants to get up to turn on the light when you just woke up and you are enjoying all sorts of great sexual sensations?

I like to see the person with whom I am having sex. I’ve got nothing to hide.

I like when they get up after sex and I get to check them out when they go to the bathroom. If you do it in complete darkness, you might as well be wearing blindfolds.

So, I’m a daylight kind of guy. What about all of you? Do you prefer sex with the lights on, with the lights off, or somewhere in between depending on the mood?

One thing you never want to hear from a woman when you’re fooling around in complete darkness is “Is it in yet?” or “Oops! Wrong hole!”

Todays video will show you how to use body language so you will get the opportunity to have sex in the light or the dark. Watch as I break down an approach and what her body language says about the way she feels for the guy.

About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Darkpoet

Friday, November 2nd, 2007

i'm not a daylight guy, but i much rather have sex in the light, whether by candlelight, or lamp.. having sex in the dark seems so puritan too me. The only time i like having sex in the dark is when it's outdoors, but even then you have the stars and the moonlight, what can be more passionate and romantic then that? Cheers, Joe

Gracie

Friday, November 2nd, 2007

David - Great Blog today!! But ... I have to disagree with you and take up the cause for the "sex in the dark" side of this argument. What I like about having sex in the dark, is that it allows me to focus on nothing else other than what the other four of my five senses are experiencing, i.e., I think taking away the "sight" sense makes the senses of touch, smell and sound all that more vivid and intense. I am also much more uninhibited in the dark ... which is probably why my partners have been only too happy to accomodate this preference of mine ... :) I do agree wholeheartedly with you, David, that the "we're not quite awake but somehow we started having sex" sex is some of the best sex there is

Jerry Saratoga

Friday, November 2nd, 2007

Hey Dave...great video! Question...it looks like things are going well with your student and that cute blonde :) (1) How would you transition from having a fun conversation to actually getting on a date with that girl? (2) How do you distinguish between harmless flirting and actual interest? I love flirting and even I catch myself flirting with women even if I'm not actually interested in going out with them. Hey, it's fun, right? Happy Friday! Jerry

BobM

Friday, November 2nd, 2007

I vote for changing things up. Darkness, candlelight, daylight, they're all good, and each has its own contribution to the experience. Why limit yourself to one M.O.? For people who are more inhibited in brighter light, I guess candlelight would be a good compromise. But I'd hate to deprive myself and my partner completely of the visual pleasures of lovemaking.

Jim2

Friday, November 2nd, 2007

Great blog. But then again aren't they all!!! I guess I'm somewhere in the middle. Not too bright or dark. A simple candle or two would set the mood and still allow some vision to see her face and body. But that's my opinion! lol Smell the roses, Jim2

Jim2

Friday, November 2nd, 2007

As for sex in the middle of the night. Cum-on, it's enjoyable to initiate or receive. Smell the roses, Jim2

Bertie

Friday, November 2nd, 2007

Well I can see both sides of this issue. The Dark Side: Yes there is the body image thing that some of us have issues with, but then if someone is close enough to consider sex with you, I don't think they really care all that much about stretch marks or whatever, they either love you, they're your fwb, or your booty call. None of that matters then, at least to me anyway. Yes the waking up not knowing where it started or who started it, but I'm gonna finish it....breath taking. The Light Side: I can't, truly enjoy oral either giving or receiving without looking in his eyes at least once, particularly with giving. I digress...hmmm kinda hot in here....Basically I thought sex in the dark was what you did as a teenager or young adult. Just seemed kind of silly to me to have the lights off. Some of the best sex I've ever had was on public property in the middle of the afternoon. I keep thinking back on the eye contact thing....If you can't see his eyes, how do you know he's telling the truth when he says...You're the sexiest woman alive.? David, Find an ugly orange or pink shirt and I'll be happy to tell ya about your ass size, shape, you name it...Very great video today! Thank you!