Are you dating a guy you like, but you’re not his girlfriend? You sleep together and he’s great when he’s with you, but he just doesn’t seem to want to commit to a relationship with you.

Is he a guy who just takes longer to get to that “commitment place,” or is he a guy who is never going to commit? There are ways to tell. Here are five ways to tell if your guy is never going to commit to you:

1.You Are “Weekday Girl”: Have you ever been with a guy for four months, and yet you have never spent time with him on a weekend day (or night)? Sure, you occasionally go out together to dinner or a movie. In reality, though, you are nothing more than a booty call. Here’s something you need to know about men. When a man loves a woman, he wants to show her off to the world.

2.You Haven’t Met His Friends: If you’ve been with a man longer than thirty days and he hasn’t shown off yet to his friends, he’s just sleeping with you. When a man is really into a woman, he wants the whole world to know. We all made fun of Tom Cruise when he jumped on Oprah’s couch proclaiming his love for Katie Holmes, but we all want that moment. We all want the moment when we say that we’ve met the most amazing woman.

3.You Are “Convenience Girl”: It may sometimes take thirty days and even up to sixty days for a guy to start introducing you to his friends and incorporating you fully into his life, but if it’s been four months than you have just been “convenience girl.” Being a “convenience girl” means that you have been someone he keeps around for when he has nothing better going on, yet he’s smart enough to lead you on with the dangling carrot of occasional promises of more to come.

4.He Is Always Too Busy: If a man is telling you he has to work all the time or that he doesn’t have time for a relationship, what he is really saying is that he doesn’t have time for a relationship with YOU. He has plenty of time to have you over late at night or for a business trip with his friends (which, of course, really is not business). If you’re waiting for this kind of man to commit, he never will.

5.You’re With “Lazy & Immature” Man: If a man is into you, he will never put his friends ahead of you . . . unless you’re dating “lazy and immature” man. You can spot this guy right from the get-go. It’s usually the guy who is 30 years old and has his entire place furnished with hand-me-down furniture. His place looks like he has the boys sleeping over every night. He is actually proud of having expired milk in his refrigerator, and hopes one day he can laugh when one of his friends accidentally takes a sip from it.

In reality, if you’re sleeping with any of these type of men, you are with a man who is not going to commit to you. Let me make this really clear: When a man is committed to you, he wants to share it with the world!

A man who is going to commit to you wants to show you off. If you feel like you’re being hidden in the back of the closet like that plaid shirt your mother gave you that you don’t want to wear, it is because that man doesn’t want to commit to you.