Who are you? What do you love doing? What makes you who you are? What is your lifestyle? Do you even have one?

These are important questions guys because so many times you’ll go looking for women where you think they are, rather than where you WANT to be. If you hate drinking, going to a packed bar on a Friday night because you think that’s the best place to meet women is a bad idea. 

Going to the book store if you hate reading, because you want to meet an educated chick is stupid. “But David, you said book stores were good places to meet women!”

Well, they are, IF you like reading. If you love the latest best-sellers, when you run into an attractive girl checking out the top 100, you can confidently make a comment. If the last book you read was “The Three Little Pigs,” you won’t have much to say to anyone you meet there. 

It’s about going t0 places you enjoy, and meeting women you already have some connection with. Don’t fake interest in something just to try to get dates. Remember, eventually she’s going to realize you’re not really into pottery, and then she’ll know your relationship began with a lie!

Work out who you are, and live authentically. Don’t just chase women. In this video I help you understand who you really are, and give you a simple exercise to figure out where you should be meeting women.