Friday night is upon us and there will be many men looking for love. A friend of mine sent me this video today.
He asked if I can help these men find love and I thought i would put it out into our community. Do you know of any women we can hook these men up with? Maybe Jennifer Aniston or one of the many eligible celebs….I know these guys would love it!!
By the way…I have no idea if this real or a joke but I found it the perfect ending to a great week.
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Honestly, this is kind of sad. These guys need someone too. I don't see much of a chance by the looks of this film.
It reminds me of the "goofy guy" on one of your videos David. I think it was that show called,"Made?" He wanted to be a "ladies man." Wearing socks up to his ankles and big black rimmed glasses. The way you handled what was seen on that video was great. As usual, you cracked me up with the humor you naturally exude and had him laughing
and feeling comfortable. You seem to have that affect on people:)
I have always wondered, did you find "equally goofy girl" for him?
I hope these guys find someone fitting for them. I wouldn't want to be a fly onthe bedroom wall of any of it! BUT good luck to them all;)
LOL! You are right, Joan! This IS sad! Because these guys need someone too. But before that - they need an image consultant!
And I think it is a real video!
Right Jessica! Image consultant, maybe forget the glasses and go for some contacts so you can see their eyes. Haircuts a must---except for the balding guy. Bald is not bad, it is whats underneath that cranium that counts; it isn't happening right now.
They need to learn how to present themselves not only by getting the outer shell fixed up, but the inner confidence is lacking in some, and WAY over the top for well---2 of them anyway. "Disco David" as I call him, lol---I just say---eww. I have nothing against disco, but it is the way he comes across. Very much a sick stomach feeling turn off to me.
The guy who never looks at the camera and is being told over and over, "Look into the camera" :(( I feel for them but everybody has to take that first step to change, that will ultimately change their lives:)
did anyone notice, that these guys were either wear glasses, or were overweight? i kinda take offence to that...(especially if i was a joke) sure these men need too dress better, maybe clean themselves up a bit... but i think its that video was profiling. what about showing me some good looking blokes, who have problem finding a date... i mean i wear glasses, i'm not a geek i'm quite o.k. looking. i'm pretty muscular i'm a olympic weightlifter did anyone
stop to think that these guys look and act the way they do... because of the way people treated or treat them, like some kind of social outcast...hince... making them feel believe and act the way they do. at least there making the efforts... instead bitching and whining about not being am to find someone... i'm sorry gals/guys... that got my goat... because thosesare the guys, that most likely know how to treat a woman.
anybody who says looks dont matter to some extend, thats bullshit. would any of give one of these guys a chance otherwise? so i dont blame for feeling socially akward or lacking confidence.... i hope they all find someone..
cheers,
Joe
awe darkpoet---Joe--your comment makes me sad. You are fine the way you are and I hate that you are offended, although I can see your point. I used to be so self conscience of my appearance, and I just knew everyone was talking about my oversized chest, and not rail thin body---so I know where you are coming from.
You are a good man, so try to rise above it all. I felt bad for them as well.
I also agree with you on getting some good looking men as well as women together on a video. People are far too into the looks factor. I have ALWAYS said that. They don't dig inside to find the real you unless that outer shell is attractive. It is sad but true. I don't think everybody feels like that, but the majority of society does I am sorry to say:(
You mister better cheer up!!! I wondered where you been. Try not to let this kind of stuff ruin your day. I know some times it is hard and it is work, but you got what it takes. I believe in you man!! :)
Its really interesting to see all the comments.
I think this was a comedy video that someone put together. My friend and I watched it and we both think it was all actors.
But Joe you are correct...people will judge these guys based on what they look like but its more than that.
They acted very socially awkward and there are a lot of men and women that are like that.
The problem is that they tend to do nothing to improve their chances with women.....I know there are a ton of readers of my blog that sit in the background and are too afraid to come out and say anything.
Thats part of the problem that people have....they need to learn how to ask for help and drop the egos.
Great feedback from all of you.
joan, i'm not sad or upset, i just didnt think it was that funny, thats all, has nothing to do with me.. :) why would it ruin my day, i'm positive i'm wonderful, i'm me ;) David i know these blokes have shit for confidence.. they do need help....i notice that lot people are socially awkward , some people just dont know have to conduct themselve in public or in a conversation... good looking or not... sometime it's like pulling teeth to have a conversation with some of these people...
cheers,
Joe
darkpoet, Joe---yes you are wonderful, positive, funny and you:) I enjoy talking to YOU very much;)
You're right about peoples inabilities to be themselves--I used to be one of them in my younger days. Around friends, I was a joker, we all laughed and had a good time---outside of that little circle--head down eyes to the ground. Makes for big headaches when you start running into trees and sh%$! LOL
I am glad you are not sad or upset Really I just sensed anger, not so much sad. Sad was the incorrect word choice. However, it made ME sad.
Cheers to you my friiend:)
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