Help! I Can't Get An Erection!

It’s one of man’s biggest fears and worst nightmares.

You’re with this beautiful girl. You’ve been fantisizing about being with her for months. You’ve been on a date, and she’s invited you back to hers. Could this be it? Could you be about to make her your girlfriend? Does she really want to sleep with you?

She leads you to the bedroom and starts to take her clothes off. Her body is even hotter than you imagine. You can feel your heart pounding as she slinks over and sits astride your lap to kiss you. And then you notice…

That raging erection you’d expect to have right now hasn’t showed up. Did you leave it at the restaurant you just took her to? What are you going to do? Why aren’t you ready for this moment? You’ve been waiting long enough!

Then the panic sets in, the monkeys in your head start chattering, and it’s game over!

Has this ever happened to you? If it has, chances are it freaked you out, and it could have happened again. Until you figure out why it’s happening, and learn how to cope with it, you’re going to get into a dangerous tail-spin. Luckilly, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. In this video, I look at the mystery of sudden ED, and give you some simple methods to overcome it!

Enjoy the video, and I’d love to hear your experiences below…

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I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Bob

Tuesday, January 21st, 2014

Reminds me of Charlie and Allen on 2 1/2 men. Good advice.

Jason C

Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

Happened to me on several occasions. Once I stopped trying make intercourse the main goal and focused on enjoying everything in the moment, things fell into place.

Melissa

Thursday, January 23rd, 2014

Hi guys- so funny, I only came back to the blog this time to ask about this exact topic. Last week I hooked up with a guy that I work with. He's younger than me...6 years younger. Tall, good looking. For months, people that I work with had been telling me that this guy really was into me. I thought we were just friends. We would joke and talk all day, go out with the group after work, he'd always sit by me in meetings, stop by my office, etc. I thought he was cute too, but I wouldn't let my mind "go" there because he's so much younger. Anyway, last week we went out to the bar like normal, had a few drinks and left. On the way home I texted him to see if he wanted to make another stop and he said that he was already home and that I should just go there....so I thought, hmmmm...sure! I went over, one thing led to another and I'm in his bed. And he can't get hard. I thought it was from the drinks and wrote it off. Next day we decided that we should have a do-over because heck, I was a little tipsy too and I knew it wasn't my best showing. He had to work late so he just came to my place. I made dinner, we had some wine....one thing led to another....NOTHING. AGAIN. He said that sometimes "it has a mind of it's own" but didn't seem overly upset? We tried to meet up on Saturday but schedules didn't work out. We are going out this weekend. But, I need help and opinions. First off, what is he thinking? He must be terrified and mortified, right? I mean, I could be blabbing this to everyone I work with! I'm not, but I could. And if he really did have a crush on me all this time, he must be so bummed. But, maybe some guys don't care? I know he's been with plenty of girls, we've been friends for a while and I've heard stories, but he's never been with anyone like me and by that I mean older....god, I feel really bad. How should I handle when we are together again and what is he feeling/thinking? I've given him an out too, I told him, hey, I'm still interested in pursuing this....are you? And he says, of course! This is not what I thought being a cougar would be about, lol.

Bobby

Saturday, January 25th, 2014

mmm trust me he cares... definitely a nightmare I hope I never get. I can always get hard but sometimes I can't cum from oral. Well I can but the girl will have to suck me for like 30 mins and usually girls get tired way before that. I either need to find a girl with excellent technique or is a hardcore carnivore.

Ruby

Wednesday, February 19th, 2014

I've had the opposite for 5 years with a younger man! He'd get as hard as wood but could never ejaculate with me. (Denied masturbating too much.) He's in his mid-40's. Said it only ever happened with me. At first we thought it was because we stopped using condoms but that wasn't it. He always felt I was too good for him, deserved better because I was an "awesome catch," but he "wasn't the man for me." I think in 5 years he only ejaculated 3 times. And he would tell me our sex was fun, hot and wild and not to worry about it. At first I had a hard time accepting that. He also would not let me be on top, never, not even for oral. Maybe he was super macho and just refused to give in and let go to me. Oh how he ravished me! And our sex was always about my pleasure - he was a freak about pleasing me sexually - loved doing things other guys won't do. And he will tell you I gave him everything he wanted and was awesome at it and knew I enjoyed it. He especially loved my oral foreplay. He could go and go and go with penetration for lengths and all night long but then when he felt like he was going to come, he'd lose it suddenly. So what was up (no pun intended) with that? I read about dry orgasms and retrograde ejaculations. And the other weird thing was that he was a heavy drinker but always horny and able to get it up and penetrate.

Help! I Can’t Get An Erection!

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