Don’t men drive you crazy? How does our mind work? Why do we act like we do? How come the guy you meet on the first date always seem to turn into someone else after a few weeks?

One of the questions women ask me the most is “So often men change after the first couple of dates. Why is that?”

For me it’s down to a couple of things. Having sex with a guy can sometimes change his attitude, especially if he’s not particulaly emotionally evolved. If you’ve had sex with him after the first date and he starts to go cold, he might just have wanted sex. BUT, if you haven’t had sex with him and he’s still acting differently after the first couple of dates, there’s a chance it’s because he’s trying too hard!

When you first meet a guy he’s as nervous as you are. Just read some of the posts over on my men’s blog and you’ll see how badly they suffer from anxiety and fear of rejection. They desperately want you to like them. They want you to like them so much they project this superhero version of themselves. They want to impress you. But here’s the thing…

They can’t keep up this act forever, and eventually their genuine character starts to come through. It doesn’t mean he’s about to blow you off or go cold. It could be he’s starting to feel more comfortable with you. Talk to him, get to know him, and remember most guys are just big kids at heart!

Have a look at the video below and I’ll show you what I mean. Once you’ve watched the video I want you to download a copy of “What Men Desire” so you can finally understand how men think, why we act like we do, and what we truly desire in a woman. It will end your dating frustrations forever!