It seems like all I see out here are men chasing after women. Every time they go out, they’ve got their eyes peeled for the next hot lady to go walking by so they can try some of their PUA tactics.
But are any of these guys getting results?
It’s time to stop chasing women and start meeting women.
You should watch the video below to find out what I mean:
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Very, very good blog, and extremely important, too. I think the principle of chasing can be applied to anything: whatever it is you chase, the more you chase it, the more elusive it seems to become. It is almost like the more you want something, the more the price goes up. Attraction is, in a weird and almost paradoxical way, linked to not caring too much. With women, at least that is my experience, it comes down to just taking what you want. You want her, take her. Most women I have ever met do not really appreciate timid guys, or being romanced. I guess it gives off the wrong signals. If you are like that with HER, how do you deal with all the other stuff in your life ? Nice guys might finish last, but timid guys for sure finish last each and every single time.
OK, so if I had a woman chasing me, I think I could take it from there. I could play the kitten with a string game - bust her, shrug her off, but feed her with just enough attention to keep her chasing me, especially when she starts getting sexual. Then crack up at how I have all the power and how the more I pull away from her, the more she starts pursuing me.
But how do you get a woman to chase you in the first place?? I know from experience it takes a lot more than just saying hello and chatting about how her day went!
MENTALLY, I can get a woman's attention. I can be the sweet guy who makes her go 'awwww' like a puppy would. Or get her cracking up or opening up about childhood stories and relationship details. Or make her go 'OMG Technoboy you are a freaking genius'.
But I'm missing something to get to the point of her going 'OMG Technoboy, I want your undivided attention. Here, I bet this naked picture of me will do the trick'.
Pick someone who aclatuly likes you and gives you attention. Pick someone who wants to be around you, call you and spend time with you. The trick is to find someone that adores you AND that you are attracted to!
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