How To Stay Positive About Life
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Life is pretty amazing, isn’t it. There’s so many peaks and valleys. There are days that you feel amazing. There are days that you feel crappy. Why does life have so many ups and downs?
There are times that everything is just working for you. It’s amazing. You’re able to talk to women, flirt, have dates. Everything is great. Then all of a sudden, there’s just this dry spell upon you. You can’t catch a date, the only thing you can seem to catch is a cold. It’s like that with other things too.
You can be in an amazing business roll. Everything is working out great, then all of a sudden, it’s like customers disappear. The rug’s been pulled out from underneath you. Question is, is this normal?
The answer is absolutely yes. So here we are digging deep into a brand new year. Matter of fact, we’re so new that baby ‘new year’ is still in diapers. So how do you stay positive?
The number one secret and the key to life is staying positive. Realizing that there are peaks and valleys, realizing that there are ups and downs. And realizing that life is going to have moments where the shit hits the fan. The way I stay positive is simple: As soon as I start feeling badly… you know that terrible feeling you get when all of a sudden something goes wrong?
I make a choice. The minute I feel that trigger, that negative trigger, because we’re all human, we all have negative triggers. The minute I feel that negative trigger, I immediately go into the positive. I think to myself, this is just a moment right now. This is just a moment of my life and a moment in time where things are not exactly working out the way that I want.
But I know I have full control over my thoughts, and I take control of those thoughts. I think to myself, alright, no big deal. I’m having a bad moment, and that’s all it is. By using that mantra and really understanding that it’s just a bad moment, I’m able to change the thoughts and change my beliefs. I’m able to have an incredible, positive, amazing day after that.
Life is about peaks and valleys and it’s how we negotiate the peaks and valleys is how we succeed. I’ve never met a positive person who is not successful in their lives. Positivity is everything. Think about the people you meet. You don’t want to hear somebody’s negativity.
Think about what you’re like. Think about the next time you meet somebody who is negative. Think about how that makes you feel. Then think about how you need to remain positive in all aspects of your life. It’s all about positive.
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Matt F
Monday, January 12th, 2015
Wayde
Monday, January 12th, 2015