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About David
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Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.
When you know what you're doing, you can wear whatever you want and meet women, but when you're just starting out, it seems counter productive to wear cargo shorts and Oakleys. It's just giving yourself an unnecessary handicap.
The approach and conversation is the easy part. It's building attraction and making the connection so that she wants to meet you again as much as you do; that what I find the challenge. Ukranian women really show the best female qualities.
Ives, you can't connect with every woman. It's called chemistry. Women want chemistry most of all. I don't believe in "building attraction" She's either into you or not.
I would of said "You have an accent, What country are you from"? She would say "Ukraine" I would of said "Really"? I've never been but i'd love to go! What is it like there? She will then go into story mode. Make her talk about 75% of the time and you about 25% of the time. Lead the conversation and if something hits you that you've had a similar experience. Share your story.
Women are about sharing stories, Men use humor to bond which is why men are really funny :) Little tidbit for the women reading this :D
Kevin, I wouldn't want to connect with every woman, us men usually only do that to get into their pants; which I guess is ego or they are just so sexy. I know about chemistry ;-) and I agree, most of the time a woman is either into you or not.
Sharing stories is nice, but can lead to friend zone or warming her up for the other guy. I guess that was what I was meaning about building attraction.
Many women I met from the Ukraine were gold diggers (NOT ALL), which I can't blame them for, due to what has happened there; but that's my fault for not using my big head.
The best thing about David in this clip is that he gives off the vibe that he has a girlfriend or doesn't need one. The other guys to me look and act single. I don't know why, but they seem that way. It's like it's written on their head, "I'm single and that's why I want to talk to you and get your number.
Man this was great. Thanks for posting David. Has got me really thinking about maybe attending a boot camp this year since I've got some extra money. Those outdoor markets seems a lot of fun, but for some reason when I am in big crowds I get nervous and always end up feeling like I gotta take a crap. I know it's off the subject but how do you deal with that? What happens if you meet a beautiful woman and your bowels start moving in the middle of conversation. God I hate the embarrassment. I feel like that kid on SouthPark that always throws up when he sees Wendy.
The Ukranian gal was very friendly, some guys might have interpret the crossing of her arms as a rejection, but noticed the tips of her feet, they became pointed at David as she became more interested in the conversation. Then she was stalking him later on...lol :)
Great video, it inspires me to get out there more and meet women! :) I think the dude is on a verge of greatness with being himself while connecting with women.
I don't know...the students seem to be standing there like a statue just staring... the Ukranian girl wasn't responsive until about 30 seconds into David's rap...and she had an uncomfortable smile when the guy on the left said something...the crossing of the arms isn't necessarily rejection, just guarded....like who are these guys? she's a friendly gal by nature so I wouldn't take friendly chit chat like that as an indicator one way or the other.
Also, when he was talking to the girl with the guitar, he was just standing there staring. David looked more animated than the rest of the guys in his group...shoulders relaxed and a little more animated and variation in his tone... the girl with the guitar was cute though... good eye for talent.
@ Collin:
if you can attract someone from the beginning, while wearing clothes you're comfortable in (be it shorts and t-shirt), it will make you even more attractive afterwards when you "clean up" nicely for a following date.
And you'll also know she likes you wearing your comfy clothes. ;)
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