You want to know how to meet a girl right now?

Well, first, you need to read this entire post because it is going to drastically change your life.

There’s nobody better at meeting women than me.

Do you want to know why? I’m going to tell you.

There are a few reasons why I’m so good at this and one of them is that I really love women. I think they’re great. They’re different than men; they offer different opinions, they make you feel different things, they change your life in so many ways.

I enjoy connecting with women, and I enjoy learning new things about myself each time I connect with a woman.

I find them fun and they smell great.

They’re fun to touch and hold and kiss and do so many things with.

I truly do love women.

No Expectations

So when I talk to a new woman, I’m not thinking of anything at all; I’m not thinking about a date, I’m not thinking about having sex with her, I’m not thinking about a thing. I’m just accepting that here’s another really cool, beautiful person I have a chance to meet who can teach me something, show me something I can learn from her.

I truly do love women.

how to meet a girlSo that’s my mindset. I don’t put them on a pedestal, I don’t think they’re going to make my life explode – my life is great with or without them.

Change your mindset and change your beliefs. That’s what you have to do.

If you approach a woman and you’re thinking about all the amazing things you expect, if you’re nervous because you want so badly for her to like you, she’s going to feel it. She’s going to feel you walking over there with anxiety and she’s not going to become attracted to you because she’s not going to feel who you really are. She’s going to feel this uptight, nervous person instead of the amazing stud, the great guy, the winner that you are in all aspects of your life.

She’s not going to see that at all.

She’s not going to see the wonderful brother or the great friend that you are.

She’s only going to see this nervous person. And that’s going to reflect on to her. When you walk over to somebody and you’re nervous, they become nervous. It’s a feeling that they have.

You Can Enhance Each Other’s Lives

When you walk over and you love women, when you know that you can enhance their life by connecting with them and they can enhance your life, things change. The whole outcome changes because they feel comfortable and that’s the whole thing about women, they need to really feel super comfortable about connecting with you.

If they feel comfortable and they don’t feel like you’re some desperate guy who came over there and muttered some words that were filled with nervous energy, you’re going to trigger things inside them. The one thing you’re going to trigger mostly is desire, passion. They’re going to want to see you again.

It really is that simple. Change the way you think about things. Get over the approach anxiety. Walk over there and look at this beautiful person you’re about to connect with and say to yourself, wow, this is a beautiful woman that I can learn from, that I can glow from, that I can connect with.

When you change that belief, it becomes a really powerful thing because you start feeling and becoming confident. It’s so attractive to women when you do that.

You need to be able to look at her as a great person who you have an opportunity to connect with, to learn from. You notice I’m saying this over and over again – it’s because I want you to change your mindset behind this.

I don’t want you walking up to a woman, having this whole sexual energy about how you need to meet her and how hot she is, and how nervous and how your life is going to explode if you meet her, and all this other crap. In reality, she’s just a person and so are you, and you need to go over and exchange words, and create feelings and create desire. You can’t do that when you have pre-conceived notions or goals in mind.

How to Form a Connection When You Meet a Girl

I have zero goals in mind. Once again, my only goal is to see what type of connection I might have with this total stranger, because I love women. I think they’re beautiful, I think they’re sexy, I think they’re different. Everybody’s here to teach, connect, and grow with one another.

You become the most powerful version of yourself when you change your mindset because life is all about mindset.

It doesn’t matter what you look like, or how tall you are, how heavy you are. If you have the right mindset behind it all, a woman will respond in a very positive way to the energy that you’re conveying as you’re speaking to her.

Women are attracted to confident guys.

Being a confident guy doesn’t have anything to do with looks.

When you ask a woman what the number one thing they’re turned on by is, they always tell you confidence. So work on that confidence. Spend the time, really work on understanding who you are and admiring the women that you are meeting because we’re all here to teach each other valuable lessons. We’re all here to connect with one another and grow from each encounter.

If you take out the whole notion of how you want her to be your girlfriend, how you must get a date, and eliminate that energy, the conversation’s going to flow, and what’s going to happen is  you’re actually going to form a connection. A connection that can actually turn into something. Maybe the next girl you meet will become the girlfriend that you always desired. You’re going to do it organically and naturally. Try it out. Change your mindset, change your beliefs.