how to give headI bet that caught your attention. Am I really posting a blog for men about how to give yourself head? Well, yes, but it has nothing to do with having a rib removed or anything like that.  Do you know all of you give head to yourself and each other all day long?

That’s right. All day, wherever you go, people are giving each other head. Tell me you don’t see it. How can you not see it? 

It’s all over the place. When you go to a restaurant, people are giving each other head. They’re sitting at the table giving each other head. When you’re out at a bar at night, people are giving each other head all night long. In fact, every minute of every day, somebody is giving somebody else head. Have you been out today? Didn’t you see people giving each other head? If you didn’t it’s because you weren’t looking hard enough. I want you to open your eyes and ears, because what I’m about to tell you is the way life is. So what am I talking about people giving each other head all day?

I’m talking about people being so stuck in their heads all day; they don’t have authentic interactions because everyone worries about what people are thinking about them. They’re constantly over thinking. They’re constantly over analyzing everything. Do you doubt me? I didn’t think so, because I bet, within the last hour you gave yourself head. Maybe it wasn’t approaching the woman that was standing there in front of you. You were going to, but then you over analyzed it in your head and backed out. You gave yourself head.  

You thought about all the reasons you shouldn’t talk to her. You gave yourself the best head you’ve ever had. When you’re out there talking to people you’re not talking from the heart, you’re talking from the head. It’s the reason why you can’t do the things you want to do. It’s the reason why you’re stressed all the time. You’re not alone. The majority of conversations people have are coming from the head not the heart. Look at two strangers talking and you can see two conversations happening at the same time. The conversation they’re having with each other, and the conversation they’re having with themselves in their head.

When you’re on a first date you’re wondering what to say, what to do, when to ask her out, when to kiss her, should you kiss her? And she’s thinking exactly the same things. You’re giving each other head. Life is far more satisfying when you live through your heart. It’s so much more satisfying when you live life based on emotions and feelings. Children live through their hearts, and that’s why they have so much fun. They don’t analyze everything like we do as adults. How do you want to live?

Don’t you want to live through your heart where you get to experience beautiful things every day? Will you allow yourself to say the things you actually feel rather than letting your head control everything?

The next time you’re out with a friend, tell them you’re giving each other head and you’re sick and tired of it. Start to give heart and see how quickly your life changes for the better. If you’re completely gripped by the fear of approaching women or just talking to people in social situations then check out “The Fearless Code” and become a confident communicator in just a few very simple steps.