How To Get Past The Opener

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By David Wygant December 4, 2009 164 Shares

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Today, I want all of you to look at this video.

What you are about to see is a very successful opener followed by complete indecision.

Do you ever feel like you are at a loss for words thirty seconds into a conversation, and all you can do is wonder how long you can keep the flow going?

Check this out. It is going to make this weekend rock for you!

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Khiem/Ken (DW Coach)

Friday, December 4th, 2009

I absolutely love these live videos. This is exactly what we do during bootcamps!

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Mike

Friday, December 4th, 2009

FUCKING GREAT VIDEO! How many times have I done that? Too many to count, you need to know what to say to close so its on the tip of your tongue. David, you need to show more of these!

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Karen

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

That guy was doing pretty good until the end like you said he should have asked for her number, she seemed interested in him.

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Coach Jacob

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

Karen- I agree I give him a lot of credits for going out and doing this!!!

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Karen

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

Jacob- what would you have done different?

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Coach Jacob

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

Karen- This is late I'm falling a sleep here, I just got back from a great party. Answer to your question, I would close the deal before you knew what hit you:)

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Karen

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

Ya i know me too almost falling asleep. I just got home as well. Did you have a good time in the party? Hahaha Jacob love your cocky humor:)

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Coach Jacob

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

glad you are enjoying it:) oh yea the party was amazing great drinks and super nice people! what did you do tonight?

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Coach Jacob

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

Let me guess you were out with your girlfriends and you well were mantrashing:)

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Karen

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

oh boy how did you know?:) It was some great mantrashing conversation we had and as always some great food!

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Coach Jacob

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

hmmmm that sounds good, well i am off to bed, can't focus anymore so well and good night dear:)

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Karen

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

Thanks Jacob and talk to you soon:)

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Kevin

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

Alot of guys don't seem to realize...if she touches you..she's interested. That's when you grab her by the waist pull her right into you and say "Give me your number!!! lmao

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jay a

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

David, I love how you broke down the whole approach! Nice touch with the Stones in the beginning and the end.

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86kinky86

Sunday, December 6th, 2009

He should have introduced himself after admitting to hitting on them. Returning to the indirect question (opener) was very insincere and weird.

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Dan

Sunday, December 6th, 2009

After watching this video Im now inspired to do some approaches and not make any excuses. Nice post. thanks David!

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Tony888

Sunday, December 6th, 2009

I think the guy did pretty good. A lot better than I would've done. He can think on his feet a lot better than I can, sad to say. Yes, he should've closed her. Looking back on it(because hindsight is always 20/20) I think after she said "I've won by default" he should've said, "Okay, how about later? I'm _______. Let's go out later. What's your number?" Or should he have said something else? What say you David, Kheim, Kub?

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Tony

Monday, December 7th, 2009

Why would she tell him to say "I'm a pussy". That seemed a little bit too inappropiate to me for her to say that to a person whom you've just met.

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H3x

Monday, December 7th, 2009

Tony, If you think what she says to him was inappropriate, then you just need to get out there more and see that there are no rules in flirting and people have different boundaries. I've told people much worse than that and some get completely offended, while others crack up. The ones who laugh are obviously the ones I'm interested in.

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Khiem/Ken (DW Coach)

Wednesday, December 9th, 2009

Tony, You are right, he could have closed when she said she wont by default. A lot of times, women give you a window of opportunity to move the interaction to the next level and it's up to you to find those opportunities and actually seize them. When you do it often enough, it feels like you are leading her to wonderful places.

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Sunny

Wednesday, December 1st, 2010

ifyou take a close look u can see the tall brunet actually look at david and try fo a smile, correct me if i'm worng she was sayin hiii talk to me.. but obviously david has a girl so.... and you can see when buddy gets the group of girls to walk over.. the tall brunet looks all excited "yes round 2" and then david says sorry its for my wife... lmao and if you noice her face she saying " fuk he has a girl" lol this is like the 3rd time i constanly set some time to review this example. and becuase of my infield work today ( which was my first time aproaching girl s on my own) i really picked up somthing new today and i'm seeing i'm starting to become more observent.. also thanks to the reasnt couple weeks of studying all of davids blogs and ect. i acutally realized that ! you can hear what women think and you can get inside there head! .. i can go for days thanks for video david!

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