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I’ve been coaching a long time.
If there is one thing I know, it’s that THIS is the biggest issue men have with dating…
Getting stuck inside their heads! I would say that 90% of men are afflicted with this terrible, terrible disease.
So how do you get out of your head and into the world around you?
Watch the video below and find out:
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About David
1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.
I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.
Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.
Ok, I need to get out of my head. I'm getting out of the truck now. Ok.. there's a hill. There's some dirt. There's a dirty, stinky truck driver walking past. There's some rocks.
Ok, I'm going to say hi to the first woman that walks by...
waiting...
waiting.......
hmmm......
:(
Very good blog. Most, I would say 99%, of the things that happen in your head, never happen in reality. I totally agree with David, the best thing you can do is ground yourself, and you ground yourself by connecting with the real world, which is any sort of physical activity, talking to other people, even cleaning up the house.
I wish I could get out of my head today. I took out an old hookup last night and we had an absolutely awesome conversation... She's a massive mess though. I went out with her knowing she needed to vent to me and I wasn't planning on any hookup or anything. It was a massive connection that I haven't felt in fucking forever and today I am so fucking sad I can't see straight. She even told me she loved me at the end and couldn't stop hugging me. We talked about a possible relationship a little bit but I'm not stupid enough to try to push her knowing what she's going through and we just left it open... Just left her with a not so subtle hint that I really like her. 2-3 years ago she even asked to be my girlfriend and I blew her off.
It's breaking my heart. Not even just because it's a connection with such a smart/sexy as hell yet fucked up girl.. but thinking maybe I can only connect to really fucked up people. I mean last night I left her feeling great... and now I feel like death. I also really want to hook up with her but I know I can't/shouldn't. Sometimes I wonder if I'm just too sensitive to deal with life like a regular person.
Dale, don't worry. Each one of us is fucked up in his or her very personal way. If someone trusts you with their personal fuck up story, take it as a compliment.
I've been seeing this amazing girl for the past few months. We're not officially dating, but if you had to put a title on it we're "together." We're not seeing anyone else. We've had sex before. She says she doesn't want me to take it too fast from moving from where we are now, to officially dating. What can I do to express my feelings for her more so? What can I do to make her realize that regardless everything is going to be okay?
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