Ray LewisGuys e-mail me all the time saying:

I’m not good looking.

I’m too short.

I’m too old.

Guys give me these excuses for why they can’t meet women.

But it has nothing to do with the way you look at all, it’s because of they way you conduct your life—that’s why you can’t meet women.

Women are attracted to passion. Women are attracted to men that are passionate about what they do; passionate about who they are; and passionate about what they want.

Are any of you going to watch the Super Bowl tomorrow? I think it’s going to be a really, really good game.

Ray Lewis: that guy has passion.

Did you watch Ray Lewis come onto the field in their last home game? It was probably his last time playing at home and he came onto that field and danced and screamed and let loose from his heart. You could see how he felt about the fans, the team, his teammates, and the game he played.

He’s always full of passion.

If you watch Ray Lewis during warm-up, he’s always chanting and yelling and motivating.

He’s full of passion.

And that’s how you want to date.

When a woman asks you about your job, are you passionate about the way you explain it to her?

Are you passionate about your experiences in life?

Are you passionate about your friends?

Are you passionate about your lifestyle?

Are you passionate about where you live?

This all comes out when you’re speaking to a woman.

You don’t have to go out on a date and act like Ray Lewis—jumping up and down and screaming—but you’ve got to be passionate about who you are as a man, because that is a huge turn-on for women.

Women get so turned on by passionate men—that’s why they love rock stars and actors and powerful businessmen and writers and artists, because they want passion. They want you to love yourself and who you are and what you’re all about.

Without it, guys, you ain’t getting laid.

You’re not going to get a girlfriend.

So be passionate about who you are. When you speak about yourself, speak about it in a Ray Lewis tone.

Speak about it from your heart. Feel your life. And if there are things in your life that you’re not passionate about, then change the things in your life that you’re not passionate about, so you become a passionate person about everything in your life.

Do you see the passion that I have writing this, using that word over and over again?

It’s time you learn to be like Ray.

It’s time you jumped out of bed and screamed at the top of your lings.

It’s time you embrace everything about who you are as a man. That’s going to turn the women on and that’s going to attract them into your life.