Let me ask you a direct question today. And I want you to think about your answer before you actually react. You know the best answers are the ones where we can process something. That’s something that I’ve learned. Whenever anybody asks me something, or maybe criticizes me, or gives me constructive criticism, instead of reacting right away and just spewing out words, I like to just process it, get a feel for it, an idea of what they said.

When someone points something out to you, it’s probably true. Now I want to ask you something right now. Do you love where you live?

Let’s be more direct. What do you love about where you live? What are the strong points? What are your favorite things to do where you live?

Is there a restaurant that you like to go to where you live that’s just your favorite place?

Is there a supermarket that you go to that’s your favorite?

What I want you to do this afternoon while you’re reading this blog, is think about where you live. I want you to think about all the positive things about where you live. We can always go negative. I can immediately go negative about Los Angeles. I think the traffic is terrible. I think there’s too many people that come here for a dream that’s unattainable, so they’re incredibly narcissistic. People tend to be a flaky and a self-obsessed. It’s hard to do anything.

If I want to meet someone who lives in Sherman Oaks, I’ve got to time it right otherwise I’m going to lose my mind in traffic. It’s easy to go negative, and when we go negative, we channel a different energy about us. What I want you to do right now is think about the positive things, and then I want you realize is positive people attract positive people.

If you like where you live and you embrace it, and you’re happy about it, guess what’s going to happen? You’re going to start speaking positively about where you are, and you’re going to start having greater connections with the men around you.

You’ll start to look at that supermarket a little differently. You’ll look at that convenience store that you go to differently and you’ll actually enjoy it. Positive energy is important. We can always have dreams of what it would be like to live somewhere else or have other options. Where you live is where you are. Because the positive aspects will get you greater results when it comes down to meeting men and having great relationships.