I know I left you guys with a cliffhanger ending. If you want to know how to go from an arousing IM to steamy phone sex, check back in on Monday when our Video Coaching Series continues. Have a great weekend! David
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Well, my goodness, what a way to start my Day!! Thank YOU David :) mmmm ....
I got into a little IM exchange with a new gentleman friend last night, and i'll be damned if it wasn't around 1030pm!! I'll tag us as "myspacers" ... nuff said about that.
I was interested in him, we checked out photos of each other and then I asked him, bluntly "you wanna IM me?" and we started. I had already asked him his vitals (including his shoe size!!!) and got a physical description - whew, got me going!! I replied, "Wow, you are a Big Guy, I like that!" So I had not only a written "image" of him thru reading his "profile" entries, I had a visual via photos and then I had in his own words his vital stats. Yeah, I was into him. Big time.
So we start IMing and my first question, probably not the "right" question, but I asked cuz I AM if nothing else, daring, "So what do you think of me?" I wanted to know if he was interested in me, dahhhh sexually, like I was interested in him. Oooops! Perhaps that's what I "should" have asked??
His response was cold, "What do you mean?" Couple of entries later he writes, "I don't even know you." Which was odd to me, he'd certainly read enough about ME already. I had expressed in explicit fashion what I thought of him; Cute, Big Guy, I liked that, wanna IM me - which, I dunno, wouldn't you guys get the sexual innuendo, ie wanna hump me? I thought it only fair he let me know what he thought of me. Was I wrong?
Well, while I didn't get bored, my intrigue (to use one of your fav words) kinda wained. And we did the one eyebrow raising, eyeballs to the ceiling exchange; where do you live, why are you in myspace, blah blah blah.
It most DEFINITELY was not getting me wet, getting me horny, getting me to the point of where I would have welcomed a phone call engaging in futher hot talk and I dunno, maybe phone sex? Never did that before!!
I think I would have slept better, but waking up to you David more than made up for it ;)
If I could figure out a way to get him in here to watch your video, ya think he'd "get the message"???
David, Do you think I should try again or just let it go for a more balls-ee type? Ya'll - especially the Men here - have a pretty good idea of the "who" I am, should I stick to a solid BALLS kinda guy, confident self-assured with a little bit of the dark/dangerous side to him?
I'm lonely okay, I want some fun .... a forever kind of man, NO, not ready for that, but I wanna play. Can you guys help me out?
The what are you wearing question...David you are so right. I usually tell them if they ask, but I could be wearing whatever his imagination says I'm wearing unless of course its a comfy Seattle jersey preferably in old school colors. So you really think that people, both genders are automatically going to say "Yes, I'm daring!"?
Ok David;
After watching that video, the "Groovin Granny," cartoon---lol.
Very hot. I was getting aroused just listening. I have to say, this time around, I went full screen and was bound and determined to get every jot and tittle of what your shirt relayed. lol
(Be quiet Jessica;) LOL
I can't comment on this type of action but very interesting. I spend my late nights/mornings actually working not IMing.
BTW-you have very beautiful blue eyes David. It is my turn to tell someone that. I hear it enough, now I relay. Good video message.
David - WOW! I know this video was directed at the guys, but I have to tell you it left me very hot and bothered! ;)
You truly have a ... way with words, and your descriptions are very vivid :) You literally gave me chills.
After hearing this, I have but one question ... Why can't all men be like David?!?!!! :)
David - Great video. This is such a natural seduction technique. It is very real ... and completely the opposite of the tacky techniques taught in things like the "mystery method."
This once again is you showing people the obvious way to do things. Utilizing this will absolutely create a deep inner desire in the majority of women, as well as unlock real raw emotions in them.
I have to say that this was interesting. my first thought was that this was crap and who would fall for this.
Then i realized if the man was real and sincere this would turn me on.
Bertie i disagree done right with follow up texting and phone calls will make me want it really bad.
I like a man who can make me wait and keep me hanging....David are you single?
Hey
I just used this with a woman that i was online with and it works like a charm!!!
I like her and really did not know how to turn it up a notch and this video really helped.
I have been reading this blog for months and love all the posts from all of you.
I am going to get me that Mastery Series right now. I want to know more.
Thanks Big D, as all you girls call him and whats up with the sandbox stuff anyway. Makes me think of my cat
Finally I am posting after all the time sitting on the sidelines.
Dr Bob are you really What baout Bob?
thIS BLOG WAS great!!!!
I am going to stay home tonight and avoid the bars and flirt online. By the way David thanks for all the free stuff.
I don't know if people really thank you enough but i have been a freebie guy for awhile and I know this takes a lot of time and work to make happen and I just want to tell you thanks man for helping me out.
Over and out and back on the sidelines.
Ha Ha Ha .... Ya'll need to get a grip on something else besides your overly active imaginations.
Me and Joan are FRIENDS, Girl Friends, get it? She's hot, beautiful inside and out, smart, fun, sweet, full of love and compassion and a dear dear dear Friend. We have LOTS in common and laugh our asses off every single day together.
And we both love and are into MEN. Period.
Too freaking funny!!! :)
Hey Joan .... care to add your 2 cents worth?
Tushie Lover:
Yea ok. Sure! You eat me first, because I am a selfish bitch baby. I am assuming your a man?? If not get lost and never come back. You make me cum just right and I will deep throat your cock and suck it so hard you won't walk for days. I will straddle ride you until you are raw meat. MMMMM I can't wait. Taleda? Oh you have nothing left for her. Sorry I take it all when I get my sexy on baby!!!
Ok now that we have your ultimate fantasy out of the way--can you breath or are you hyperventilating from such erotic exhaustion??
Taleda has been a friend to me and visa versa. Yea, we are into each other all right. We love to talk cock!!!!! Men, men and more men! That is our usual topic of conversation, along with writing books, how we can see Angelina Jolies attraction to how damn HOT Brad Pit is MMM unless one of us is having abad day.
At that time, we "bend each others ears" with our woes. I try to encourage her and she definitely makes me laugh and encourages me.
You see, you are on the outside looking in. You can see the mouths move, but have no lip reading skills. You know a whole lot about nothing obviously.
You are one ignoramous to come on this blog an ask EVERYBODY such a dumb ass question.
Well everyone----ANSWER THE FREAKS QUESTION!
WHAT DO YOU THINK????? SHOULD WE 3 WAY AND VIDEO IR FOR YOU ALL TO SEE??
Tushie Lover:
YEA. there we go. You want to have a 4 way because I have dual personality dumb ass?
Yea ok. Sure! You eat me first, because I am a selfish bitch baby. I am assuming your a man?? If not get lost and never come back. You make me cum just right and I will deep throat your cock and suck it so hard you won't walk for days. I will straddle ride you until you are raw meat. MMMMM I can't wait. Taleda? Oh you have nothing left for her. Sorry I take it all when I get my sexy on baby!!!
Ok now that we have your ultimate fantasy out of the way--can you breath or are you hyperventilating from such erotic exhaustion??
Taleda has been a friend to me and visa versa. Yea, we are into each other all right. We love to talk cock!!!!! Men, men and more men! That is our usual topic of conversation, along with writing books, how we can see Angelina Jolies attraction to how damn HOT Brad Pit is MMM unless one of us is having abad day.
At that time, we "bend each others ears" with our woes. I try to encourage her and she definitely makes me laugh and encourages me.
You see, you are on the outside looking in. You can see the mouths move, but have no lip reading skills. You know a whole lot about nothing obviously.
You are one ignoramous to come on this blog an ask EVERYBODY such a dumb ass question.
Well everyone----ANSWER THE FREAKS QUESTION!
WHAT DO YOU THINK????? SHOULD WE 3 WAY AND VIDEO IR FOR YOU ALL TO SEE??
Fuck you! Oh BTW----I am AKA Joan so you will be having a 4 way with my dual personality. Just more pleasure for you honey!!!
COOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You got double posting of that one:)))) May be a good thing. You can absorb the information better. too bad there isn't the capability to highlight the strong points!
Oh, pfft the whole post is a strong point Tushie Lover. Tushie Lover???WTF were you smoking when that name "popped" into you "head!" LOL
Joan,
LOL!
To the question I'd have to say:
Thanks but no thanks. I can get hot just thinkin bout men. Don't need to see any women.
Wendy,
I see that it would work quite well, however, it would depend on his proximity. Due to location, and very small town, population 8,800, not many of those men that are IMing me are within an hour or so drive of me. So for the most part it would be empty phone sex and probably empty promises of meeting up. The men that do IM me from within a reasonable distance don't usually get overtly sexual in a first IM.
Bertie;
Oh, is it a woman?? PFFT lol!! Yea I like men for sure!!!
Actually I need to get a move on here because I am going to that salsa club again.
My only worry is that I am so exhausted I will fall out, but oh well. What a way to go. Doing one of my favs...
Ha Ha Ha .... Damn me Joan, you took ALL the words right out of my muffin eating mouth!!!
Muffin = Banana Nut with cream cheese
And that cream is allllllll over my mouth from laughing so freaking hard I thought I was gonna choke!
All we need now is for Faryn to slide on in betwixt us .... how many of US are there now?? hahahahhahaaha oh god ... call me a hot assed dick swinging paramedic cuz i need me some mouth to V .... woo hooo and honey you have a GOOD time tonight cuz you got the attitude to go with your swinging salsa hips.
I LOVE YOU Joan!
;)
Have fun Joan! I'm taking a break this weekend to harvest a new crop, take care of myself, and admire my new jewelry. I've found a couple of entertaining men, so far, and I'm gonna play with them online for a bit. After that gonna paint my toes, deep condition my hair and skin, and try to sleep more than three hours at a time.
Joan
How do you really feel about Tushie lover?
He was curious about something and asked let's not lose it and rip him a new ashole!
How about welcome to the blog Tushie lover and no taleda and I are not lesbians.
You think you may have been a tad aggressive with the boy?
We want to welcome people with open arms and let them play in the blog.
I am all about an open conversation but verbal abuse is a tad much.
Don't want to scare anyone away.
So let's have lots of fun and if you want to put on the gloves go for it but let's build it up slow!
Look ... There's nothing wrong if Taleda and Joan want to munch rug. Hey Ass Lover, I happen to be bisexual and LOVE to go down on a woman. Actually I prefer to lick pussy better than sucking down sperm. So your question is definitely a typical guy hoping that two women that are buddies will turn into rug munchers. So tushie face, stop putting your foot up your tushie.
How's that David .... Is that a better way to slam an ass?! BTW - This is my first post.
Joan: you're one crazy bitch, I love you ... but I don't want to lick you ;)
Taleda: I think you secretly deep down want Dr. Bob.
Darkpoet - I love your postings ... You're a cool guy!
Jim - You'll chase every woman all over this blog. You're funny as can be - you're trying to be the Chatchi of the blog :)
I really enjoy this blog. And David - not to kiss tushie, but you have a very unique writing style. Sometimes I feel like we share the same sense of humor. Alright I'm off to go find me some ...
PS: Dr. Bob, you remind me of my father who was an out-of-his-mind therapist. Most shrinks are crazy, and I love the fact that I still picture you as Richard Dreyfuss and Bill Murray walking around with goldfish on his neck in What About Bob :)
David,
Point taken, but really don't you think that was rather an inausipicious beginning to introduce yourself with? Would introducing myself by saying gee I'd really like to do a foursome with you, Joe, and Darik not make you think I'm some sort of loser, doofus, nitwit? Or do I need to be more overt with men?
LOL ... This just keeps getting better and better. I'm so glad I'm on colonel joan's good side :) Joan - you're a cool woman. I really enjoy reading all of your postings.
But you were definitely pretty hard on Tushie Lover ... But, you know what, his nickname is that of an ass, so I'm sure he knew he was being an ass.
You probably reacted the way he wanted you to react. So right now he's probably really happy that you reamed into him.
Other than the south, where my daddy always said "Life is like a box of chocolates ..." Wait, that's my momma and I'm not forest gump. Anyway I'm all about being treatin' everyone with a little bit of honey.
And, by the way Joan, have you ever have a man cover you with honey and lick you head to toe? It's hot!!!!
One of my favorite things is to cover a man's cock with honey and then get him off and that way when he cums in my mouth, it's like a latte with extra honey from starbucks.
Just about one of the hottest thiings I've ever done - and which I'm going to do tonight when my bootie call arrives. YES - I am a slut and I'm proud of it. I luv sex ... a nd I'm in my prime. I'm not a cougar - I'm at the right age and damn!!! do I have some good orgasms.
And BTW boys, the next time you lick a woman's pussy, lick her clit and keep adding pressure as she's closer to cum and put one finger two inches inside her and press against her g-spot. You do that ... a nd your woman is going to want to give you a honey milkshake.
And David, my offer still stands -- Next time you are in my neck of the woods, I want to dip your stick in some honey ... mine and golden blossom.
Bertie
I tend to ignore stupid remarks and not sink to their level.
I do love how you guys watch each others backs.
Loyalty is very important to me in all my friendships!
Kudos David! I've come to expect nothing less from you. I realize that here you would have to do that in hopes of converting the obviously less than successful, but sometimes don't you lose it? At the very least, don't you just once in awhile tell someone in a very sweet way to kiss your ass? In such a way as they aren't sure whether they were insulted or not?
A good friend is really worth more than a date. A good friend will pick up your son and take him home for you so you can go out. A good friend will save you from yourself when you are being a big ass over your soon to be ex. A good friend will say maybe you should examine those control issues if you don't want to end up with another idiot. I tell mine I love her every time we part, but then I do that with everyone I love.
Ronda & Bertie makin trouble in CC!
Wow...great video. stimulating conversation...and it's Saturday morning and I'm supposed to be atoning...oh my!
I have had very interesting IMs with guys on lava because that is what that's for, I think, lol. There is a part for dating and a part for relationships, but there is also a third option, I can't remember what it's called right now, but definitely for instant gratification, lol. I had an extrememly steamy IM session with this guy which led to even steamier phone sex. It was hot, fun, daring, and spontaneous. Hmmmm, maybe I'll have to relate that story the next time someone asks that question. David, does this work both ways? Can we initiate 20 questions too? And here's another thought, though. Like the guy I had phone sex with, while he lives in Colorado so is g.u. to begin with (I'm in Florida), do these IM or phone connections lead to dates and/or eventually relationships? My experience is that it's for the NOW and no need to take it further. I guess what I'm saying is if I get all hot and steamy with some stranger via IM or phone, I'm not sure I want to meet face to face after that, but then again, haven't had that option to say no to, either. The guy I wrote about that vaporized, our phone calls got a bit steamy and I couldn't wait to meet him, and when we met, we couldn't keep our hands off of each other, and yet even he pulled the disappearing act with no rhyme nor reason.
Mel
David;
Yea ok . I just acted like that to get you to cum and scold me;) I think I have been worse on occasion, but sorry there
Hey Tushie Lover, sorry and welcome to the blog. I do always welcome new people with open arms, (WELCOME BiAMY, and ERIC and anyone who I missed. )but you came in with one of those questions that rubbed my Tushie the wrong way. bend over and I will sew that rip in your ass up and call it even.
Hey, yea Muffin was awesome this morning. it was an all bran muffin with raisins. That is MY kind of muffin.
Carpet muncher?? LOL The only thing I do to a "carpet" is spot clean it and vaccuum it!
Bi Amy:
Your great. I am glad you do not want to lick, suck or stimulatee me. In this case, we can be cool. BTW--I LOVE the movie "What about Bob--Hilarious!!"
OKKK. LOL Horny Lisa:
LOL Well this morning is great for laughs, considering I just got ran off the road and messed up my precious little car. I love my car:( but I guess I loved my life more than thought I did. Thanks, and thank you for the labia lesson for the men. Refresher course never hurts anyone. LOL Honey? No still waiting for that experience. Don't call yourself a slut?! That sounds horrible.
I actually slept last night and I feel refreshed today!! I think last nights dancing energized me:) I was lucky enough to have this--mmm guy ask me to dance then spent the rest of the night dancing with me! ME of all the hot women in this place---he was awesome on that dance floor, very attentive and just a nice young gebtleman. we will dance again tonight!
I love this place! People aren't a bunch of low life drunks.
This is a place of "dance aholics." They are there to dance these beautiful latin dances, and dance they do--we do;) This is fun at its best when it comes to going somewhere. dance with a hottie who wants to dance, no drunk breathing down your neck and you go home tired, but feeling good.
You lookin for a good time??? Find you a place where Latin dance is of the deepest passion. GREAT!
David, cool shirt Coexist, at least that's how I read it. Anyway, I've read your dating advice and came across your blog very interesting and right on. I've been talking to a guy from a dating site for about 3-4wks. Then we randomly got sexual with phone text messages, never did that before. It was interesting to discover we did a lot of what you talked about in your blog, it was hot! We're meeting in person next week. I just wanted to say a lot of your dating advice and online tips are right on and I wish more guys would listen to your advice. I can't wait to look for and listen to what else you have to say! Thanks.
Tom: Sandbox was my nickname for this place when I first came on. And it took hold and was fun until literal shit hit the fan. Cats use a litter box btw, and Sandbox was a place kids (me and my friends) used to play in at school, and I played in one as a kid in my backyard so, I thought it was a fun name for here cuz I thought this was a fun place too. I certainly don't use it anymore and neither does anybody else now! I learned a lesson from that scorching. Though this is still a fun place and you'll enjoy yourself and learn a lot. I just walk softly and carry a big stick like someone dear to me advised.
Bi-Amy: Me and Joan are straight and friends ... get it? As in into Men. So go dive elsewhere if you wanna lick a slit. And as for me being into Dr. Bob .... only in your head. Peace Dr. Bob I ain't got nothing against you anymore.
And now on to some more juicy blogs!!
My thoughts? The post was very interesting. But where do you go to pickup these girls to flirt with online? Personally I don't believe the whole online dating sites really work. I joined a few to see what it was like and I was immediately spammed with fake messages trying to seduce me into paying the membership fees.
to eric,
..someone else did the research on another blog, certain dating sites have a fairly equal ratio of men to women.....I think it was Yahoo, American Singles, and I forget the other.....
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