How to Close the Girl in the Itty Bitty Bikini

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By David Wygant June 14, 2013 251 Shares

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Have you ever been to the beach?

Of course you have, let me finish…

Have you ever been to the beach and seen an extremely hot woman in a super tiny, itty bitty bikini?

What goes through your head when you see a woman like that?

I’m sure you find her hot. You may even get aroused. But let me ask you something:

Do you find it easier or more difficult to approach a woman when she has almost nothing on?

Well, if you have a problem with approach anxiety–especially with super hot women–then allow me to give you a bit of advice.

Watch the video below and finally figure out how to close the girl in the itty bitty bikini.

Enjoy:

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Steve

Friday, June 14th, 2013

I'd probably ask her where her cavannah boy is, and tell her that that's why you go to Mexico in the first place. To get pampered, and have a sexy guy with rippling abs keep her hydrated all day. Only problem there is the conversation gets to be a little one sided. I mean, think about all the poor cavannah boy's that bring drinks and only ever get a "oh my god you're so hot." Don't you think they have dreams and aspirations too? And then start going on about how hard a life it must be. etc bam, conversation starter.

Just Joe

Saturday, June 15th, 2013

I'd walk over to her and rub my jaw, "You look so sweet, I need to floss my teeth. Can I borrow your floss?"

Matt

Saturday, June 15th, 2013

It's funny how people go to Mexico for the beaches yet they never experience the beauty of environment and actually play in the surf. Instead they just lay on the beach and sleep! I don't get it! Anyway the best approach would be to walk up and ask " who cheats more men or women." great pick up I read somewhere online once. Lol

Bobby M

Saturday, June 15th, 2013

I'd look at her, admire her ass for a moment, and go back to sunbathing. Of course, I'm sure a confident, brave man would walk over, look deeply into her eyes, and engage her in a stimulating conversation about floss.

nico

Sunday, June 16th, 2013

could you look after my bag while I go to the for a swim? and then ... hi thank you. where are you from / how long have you been here? usual things.. it worked once :)

Joe

Sunday, June 16th, 2013

I'm bored. Let's go build a sandcastle! Said with a devilish smile

Deon

Sunday, June 16th, 2013

It’s pretty easy really, why complicate it? How about just saying, “Hi, I couldn’t help but notice that bikini looks really great on you. Like it was made for you. I love the color too. Where did you get it? My name is Deon, what’s your name and where are you from?”

Brad

Sunday, June 16th, 2013

And while you say that, you can witness her dozing off... Come on, people, come up with something more original. What would I say...Hey señorita have you seen that triangular shaped dorsal fin out there about 30 yards in the water ?

Hans

Sunday, June 16th, 2013

Serious, guys. As with any sort of inter-human communication, it always comes down to one thing: how do you convince the other person that he or she would be better off WITH you than without you. Bikini or not, put yourself in the shoes of that other person, and see if you can answer that question: what can this guy offer me that would improve my life, in one way or another ?

mikal stanley

Sunday, June 16th, 2013

i would simply walk over to her, look intohereyesandsay.............. me: excuse me miss Her: yes can i help you Me: yes my niece and i are over there building sandcastles, and for some reason we cant keep the castles stabled, do u have any ideas . her: well im not much of a sandcastle builder, did you try using water. me_ no i havent... thats a great idea, heres our bucket and shovel. come with me and lets fill this up with water, then ill walk you over to our sandcastles and you my niece and i can get this castle built...... we gotta hurrythough or mysand caslte boss is gonna fire us. then igive a big smile. btw im mikal..............

Matt

Monday, June 17th, 2013

First off I wouldn't walk right over to her when she is with the guy.. Shes going to know your just a typical guy approaching her and her guard will be fully up. What I would do is ignore her and bust the guy she is with for hiding under a towel on such a beautiful day. And then transition to engaging her after I got in with the guy she is with. This will allow her guard to come down and also be more intrigued because I'm more interested in talking to the guy she is with rather than her even when she is dressed up all sexy! She will want to know more about me

Matt

Monday, June 17th, 2013

David I will take my hour free coaching with Shogo! Thanks, Matt ;-)

Bob

Monday, June 17th, 2013

Well, to start with, she is obviously with the dude in the other chair (laying within two inches of her chair), and would not talk to you anyway, other than idle courteous, chit chat anyway, so I wouldn't waste my time with her. If I needed to know where to get a towel, or a drink, or have her watch my stuff while I hit on some single women, or use her for some other useful purpose, that is the only way I would even bother talking to her. I would definitely engage the dude, to find out if his girlfriend came with any of her single friends, or knows of any hot night spots to help me find some. Went to the County line Honky Tonk last night and ended up sitting, dancing and flirting with two really cool chicks down here in FL last night. I was the only guy who talked to them all night they said. I got a kick out of watching all the other guys standing at the bar elbowing each other as I talked to, and danced with every cute girl in the place, even while I was sitting with the two pretty girls. One guy asked me how can I do that? I told him to google David Wygant, and laughed. Got the two girls numbers and am going to have a big pool party for my new refurbished pool next week.

Victor Hugo Alegria

Monday, June 17th, 2013

Well I would observe what would be going on. I wouldn't really care. I would just enjoy my time on the beach. I would observe her and I noticed there is a man sitting next to he. I would open them both up. I would be like. Hey you two, how are you enjoying the beach? It looks beautiful out here and I love the breeze =) I would say it with a smile. If they are open would ask them questions about themselves and wonder what the both of them are doing out here. I would ask if they are here enjoying some alone time or if they are just friends out enjoying their time. I would portray confidence naturally cause thats what I learned. =) And also yeah. David asked how one would open and I feel this is best. Closing is a different stroy. ;)

john

Monday, June 17th, 2013

The best approach is to walk straight up to her and say.. "hey BABY.. What are you doing with THIS loser?.. You wanna FUCK???" . Then, when the guy gets up, look at him and say.."you got a problem kiddo?.. you better go play in the kiddie pool before I bust your ass." And, if he's REALLY big, just throw sand in his eyes and RUN LIKE HELL. Sounds simple enough to me.

john

Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

Lol.. Seriously though.. like Bob said, she's obviously with her boyfriend. Leave her / them the hell alone. You wouldn't appreciate some random guy on the beach coming up to your girlfriend if the two of you are trying to relax on the beach... would you? Either look for a girl, or group of girls on the beach, who don't have a guy with them.. or go check out the beach bar. Leave the couples alone.

Bobby M

Monday, June 17th, 2013

John, you know exactly how to make a woman's panties explode.

Random Awesome Guy

Wednesday, June 19th, 2013

Step one:introduction with a touch of humour, What your aim here is, is to develop and sense of familiarity so she or they are comfortable with you. I would say something like "I am baking.com in this sun"then, her or there sense of humour kick in. At this point, make proper introductions with a smile of course. "My name is ___ " she will tell you her name or there names, end it with manners" pleasure to meet you ___" Step two: conversation opener, At this point be yourself,honest and humorous,you have lots of options, you could make an observation or suspend the joke you made in the introduction or make a new joke, keep appealing to her or there sense of humour and above all say things that she and her friends can have an opinion on, if she has some with her(A note on groups: address the whole group because once one leaves, they all leave and its generally good manners to include the whole group. You might be asking yourself how do I let the girl I like know that I like her, that's simple body language)You could say something like "me and my friend or friends were talking about pick up lines and I was telling them you don't need pick up lines" then the conversation should take off from there. Step 3:getting the number, At this point it depends on if its a group your talking to or just her, its easier if its just her at the end of the interaction get her number again at the end of the interaction get the number, make more plans, do something you might both enjoy, like going for a coffee, swim, bar, dance or walk. Again you have lots of options. Until next time guys and girls, enjoy life and have fun.

Nick

Thursday, June 20th, 2013

Hmm, I would walk up to her with a smile and say, "Hey, Im out here trying to enjoy this nice day on the beach, but I cant because you are hogging all of the sun. So I decided to come over here and ask you if I could borrow some, I promise I will pay you back ;-)"

Hans

Thursday, June 20th, 2013

Are you guys serious ? You are commenting on the girl in the video ? Did you have too much tequila, or are you all otherwise braindead ? Obviously David is not talking about the girl in the video, but A girl in a bikini, on A beach. I would say a girl in a bikini on a beach is not really that much different from a girl anywhere else. Instead of walking up to her and start some stupid conversation, observe first. What vibe does she give off ? Does she even notice you ? Try and figure out what you could possibly add to her life - and I am not talking about bodily fluids. Is she in good shape ? Go ask her to go scuba diving with you. If you observe people, you get a good feeling of what they are like, and what to say to them. That said, really the worst nightmare of any woman is a guy who just wants her body. Just trust me when I say that. So whatever you do, do not under any circumstance be the creeper who just wants to get in her pants.

DavidS

Thursday, June 27th, 2013

I'd probably ask her to help me put my sunscreen on my back, seeing as she seems to have a nice tan going. In a playful way of course. With a smile.

nico

Sunday, June 30th, 2013

and? who won?

Kevin

Monday, July 15th, 2013

Meeting women at the beach is like meeting women at a club. If you're in a place where you are expected to wear less , don't expect her to take your ass seriously

Kevin

Monday, July 15th, 2013

"Excuse me, Can you help me put this sunscreen on my cock?

Diaz

Saturday, November 9th, 2013

If she was laying down like she is at the end of the video I would just sit down on the sand beside her and say hey what's up? You can basically say anything as long as your body language is strong and your tone is confident.

Jack

Thursday, May 22nd, 2014

Hi I'm Jack. She says her name, or I ask. What's your sign, then give her mine. What are your interests? Nice bikini, it's great for this kind of weather. Have you ever thought about being (with) a lifeguard?

james

Thursday, August 7th, 2014

I would pretend to be speaking in some language that is actually gibberish and then after trying to communicate with her, let her in on it and laugh it off and tell her I was just trying to meet her.

How to Close the Girl in the Itty Bitty Bikini

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