How many of you would love to go to Venice, Italy?

I’m sure some of you have been. Venice, Italy is one of the most romantic places in the world. It’s beautiful: the walks, the canals, the water, the art, the architecture, the food, the music. It’s a place that if you thought about going alone, you might get depressed. There’s so many places in this world that are incredibly romantic. The thing is, you need to marry yourself to be happy when you’re not in a relationship. That way, you can attract the amazing relationship that’s coming down the road.

Back in October, I went on a romantic ‘mecation’ by myself to Maui. I stayed at the Andaz Hotel, an absolutely beautiful place. It was gorgeous. The room was romantic. It was sexy. I was there all by myself.  I sat around all day, every day by myself or with a couple of friends.  There were no women with me; nothing. It was a ‘mecation’ all the way. I had friends join me, but there was no romance. I enjoy the mecation. Sure I was in Maui, one of the best honeymoon places in the world, but I was enjoying it just as much.

I didn’t feel triggered by anything. I didn’t create a story about how much better it would be if I was with somebody. I just enjoyed it by myself. You see, being happy when not in a relationship is the key to life. When you’re happy when not in a relationship, you’re going to attract someone else, who is also happy when not in a relationship. When the two of you get together, you’ll have a healthy dynamic between you. Independent, and together. That’s what life is all about. Finding the happiness within. When you find the happiness within, your life can be more satisfying.

So what I’d like you to do during this holiday time is check out this video. It’s certainly going to cheer you up. Then, I want you to plan something amazing for yourself this holiday time. Something you can do on your own. Something you’ve always wanted to do. I want you to have it with yourself. I want you to fall in love with yourself this holiday season. Spoil yourself. Take care of yourself. Teach yourself how to be happy when not in a relationship, and that way next time around, you can actually attract somebody who is healthy, like you. Alright my loves, enjoy the video!