How to Be a Powerful Man (Podcast)

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By David Wygant March 6, 2013 212 Shares

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PodcastWithHeadPhonesdavidwygant Lately, we’ve had a string of podcasts on virtues like confidence and patience.

Now, I am going to introduce to a member of my family.

Power.

Women crave power…or let’s put it this way: Women crave powerful men.

For those of you that are not in powerful jobs, rejoice, power has nothing to do with your job.

It has nothing to do with the amount of money you make; it has nothing to do with the prototype of a powerful man.

So what is power and where does it come from?

Find out in today’s podcast.

Listen and enjoy:

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Peter

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

I actually DO believe that your job has everything to do with your power. Powerful men have powerful jobs, it comes naturally. If you work at Wal Mart, and provided you are not the store manager, you are by definition not powerful.

Ben Hunt

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

Peter, I do agree that your career/job has an influence on how powerful you feel! Certainly, as you progress up the career ladder, you feel more powerful about yourself because you have more responsibility.

john

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

Peter, I agree with you for the most part. Except I don't think Wal-mart store manager is high enough up the chain to be considered "powerful". A Wal-mart corporate executive, or an actual member of the Walton family maybe. The store manager might be seen as powerful by the uglier, fatter, low level women working at the store. Not so much by the more attractive women. Besides corporate executives, (vice presedent of the company, and up) there are other jobs seen as powerful. Cops are seen as powerful. (obvious) Club bouncers are powerful. (They bounce the shit out of people ) . Doctors are powerful. (They are seen as having the power of life and death.) Entrepreneurs who run SUCCESSFUL businesses are powerful. (They are the REAL risk takers. Ex. David.) There are others.

john

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Peter, have you ever heard the term "badge bunny"? I know a lot of cops, and they get poontang thrown at them ALL DAY LONG.

Peter

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

John, the Wal Mart store manager might have been the wrong example, but you are absolutely right about (most) of the other ones. Except for cops: most, if not all, cops I know are married to average women at best. Attraction is very closely related to the amount of money you make, and cops usually don't make that much... But I can tell you what is a whole lot more attractive than any of that stuff. I saw it again today at the gym: a guy flirting with a woman...that attracts all the other women. They get really competitive.

Rahul

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

how can i download it on my smart phone. ? there's no link. there was no such prob before. i have missed a lot of podcasts these days! :(

jr

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

I believe in "styles" of leadership. Say... using dance for an example... One can possess the chest-thumping gyrating raw selfish power of a Travolta or Swaysee (Saturday Nite Fever & Dirty Dancing). Typically, these men just use the babes to to show off their dance prowess. Contrast the above style, to that of the dance instructor in the 2006 movie "Take The Lead". Paraphrasing the instructor: A man ALWAYS leads the woman in the journey of the tango-- GENTLY yet FIRMLY !! She TRUSTS HIS LEAD by accepting his invitation to dance by offering her hand. When the dance ends, she has no regrets... Personally, i feel more comfortable expressing the latter leadership style.

Technoboy

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

There is a lot of basis to what you're saying, jr. Insider tip from someone who's been obsessed about swing dancing lately: For men, there are TWO ways to stand out as a dancer. One is to be flashy and have a lot of moves / technical skills. You will notice these guys stand out pretty easily. The Travolta type as you say. But the OTHER way to stand out is to have a very clear strong lead. You won't be able to see these guys stand out as easily. BUT believe me, women like this kind of dancer best and word will get around if you are one of them.

jr

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Hey Technoboy,,, thanks for the tip !!

Adis

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

power over yourself is true power everything else is childs-play

Colby

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

I'd have to agree with David on this one. Power has absolutely nothing to do with your job. It's how you RESPOND to anything that has arrived in your life is what makes you confident and powerful. It's learning how to control your emotions, and presence in ANY situation. That's what makes you powerful. Your job doesn't make who you are. It's your mindset, commitments, and presence with yourself and others. And how much you love yourself.

Bobby M

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

I get the jist of the message, but this is always my biggest struggle when considering beginning a relationship. You talk about being this big powerful confident leader... who always tells the women where the dates are happening, what's going to happen, setting the sexual tone etc... and i can't help but feel like I'd be treating the women like a pet. If I was dating a girl whom I felt like I was "leading" all the time, I'd probably get very irritated with her, with how weak and empty she seems as a person. I'd love her less and less, while fucking her, and I'd probably be tempted to cheat. I don't want to be in front of, or in back of anyone. I want someone I can be WITH. I expect just as much happiness and fulfillment (sp?) from her as I plan on giving back. I want a girlfriend, an equal, human girlfriend. If I wanted something to love and lead I'd go adopt a cat from the animal shelter.

Hans

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

Bobby M, very good point. This whole 'lead' issue is a very subtle thing. You can't really try to boss a woman around that much, she will get annoyed quickly. I think what David is referring to are just the beginning stages of the relationship, you have to create some mystery and intrigue, and for sure show her that SHE won't stand a chance of bossing YOU around. I think that is the biggest turnoff for a woman...

Nuncle

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

I think what David was saying was that a job in itself is not what makes a man powerful (although as the first commenter said there is likely to be an incidental correlation between personal and professional power). But maybe the Walmart shelf stacker does not get his sense of purpose from his job. He can still be powerful in the way he operates. He could still dominate his social circle. Maybe his purpose in life is to seduce women and he just has a job to live on and have an apartment. Maybe he is a musician or writer. Similarly, top executives are not always naturally dominant men. For a start dominant men often piss people off which can damage career prospects

Technoboy

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Plus a man's business life and personal life can be two completely different things. A man CAN be dominant + confident + skilled in his job yet still be submissive + confused + bumbling in relationships. I know this for a fact ;) And the main way a man would accomplish that is if he is a dunderhead who thinks that the same rules that lead him to success in business don't apply to personal relationships ;)

Wayde

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

Agree so much with David. If you are comfortable with yourself, you will be confident and will be able communicate your desires. Some people don't have this foundation and can fake it, however the more they fake it the more insecure they will be. To be in control of your own emotions is power.

Mar

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

It's the masculine qualities that women find attractive guys. Otherwise, they would be interested in other women rather than us. It's the feminine qualities that men find attractive in women. If you're a man, you don't want to be equal with your woman in masculine, feminine qualities. Equality has it's place, but not in sexual attraction and chemistry. I'm sure you would like women to equally approach you but it's not going to happen. When there's a strange sound near the window late at night, do you want her to get up and check it out since you did it last time? Flat tire; would you like for her to change it this time? Bug in the house.....it's her time to kill it or free it since you did it last time? Perhaps you would like to cry on her shoulder this time. Masculine qualities ATTRACT women guys. Knowing what women find sexy and magnifying those qualities in yourself is why we're here. Listen to DW: from confidence comes power. Confidence is masculine. It's what women find sexy and attractive. A man who exemplifies leadership qualities is a man who is attractive to women. Seeking equality does not attract, it neutralizes. Neutrality is for the friend zone. "Nice guys" want equality. Once again, I'm talking about sexual attraction and chemistry, not rights. I know I'm powerful. I do not need a job title to tell me that. Or lots of money. It's how I carry myself. So, DW's podcast resonates with me.

Al E. Neuman

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

The Simpsons concur, Power then the women https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J9-yHLxotD0

Bobby M

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

"When there’s a strange sound near the window late at night, do you want her to get up and check it out since you did it last time? Flat tire; would you like for her to change it this time? Bug in the house…..it’s her time to kill it or free it since you did it last time? Perhaps you would like to cry on her shoulder this time." Yes, yes, yes, and if I was the crying type, yes. I can readily admit this as a man, still feel like a man afterwards, and some condescending bullshit from an anonymous female on a message board is not going to change this. If you deny my masculinity over things like this, and choose not to date me, it's your loss.

Bobby M

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

and Mar, if you're a guy, congrats on feeling like a big manly man over slaughtered cockroaches and filling tires full of air.

Melissa

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

I think Mar is right on...is Mar a woman? Maybe I don't pay attention enough. Anyway. Bobby...here's the deal. If you are my man, you check if there's a noise in the house. You're the MAN! How great would you feel if I got raped and murdered while you were comfortable in bed? Because it was my 'turn' to check? Is next month going to be your turn to have a period? I will be the first to say that I want a man, a powerful man, who out 'powers' me....and I know this is why I am alone. Because men don't get this...bunch of namby-pamby boys still wanting to be led by mama. You know who gets this? David (of course) and Bob the cowboy. Why do you think he has all these women? He's confident, tells a woman to bring her purdy ass to the dance floor...and she does! Because that's HOT. We want you to want us, have a presence and tell us what to do a bit. I want to be your intellectual equal ...maybe even your financial and sexual equal. But I don't want to be your physical equal. It's a man's sheer physical prowess and confidence that is so dang attractive to women. So. You grab the bat and check for intruders. You are the man.

Technoboy

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Haha, let's get back to that thought experiment of having power over very powerful women, Melissa... So hypothetically speaking: what if a guy is very fun and playful and very good at handling you and engaging you, BUT technically speaking you could overpower him because oh say you work out religiously and are navy trained to kick ass or something of that sort? Could you still be attracted to the guy? Don't laugh, I've met several women like that believe it or not. Guess I have a weakness for manly chicks. It's a bad habit, I know, but I digress. IN GENERAL you are totally right though. It's a very safe bet that raw physical strength IS a power I have over a woman, and if I have that power I should wield it gratuitously. But what if the woman is some kind of competitive athlete or I am some scrawny computer nerd? Intellect is like that too. IN GENERAL I could flaunt that power over a woman. BUT what if she is an inventor or iPhone app developer or rocket scientist? Which brings me back to the original point: I think PLAYFULNESS, and generally acting like Wygant, is the best way to have power over a woman because those would work even if she can match or outmatch me in every other way.

Bobby M

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

Well Melissa, I can't beat the rapist up if I'm changing my tampon! Seriously what I'm trying to get at is, I feel like a lot of women really reach when they're evaluating a man's manliness. Of course I am going to protect her from any legitimate threat, stand up to other people who make her uncomfortable, pick the date locations, let her know up front what I want etc. But when a girl seriously detects a lack of testosterone on my part based on the way I spread peanut butter on my toast, I mean come the fuck on. And I'm 6'7, ~300 lbs, so I don't need a bat for intruders, trust me :)

Brad

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Bobby M, at 6'7 and 300lbs, you have the stature of an NFL linebacker. That means it is your destiny to get rid of all the roaches and spiders, to change all the tires, and to scare off all intruders. There is no way around it for you.

jr

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

Does anyone consider the actor Tom Hanks a masculine guy ?? I kinda admire his often overlooked style as a man. A lot of us refer to the Brad Pitts, or Russell Crowes as archetypes of manliness. Hanks seems down to earth and unassuming,however he's for most part in control of situations albeit in a laid back, chilled out, and sometimes humorous way... Also, take a look at the James Bond characters and George Clooney. The guys are portrayed as "Lone Ranger " types i.e. no employees to boss, not much cash, no gangs of friends etc. But... they women get women hot and bothered. To boot they have average looks, E.G. Daniel Craig. Man... sometimes i don't get it...

Sarah

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

Here's a contrast in power of seduction. I met 2 men (separately). Both looked so similar that they could've been twins. I wasn't really attracted to either, but I was in desperate mode on both occasions. Only one of them seduced me. One was a formerly a current governor's staff member no, but now a wealthy, and highly-connected lobbyist. The other is a well-paid, highly skilled blue collar worker. The lobbyist told me about how he could whisk me off for a romp in Miami. The blue collar worker regaled me with stories of the crazy traffic on the street near the coffee shop. Who's power was more successful in seducing me and why? I know you weren't thinking there'd be a test, but don't worry, I grade on a curve.

e

Monday, March 11th, 2013

Who cares. They're both rich. Go date the schlub that works at Jiffy Lube, then we'll talk. Also, notice how the blue collar thing was brought up...even if women will consider it if the guy is rich, it's still a stigma.

Technoboy

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

I agree with Bob - you're being WAY too easy Sarah. First of all without knowing anything else the answer has to be the blue collar guy. Because if it weren't your story would have a rather weak climax, no? Guess what guys I went with the rich and powerful guy. surprise! Second of all the lobbyist gave all his power away to you by inviting you to a vacation without you having to earn it by working up to it, and also by talking from the position of HIM qualifying himself to YOU. Plus he tried to woo you with wealth and status. If he could woo you more cheaply by using his personality, he would probably do that instead. But he did not. The blue collar guy just opened up and shared a personal story. Now if he complained about traffic in the tone of a whining negative nancy, the answer would probably be you picked door #3, but I assume he did it in a fun and engaging way that got you to open up too. So, where do I fit in on your curve? How many standard deviations am I away from the mean? I assume of course that like the curves of most naturally occurring random variables yours is bell shaped? I.e. with a prominent hump in the middle and a powerful drop around the outsides?

Sarah

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Bob & Technoboy are right. Hans is right in that jackasses can still get women to be attracted to them. There are a lot of women who are into that. Blue collar guy. Our first meet-up was great. We just shot the breeze. It went downhill very quickly after that because he was an egotistical jackass with a hero complex. As time wore on, not much time, thankfully, I found out he just had the gift of gab.

Bob

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

That's too easy Sarah. Come on, no girl likes a show off, narcissistic, wanna be, jackass...

Hans

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Bob, show off, narcissistic, wanna be, jackass...it all doesn't matter. If she likes you, she likes you...

Sarah

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

I forgot one detail both shared - they were both show off, narcissistic, wanna be, jackass… Some girls actually like these traits, by the way. Not me, but I was desperate at the time and willing to give anything a go. So, which one & why.

Erick

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

Lately i just broke up with a girl and ive been feeling more introverted and i dont even really care girls as of now. I really liked her and it bummed me out, so i took up weightlifting and volleyball to improve myself. Im almost 18 and in highschool about to graduate and just wondering if its normal to feel drained after a break up, she was my "First love". I know it will get better with time and talking with other women but i just want some advice, feed back, comments?

Ben Hunt

Friday, March 8th, 2013

Hey Erick, I can relate to you on this one! I broke up with a girl at 17, that I had a major crush because I was lacking in confidence in myself, and rather than being honest about it, I feared being dumped in front of my friends, so I ended the relationship because of my ego. All I can say to you is, take the time out for yourself, find what makes you tick, and keep working with David's stuff and things will work out for you! :) I'm now twenty, and have a solid foundation of confidence that I never had before, and have developed my social skills so I'm comfortable going over and meeting new people during the course of the day.

jr

Friday, March 8th, 2013

Yeah Eric... it IS normal feeling a bit drained after a breakup with a girlfriend--especially if it was your "1st Love' as you say. Maybe a little feedback ?? Rest assured my man that you're in good company because most of us have experienced this. The thing is : How we handled it. I remember breaking up with my 1st g/f too. Dang it , it WAS tough !!! What worked for me it getting over it was having a few buddies to do activities with but not REHASHING the relationship too much with them. They sort of knew how i was feeling. Man, i just tried the best i could to get out & tag along and have fun with some pals. IN TIME Erick,,, you'll sloowwwllly forget about your g/f and look forward in taking care of your future goals as a young man... Hey besides... with this DW stuff, there's a GOOD chance you'll be chatting it up with babes galore. Later bro !

Mike

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Sarah, Answer: Blue Collar worker! Because he wasn't selling himself nor trying to buy you. How funny was his stories? lol

Melissa

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Bobby- not sure what you are saying. Has anyone questioned your ability to butter toast? Brad's right. With your stature women who crave protection and combine that notion with affection will be naturally drawn to you...and expect all the bug-killing that goes with it. Just like men expect gymnasts to be amazing in bed. Sarah- I vote blue collar because lobbyists....ewwwww.

Nathalie

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

For me job really isn't an indicator of a man being powerful or not..Its all in their masculine energy..The more masculine a man is, the more feminine I can feel being in his presence and just relax and "be" and feel protected.. I do see to point about men sometimes feeling wary of coming off as too controlling with their masculine energy. Further on in dating or a relationship, if it is because you want to please the girl by getting her opinion for example on what to do on your next date, it is fine to give her options to choose or getting her input.. There will always be a sort of dance between the both of you and the two energies. (masculine & feminine) The ideal is for men to be mainly in their masculine energy..

Mar

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Bobby M, Rather emotional aren't we? I'm simply sharing my perspective like always. Bragging is beneath me. And, like DW, I want every man on this site to be sucessful with women, not just me. Most women I've dated and converse with want the type of man that DW is describing. Not all of course. A minority want a more neutral relationship. They're more like friends than lovers, and things are equal across the board. They don't experience the high voltage of attraction and sparks with one another, but things are more stable, calm, etc. One author I highly respect says that these type of relationship make up about 20% of love relationships. However, I'm highly attracted to women that own their feminine qualities. They make me melt. They make me want to frequent the gym. They inspire me. They make me want to become a better man. The type of women I'm into are turned on by the man that DW describes in the podcast. I've decided that I want to deal with these type of women, so I conduct myself in a way they find attractive. I have no problem with that. Feels natural to me actually.

Brad

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

I occasionally work with a guy whom I would describe as utterly arrogant, selfish, cocky, and ruthless. That doesn't keep the women away, to the contrary. Damn, I am not the feminine type myself, but even I feel electricity in the air when he shows up. Testosterone attracts estrogen, and he has a lot of testosterone. It really is that simple. By the way, I always enjoy working with him, because the results are...electrifying !

e

Monday, March 11th, 2013

Are you a guy or a girl?

Melissa

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Well, Techno...though I workout daily I am not stronger than most men and I would be really turned off dating a guy I could beat at arm wrestling. I want to be pinned down sometimes, you know. I kind of like a bit of breathless struggle. Maybe that's because it's FAR more likely that I will meet a man who has physical power over me. I've only met 2-3 men in my life who have had true intellectual power that exceeds my own. So? All I need is a guy who isn't going to be bent about my smarts, but brings the power in other ways. Physically, usually. I also like guys who have 'power over environment'...meaning they can build, sculpt, fix, etc. That's a manly power that I will concede.

Technoboy

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Well, Melissa, if you're right that would dent my playfullness-trumps-all working theory. And also put professional bodybuilders and competitive fighters squarely outside of my dating league :( No loss in the case of bodybuilders, but dang, I do have a weakness for a woman who can kick ass. That's about as sexy as a man who can cook and clean! It took me almost three decades to figure this out, but: yes, the #1 most important thing for me is that a partner can keep up activity wise. Having a mind that's sharp enough to cut glass is a nice bonus, but turns out it's not a requirement. I can see myself having a meaningful relationship with a fitness instructor half my intelligence, but not with a brilliant couch potato. And if I were to expect both, no one would be good enough for me either and I would just go crazy from frustration. I'm afraid I'd pull a Melissa :(. No, please, I don't want to pull a Melissa :(. Uh oh, what if I pull Melissas too? I DO tend to set the bar pretty damn high... P.S I think you were right about Michigan Girl ;)

Hans

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Did you guys ever notice that (provided you do travel) in most other countries, the roles of females and males are a lot stronger defined than in North America, or Western Europe ? You don't even have to go that far - Mexico for you US people, Greece or Spain for me. Over there, males are males, and females are females. I am not really sure where that started, but it seems to me that in our so-called modern societies, we are almost ashamed of showing our masculinity, or our femininity. It's not a good thing...

Al E. Neuman

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

You speak of the pussification phenomenon

Technoboy

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Pussification phenomenon. That's cute!! Me, I coined the term 'erosion of balls' for the same thing. Less commonly I've used 'deballsification'.

Melissa

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Ah, Boy....maybe I am frustrated because of my expectations... I've tried not having any. That's been my entire life...to not have any expectations from men. But that doesn't work. Because no matter how hard I try, I cannot convince myself that what I want out of a relationship is beyond difficult to find. Didn't work my entire marriage. I always wanted more. Because what I want is simple. Just a dude who is my equal or better. And it's not like I was hatched from a Faberge egg. I am from regular peeps. There should be a man out there who is fun, sexy, smart and gainfully employed who isn't a freaking whack job. I mean, I exist...I am not one of a kind. A guy like myself should exist too. I approach this like I approach any new technical innovation. I see a technology I like, let's say on a coffee machine...and I want to use that technology to innovate a line of thermometers. I see it in front of me and I know I can tweak it into something new to suit my needs. Because it already exists. So funny, I am going to get my tubes tied tomorrow. For real. And I keep getting panicky fits of irony thinking my story will go ".....and she never got laid again."

Technoboy

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Err there's nothing funny about tying your tubes. For real. And actually you ARE one of a kind. You, and me, and Al, and Hans, and Brad, ... . If you had to pick just ONE most important part of yourself that you expect from your partner, what would it be? Food for thought. 'freaking whack job' is such a relative term. Long story, but: I recently added 'emotional stability' to my list of requirements haha ;)

Sarah

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

I learned a lot about the friendzone by watching my brother when he was a teen and young adult. As a bystander it was painful to watch. It got so bad that a professor actually threatened to fail my brother and his girl "friend" because she kept passing notes to him and distracting him. I was in the same class and dreamed of strangling both with my bare hands. The professor actually lectured him about not getting into the friendzone. My brother came to his senses. He actually asked the girl out, she turned him down (she had a boyfriend, which he already knew). He never went into the friendzone again. The professor's still around if you need help, by the way. Consider the rejection you get when a girl turns you down to be an injection to make you stronger the next time you ask another girl out. If you don't take the injection, you will get infected in the friendzone and you will experience prolonged suffering. (Sorry for the clumsy analogy).

jr

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Sarah, I was SURE that you hooked up with the lobbyist who whisked you RIGHT away to Miami. However, i was betting too that you were thinking a lot about that blue collar guy all the way out and into your romp.

Sarah

Tuesday, March 12th, 2013

No, Melissa was right - eww! I'm not wowed by money. The first guy who seduced me was a short order cook who lived in a motel room. Of course, I was in my 20s. However, most of the women I knew who went to that restaurant had flings with him. The short order cook had game - he credited a lesbian who ran the local gay bar for his success with his game. LOL. I still remember him fondly.

Melissa

Friday, March 8th, 2013

Just one part? I would say my sense of humor. I have never been able to just laugh hysterically with a man I was involved with....my friends, my brother, other guys who are just random, sure. But to be up laughing, can't wait to tell someone something because you know it will crack them up, laugh in bed sometimes....that would be amazing.

Sid

Sunday, March 10th, 2013

Awesome podcast David ive been in a relationship for the past seven months and ive been using everything ive learned from your products Thanks!

chris

Monday, March 11th, 2013

i totaly agree with you in your podcast since confidence is so important ,it gives you power that most people want from you and become the lider ,very goood podcast

e

Monday, March 11th, 2013

Well, in private, women women want a guy with those qualities David described AND a great job. Saying that your job doesn't matter is just not based on reality. Women would like all of the above, but what often happens is a guy with all those qualities are hard to find....so they end up having to figure out what they can put up with or go for the most. I had a high school friend. The guy's built like an adonis...even did really well with girls in high school. But, I told him repeatedly to go to a 4 year university instead of a community college. He would never listen and he's pretty much had problems after high school.

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