You’ve met an incredibly hot woman. You’re almost infatuated by her. The chemistry is off the charts. You start having sex and she just captivates you like no other woman ever has before. Being with her is magical. You’re normally pretty cool and calm about relationships but something about this woman drives you crazy.

If you’re not with her you long to see her. When you kiss her you don’t want to stop. She’s incredible inside and out, but something’s amiss with this woman.

You start treating her like gold.  You start treating her like a princess like your Mom always taught you. You buy her things. You take her on holiday, and do beautiful things for her.  But there’s something wrong.  Something eating at you but you don’t know what.  That my friend, is what I call dating intuition.

You’re dating a woman who doesn’t really reciprocate the things you do for her. Her “thank you” is very weak, and she starts to behave like she expects you to treat her like royalty. It’s all one way traffic.  So what’s really happening here?

You’re dating a selfish, narcissistic person. There are plenty of them running around, but they disguise themselves really well. They’re generous as long as it’s on their terms, and the relationship is usually dictated by their rules and regulations.

The trouble is you’re so blinded by her “magic” you don’t really notice it at first. I’ve known guys go through years of being treated like a servant until they finally get wise. You need to be on your toes, but eventually the cracks will start to show up. They start flaking on dates. They forget to invite you to certain parties or events.

The biggest clue you’ll get is when you make a mistake. The one time you buy them the wrong gift, forget a birthday, or don’t return their call, you get attacked. They tell you that you weren’t there for them and you let them down.

This is their biggest giveaway. It’s your undeniable proof you’re dating someone with a narcissistic personality. This kind of woman thinks the world revolves around them, and relationships with them rarely turn out very well!

Watch out for them guys.

Have you ever dated a crazy narcissistic woman? How did you cope and how long did you put up with her? Let’s talk.