How To Attract The Perfect Person

Attracting the perfect person. People ask me all the time, “David, how can I attract the perfect person?” My answer is always the same: “Are you perfect? Are you a perfect person?”

None of us are perfect, and that is what makes life so interesting. It’s our imperfections — the way we conduct ourselves and who we are — that make life really interesting.

There is no perfect person in life. There is no perfection person for you in dating.

The person you end up with is not going to be perfect. They are going to have flaws. They are going to do things that irritate you. There are going to be things that you battle about together.

The best way to attract a great person, is to work on yourself first. Fall in love with yourself.

Accept who you are. Accept your flaws.

Accentuate the positive things in your life, and believe in abundance. If you truly believe there are a lot of great people to meet out there, then eventually you will meet that perfect person for you — that perfect person who is imperfect in every way.

It’s all about you first though. What have you done to work on yourself today? What have you done to embrace yourself?

Did you wake up this morning and think about negative things first? Life is about attitude and mindset. The more positive your attitude is, the more positive people you’re going to attract.

About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Thursday, June 3rd, 2010

Amen to that. There are so many people seeking perfection in a partner but actually forget to take a look and work on themeselves. In today's day & age where people lead such busy lives, they forget that relationships have to be worked on, a lot of people are quick to take the easy way out as soon as challenging issues arise, as they deem their relationship to be imperfect. The irony is this... People are searching for the perfect relationship in an imperfect world.

Dancer

Why are we men so intimidated by beautiful women who seem to be perfect or at least we assume they are perfect and sell our personality really cheap. The funny thing is that most of the time we dont have a plan how they really are in person . We just watch them and dream about their endless perfection. I stop here my brain starts again to overcomplicate things and invent a lot of shit ;).

Bob

Dancer The answer to your question is really quite simple. Anything in the World, that is rare, and unusual, is sought after, coveted, and admired. A beautiful woman is no different than our thinking a Lamborghini is the most beautiful, incredible, sought after, car ever invented. If you had a Lamborghini, I suspect you would treat it with kid gloves, worry over scratching it, worry over it's maintenance, etc, just like you would if you had a beautiful woman. What is the difference really? A Buick will do almost anything a lamborghini will, probably more in fact. The difference is rarity. Diamonds, Gold, Platinum, AND beautiful women are rare...So it is human nature to think of beauty as having higher value than normal looking, average ("Buick or Chevrolet") women, who are common in the world. It is simple human psyschology. Think of it that way...hope it helps. Bob

Mike-Ro

Bob you said it right...rare...But here come the abundance principle. In my case, I think the reason I do stupid thing around a great woman is cause on a subconscios level,even more if I see she likes me, I tend to think defensive, like OMG I gotta have her first, how can I do to make this thing faster? In other words, I need confirmation as fast as I can , for my ego?Maybe.Or maybe because I think that she's a "limited edition person" in my life....I like how that sounds...limited edition person :)

Cathy J

This is my favourite blog post so far. Of course, life is all about mindset. Not only do we need to watch our thoughts but also what we input into our minds - on television, conversations.... even if you live with someone who is negative or nagging, choose to be positive in the morning - perhaps play something inspiring on your ipod or listen to music that relaxes you on the way to work. Regarding the beautiful women, often they are beautiful on the inside and out, and that is okay. They are not perfect. Choose to be grateful for the positive and not focus on the negative. [Most people seem to have the default setting to look for the imperfections then get disappointed - this could be your ego trying to control you.]

Friday, June 4th, 2010

Bob I agree with you on that one. I guess i just do not know enough beautiful women. If the opposite would be the case then i wouldnt put so much value on their looks. But I am just 21 and there is still a lot to find out. Except 2012 is not the end of the world xD

Farley

We attract who we are. If we want an attractive, healthy, emotionally stable woman who has her act together, etc, we have to become that ourselves first. A very attractive female friend of mine told me once: "Beautifull women are everywhere, but a real man is rare to find." There is no such thing as a perfect person, otherwise we would all be the same, and that would be boring.

Farley Agree with it all!!

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