People ask me all the time about how to date multiple people. You’re allowed to have multiple orgasms, so why are you not allowed to date multiple people?

My answer to people who ask me about this is always the same. I tell them to date as many people as they can handle in their life.

If you can handle dating six people at one time in your life, then do it and enjoy yourself. Date as many people as you possibly can until you find the person with whom you truly click, the one who makes you want to see them again (and only them).

There’s no reason that you should not date as many people as you can handle. If you can handle dating three people at once, then date three people at once. If you can only handle dating one person at a time, though, you should only date one person at a time.

There are no rules about this. People always ask me if they are “allowed” to date more than one person at a time. The answer is, absolutely! Do whatever you want. This is your life.

If you are dating multiple people, there is one thing I want you to be sure to do. You need to keep track of what you have said to each person and what you have talked about with each person. Keep a journal so that you can really start to get deeper about what attracts you to each person. By doing this, you will not only learn more about yourself but you may actually see which one you want to give a better chance.