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It’s the holiday season, and I am currently in Hot Springs, Arkensas enjoying some holiday cheer.
Today, I want to leave you with a thought.
I want you to think about this statement and tell me how it makes you feel:
“True Love Constantly Blows Me Away Every Day”
I look forward to reading the responses from all of you!
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About David
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Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.
It makes me feel like this was written by someone who hasn't been in their relationship very long.
True love - real true love - can be 100% true without it being something that makes you unable to see anything negative about it or the person you're with.
How does this make me feel?
It makes me smile, but not for the reason you might think.
I have been in relationships in the past where I have told someone I loved him and meant it. It was not until later with a different man where I felt something I could never have imagined (true love) that I understood why people made statements like this.
When I would try to describe the difference to girl friends of mine who had yet to experience it, I could never explain it to them and I know they couldn't understand it.
So I smile because I know EXACTLY what you mean, and I know that anyone who has yet to find true love will have NO idea what you mean. It's one of those things you can only understand once it happens to you. But boy is it worth waiting for!
I can tell you that in my 20s this would have made me feel like I want to laugh at whoever said this but now in my 30s it makes me feel like the person who said this described the exact reason I read this blog and bought your mastery cds -- cause that is what I want to say about myself one day
i feel like i want to know how this person knows that they are in "true love"
not sure i believe such a thing exists
i think you can be in love with many different people in your life and that true love meaning "the one and only love" does not exist.
or if there is only one true love i hope mine doesnt get hit by a bus before i get a chance to meet her.
Initial feeling... lucky person that can say this everyday; I am happy for these people. Second thought... I'm waiting, hoping, trying, patient, jealous - or envieous, I forget which one. Lexi? which one?
Mostly, always keeping a positive thought that my day will come with the time is right, hoping I don't get hit by a bus first. LOL
My inital thought to the statement was this image of a woman wearing a white dress standing on a patio amongst a backdrop of sand and waves at a beach with the wind blowing her hair. Now after absorbing everything a little bit more I feel that true love is the counter balance against life. Getting deeper here, I feel that life is suffering, love balances that suffering by making the individual feel the exact opposite of suffering while living in this world.
Reminded me of your blog about being with someone twenty eight hours and how it only felt like one minute. That kind of deep connection is more than wonderful. The chemistry, endless laughing, knowing what each other is thinking, lbeing drawn in to their light scent of their body and sound of their voice. It's just so awesome to be in love...... be so ever grateful of each minute, each day, treasure the time really feel blessed and be in love. Do the right things, say the right things and love the right way. Truely.
Great postings from everyone!
Love when everyone gets deep and its nice to contemplate on things that matter!
Off to sleep now in hot springs Arkansas!
Has anyone been here?
We spent the night at the hotel Arlington listening to a band.
Good times for all!!
At first I thought...sappy. But then I thought about it and it really does! I would love to feel that way about someone, haven't yet, but have seen it.
It's that love that you can argue, dislike, be angry at and still completely love and find the respect for the other person to make it through those tough times and the wonderful times and think, wow this blows me away!!
And I know it will happen for me when the time is right.
True love is from the heart when you can close your eyes and see them. When you make love to them and only they are in your mind. Wanting to be with them constantly standing beside them to face all obstacles.
David: I have been to Eureka Springs Arkansas, and it is awesome! (just northwest of Hot Springs) Built on the side of a steep mountainous area, it has over 200 turn of the century victorian homes. The city requires all homes be refurbished to authentic colors, many including at least 3 different colors. They are true works of art. I spent 5 days there at the top of the hill. There is a wonderful bread and breakfast with a main house and several stand alone, adorable and afforadable cabins on the property. The city is known for wellness and natural healing since the early 1900's, hence the name "Erueka Springs". They used the believe the nautural springs yielded water that had the healing power to cure cancer, so the hospital at the top of the hill was a haven for the wealthy, believing they could come and drink the "magic" water, rest and surround themselves with the beautiful rolling countryside; be cured for life. Unfortunately, the hospital's busiest place was the morge. I especially loved the horse drawn carriage ride they have at sundown that takes you through the cobblestone streets. There are many little shops to browse and the pace is slow and friendly. Many places to investigate the natural healing aspect of life. Hope that wastn't too much information to digest. Enjoy your trip. :)
If anyone is interested in my ramblings of Eureka Springs, I stayed at the Lookout Cottages Bed and Breakfast. website: lookout@ipa.net Even though I had a very unfulfilling marriage, I thought this place was the most romantic and relaxing vacations we ever had. All the world's problems seemed to just disapear. I definitly want to re-visit with Mr. Right. :) I remember the Lookout Cottage having a back porch that overlooked a ravine; very private, very romantic.
Until someone has met their soul mate, I think it's hard for a lot of people to relate to the "depth and breath and height [their] soul can reach when feeling out of sight for the ends of being and ideal grace" - to quote Elizabeth Barrett Browning - so don't worry if other people don't get it or know. Most can't until they experience it, or so many people think they find it, but it's fools' gold, and that idealism/hope gets replaced with bitterness or whatnot. For anyone who has found that kind of true love, treasure it, and don't "cast your pearls before swine" (not referring to anyone on the blog, just in general to anyone negative who intentionally might ridicule or undermine or put out any kind of negativite energy) ... a true soul mate should blow you away everyday in pure awe and joy and love!!!
I definitely have not experienced this, but I have been following you on your relationship to this person for awhile & you are definitely teaching me. I think I realize what you are saying & that the relationship between the both of you is honest, pure, and you both meet each others' needs. I believe that there would be no room for thought of any other person once you have found this person.
Both of your needs are being met in a loving relationship with no other feelings except to please each other and love and support each other. I think that is what you mean by true love blowing you away everyday.
Hey people, true love is out their just be positive, life is all bout confidence and fun and love especially, all women want is to have fun and to be loved like everyone else, for 2009 lets rock our lives out of it lets live it up yea baby peace out !!
True love constantly blows you away everyday.
This is not an ordinary feeling. It's like a dream came true. Feeling like you are in cloud 9. It's like you hit the jackpot. There is always excitement in everything you do. It sometimes stop you from doing things you used to do before. There is a big changes in your attitude and your aura. Unconciously, you make changes to your sorroundings either negative or positive change and you don't care about it. Your reactions to everything comes out so naturally. There are no worries and excuses that will stop this inner feeling of true love.
True Love is a magnetism that draws you to that person when you touch that person especially a man there are outward and inward feelings. Then the people start to glow when they look into each others eyes.
I've never been to Hot Springs but I've been invited to go in the spring '09. Current b/f has a place there and he loves golfing. It's a golfers paridise. So, from what I can tell on their web site there is lots to do. The village has several swimming pools and tennis courts 20 miles of walking/bike trails. Beautiful landscape. Lots to do in the city. Can you recommend some outings?
True love is wanting to be with that person so much that when you think you have lost them you go out of your mind. You can't sleep, eat or function without them. You cry day and night just to be in their arms again. Your heart aches so badly that you will do anything to see them or hear their voice again. Your stomach is just sick, your mind distraught, anxiety takes over your body. You talk to everyone about it hoping to find an answer or a solution. Then they come back into your life you feel like you have won the lottery, you cry when you make love, you can't touch or hold them enough just the sound of their voice makes you smile. You get buttterflies at the anticipation of seeing them, smelling them, holdng them. True love is a love that grows with you over many years and gets stronger and stronger. You know each others thought and feelings. If you have that don't take it for granted appreciate them for everything they are and do for you. Always say I LOVE YOU. Learn from your mistakes. Be willing to forgive and love each other like their is no tomorrow.
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