How David Wygant Lost His Virginity

Tom

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Was this video for education purposes, or to just brag and people like me feel bad? because you know I don't get pussy, makes me feel like a loser, I still suck in bed. women won't let me feel their breast, women don't let me kiss them. women allow me to do anything with them that isn't physical, because they don't like me like that and it burns a hell in me. the limit is being a friend. remember duckie from pretty in pink? please david, just do me one favor, just one, watch this whole video part from Pretty In pink, the Jon Cryer(ducky) -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlNIAEp-BVE then you will understand why people like me and Duckie's anger is justified. But onto me, I only had sex twice. same women, very boring, 1st one was in 1996, and 2nd was in 2009, the 1st one(virginity lost) it was missionary, no oral, no foreplay, because she didn't want me touching her. I don't even know her name. the 2nd time, which really probably by your standards isn't a second time because I didn't ejaculate was with a co worker, I did some oral, she didn't like it, I felt like an idiot, we started the "doggy style", I had a thought, I started crying and I left. you shared your amazing sex stories, and I shared mine, happy now david. just do me one favor david, just one. watch the entire video from the movie pretty in pink, I want you to analyze the club scene with Jon cryer yelling at molly ringwald. his anger was justified.

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john

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Don't feel bad, they don't like me either. (I'm Debbie Downer today,, lol.)

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Karl

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

My virginity story: I was also 18, going on 19, and a freshman in college. My girlfriend at the time and I were both virgins. We were playing 'just the tip' one night, as we'd already decided we wanted to wait a long time to really 'do it,' but the pleasure got the better of us and we went most of the way. I say "most of the way" because I managed to pull out after 1-2 minutes and squirt it all over the bed. My two roommates were sleeping peacefully about 5 and 10 feet away from us, haha. The next few days were pretty frightening as I was trying to find out what "pre cum" was and how the biology of pregnancy worked, lol. Fortunately there was no "Karl Jr." on the way, and the next few months were very formative sexually. Good times, haha.

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José Colín

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

I think you should better pay attention to this part of the movie Tom! https://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=_NW66ss-eC8

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Cole

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

I actually lost my virginity a week ago today. I was at a bar with some friends. we met some girls. we all got drunk. me and one of the girls started making out and went back to my place, me with one girl, my roommate with the other. We get back to place. Go up to my room. Start making out and some foreplay goes on. Here's the best part...I couldn't get hard at all! Hahaha! Looking back I think it's kinda funny. Here I am, 20 years old, in bed with a naked women who I barely know, about to lose my virginity and I can't get hard. I had "limp-dick" or "Whiskey-Dick". The girl though, was actually totally cool with it more or less. She thought it was her fault; "This has never happened to me before" (Isn't that supposed to be the guy's line?) But I still had a good time. I realize now how stupid the whole thing is. How stupid it is that we make "losing our virginity" a huge deal like it will be like a Hugh Grant movie when it really does not mean that much in the big picture. I am now friends with this girl and have gotten to know her better and we get along very well actually. I might even go out with her. I might not. But I learned something important about life and sex and I fell great about it! I actually feel even more confident about myself like a huge weight has been lifted off of my shoulders at this epiphany.I look forward to more sex with either this girl or maybe some other girl(s). (hopefully without the lack of erection haha!) Glad I could share my story and thank you David for sharing yours. It was a good listen:)

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john

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

i guarantee David and Shogo have a bet going today. I'm just gonna give my comments about today's podcast... This is the Best podcast ever.

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KC

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Still a virgin, and not thrilled to be one, but if i have to wait just a while longer, I guess I can manage that. It's hard for me sometimes, mainly because I live in a house of people who are reasonably attractive. I feel sometimes that every time we hang out or go to the bars together, they get all the looks and signs of attraction, but I get nothing. I'm in college so that really doesn't help when friends ask if you got laid or whether you were "wheeling" so to speak. When I'm by myself, and look at people who I find reasonably attractive, I smile at them, but they never smile back or give any indication that they like me. It doesn't help that I have zero dating experience either. 20 years old and I have never been on one date with anyone. I'm trying to learn as much as I can, and hopefully when my schedule lightens I can write down more of the observations I have when I'm out and around. On the plus side being a virgin and listening to other peoples stories about how they lost their virginity, really opens my eyes and makes me want to have a good first time with someone I care about. I've done my research and spent time over the summer on trying to learn how to be good in bed, so I don't get nicknamed one pump or anything else. I want to lose my virginity, but if I don't know how to attract anyone, then it wont happen. I guess the attraction step is where I need the most help, cause once i get that, then i think the rest will be alright.

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Matt

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

My virginity flew out the window way back in the day (I was 15... I'm 30 now). My girlfriend and I were on her Mom's couch... watching the sexy scene in Top Gun, when Tom Cruise and his flight instructor are just about to hook up. My gf and I had been together about 7 months and I was "diddling" her (accurate description at the time) for a good 15 minutes when I popped the question... "Do you want to have sex tonite?" Her: "I dunno" smiling "I have a condom" Her: "I love you so much... but I don't know if I'm ready" "It's OK... but you know Angela (her best friend) and Scotty (my best friend) are having sex right now at Scotty's house... that's why they took off earlier" She thought about it for a few seconds... "Ok, but we have to use protection" So... I took off her pants, exposing her beautiful pre-teen landing-stripped vagina. I remember looking at it and thinking "Wow, it looks just like it does in the sex books! This girl is a KEEPER she has a beautiful pussy!" (That was seriously my exact thoughts) And as the slow song on Top Gun came on the television... I came inside her... after about 35 seconds of slow, nervous thrusting. Lol. I remember being SO worked up and anxious I don't know how I got an erection. Luckily she helped me find the hole... I may have even bumbled around a few times before she grabbed it. All in all, I'm glad it didn't take me a few tries! (awesome podcast David!) In conclusion: Sex was definitely NOT what I expected... and my penis turned into a wet noodle almost immediately after I came. It wasn't very pleasureable. It was more like trying NOT to come the whole time, which totally took most of the pleasure out of it. The good news is we were madly in love and that night became very special to both of us. So the emotional aspect was there. (a huge plus) Over the next 15 years I started the long, hard process of learning to enjoy sex.... the thing everyone is so obsessed about. I learned how to touch girls properly, how their anatomy worked, how their arousal worked, and I gotta say: Sex STILL isn't what everyone makes it out to be! Dating hot girls does NOT make you happy, unless you're happy already! What's important to me nowadays is connection, and energy. The girl and I HAVE TO have a strong connection and we have to like each other for me to evenn care enough to get intimate with her. I'm out the door right now, but I wanted to share my story. Keep up the hard (enjoyable?) work guys... if you give "hooking up with women" enough energy and attention.. .and you believe in yourself... you can totally make it happen. Sexual results are up to YOU... not your teachers. I have full faith you can turn things around fellas, cuz I did, on many occasions. TTYS

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Pat

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Alright, I'll share on this one. I am to this day a complete and total virgin. I'm almost 20 years old and I've never even kissed a girl. I was incredibly shy and awkward in highschool, so needless to say I didn't get any tang! Lol I was very embarrassed of this fact until pretty recently actually. As a result, my virginity has been in a way self-perpetuating. I made myself wrong for my lack of sexual experience for years, and as a result I had a shitty piss-pore self-image. I've been working very hard on myself for a while now, and in a way I'm now glad that I still have my first sexual encounters to look forward to. It would have been a very different experience had I lost it when I was say 15. After all, how much does a fucking fifteen year old know about himself? Very little. His brain isn't even completely developed yet! My point being, there is no way I would have been able to fully appreciate the powerful experience of sex as a young adolescent. That being said, there is no doubt in my mind that I'm ready to fully appreciate it now! >:P Btw, I use all of the standard vagina slang terms, (ex: pussy, poontang/poonani, muffin, etc.), but a recent favorite of mine is "sex wound" :)

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Kevin

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Pat, you're only 20. I'm starting to think the movie The 40 year old Virgin made is acceptable to be a virgin @40. Like it raised the bar.

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HK

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Great blog post David, funny story. @KC: I actually am in the same situation as you are. 20 years, virgin, and never been on a date(!) For me I think the problem is only in MY head. I have had girls who actually have dragged me in bed, said that they want to have sex with me, etc(happened 4 times the last year). I just haven´t had the confidence to do it yet. Guess i just have to jump in it(that´s what life is all about, or what?...) Sounds like you have some confident issues(?). Try to enjoy your life and journey more, and be the person you want to be. On the way you will meet people and I am absolutely sure that some of them would be attracted to you. When you are with your friends, maybe stand more out in the group. Be the one arranging get togethers etc, make things happend. If they are cool friends, Im also sure they will help you hooking up with girls, and introduce them to new friends. I have found that it often are me who is the reason why nothings happening. We all should stop making so many limitations for ourself. If you follows Davids stuff Im sure it will work out for you, as well as I hope it will for me.

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sandra hutchens

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Dave You are amazing and i just had to hear this...I lost my virginity when I was sixteen to my first ex-husband...at first i did not know how to react but as time went by he taught me what sex was about...oh...we were not married at the time...we got married when i was seventeen and had my oldest daughter when i twenty-two...luv n hugs...c u on face book soon...

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James

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

27, have been on a few dates, starting when I was 21. 2 of them I should have kissed, but didn't. Haven't done anything sexually yet. In some ways I'm glad as I'm disease free and have avoided the bad experiences, in other ways I feel like I've missed out and am less for it. I did have two opportunities to have sex. One was for certain as the girl was basically begging me, but I'd just met her, she was way too drunk and taking advantage of people is not my thing so I passed, and she moved on to another guy who promptly took her home. The other was a friend I had a major crush on, but never acted on. She was also drunk and came on pretty strong, but again I backed off because she was too drunk. Wish I hadn't because it would have been a lot of fun and she went cold after that so the friendship was ruined afterwards regardless.

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Intern Dan

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

I laughed, I cried, I soiled myself. That's probably the worst/best story I've ever heard. I was a late bloomer. I had many opportunities to lose my virginity but my "purity" was more important. I probably had an attitude about it too. "OH, you're NOT a virgin? Hmmm... well it's not something I would do, but to each their own." It made me feel better about the sex that I was missing and the blessing of abstinence. THen when I had sex I realized that the blessing of abstinence isn't nearly as good.

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Matt

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

I lost my virginity when I was 18 (nine years ago!), on a high school trip with my girlfriend (17, also a virgin). We had been dry-humping and fumbling around for months, then one night the stars aligned and we ended up assigned to sleep in the same hotel room :) Well, that was all it took for us horny kids. I remember being so nervous, prolonging the make out session and foreplay as long as possible until I finally pulled out a condom and said "are you ready?" She nodded yes, so I awkwardly put it on, rapidly losing my erection. To buy myself some time I asked "are you sure?" and she said "yes." I started kissing her all over until I got my groove back, then we got to it in that funny, teenage I-have-no-idea-what-I'm-doing kind of way. I distinctly remember us laughing when, her on top, she lost her balance a bit and hit her head on the wall. Though we both got much better at sex in the years to come, I'll never forget the specialness of that first time.

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Seth

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

I lost my virginity when I was 11. Yes it was the babysitter. She was 17 and we played Dr and guess who was the patient. It was such a great experience. Ok looking back a bit weird but hey I was 11.

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john

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

What the HELL is the purpose of DRY HUMPING? That's like going to test drive an exotic sports car and them telling you that you can't leave the parking lot!

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Pete

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

I am still a virgin at 46. Yes you heard me right. I was a religion guy for years and to top it all of had severe acne and approach anxiety. So I was ugly as well. I mean so ugly that no woman would want me. I have learned to really embrace myself and love who I am. Thansk to Davids Self Love audio. Anyway I am still a virgin but starting to actually date and feel better, so it is only a matter of time.

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Seth

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

I agree with you John. Dry humping is a joke and you get all chafed as well if they do it too hard.

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Daniel

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Alright so I lost my virginity at 17 (yes before david haha!!! nahh im just joking :P). I'm 18 now. So I used to be a super ridiculously shy guy. I became shy with anybody when I was like 15 because I've suffered bullying and stuff like that. I was from a very superficial high school and I really wasn't attractive, super skinny and tall, bad hair, stinky, never took care of myself. So I really started to believe that for to get a girl I had to become physically sexy. I started working out, reading stuff about what girls like the most about hot stars, started to get super styled, wearing good cologne etc. I had a huge transformation after 4 years, at the age of 17. And I changed high school to get into a more prestigious one so I literally had no friends again. I had to make myself some. At that time, I knew that I was hotter than any other guys because I really looked sexier and I was the strongest of all the guys in my classes. But in my head, I still didn't have the idea that girls liked me. Like when a girl would look at me with the look "ohh damm he's soo hot", I was thinking to myself that they we're looking at me with disgust like when people looked when I was skinny. So there was this nice girl, not the hottest but not ugliest, that really liked me. I didn't knew it until HER friends came to tell me. Me and her we're good friends too. So I was freaking nervous when I made out with her the first time. But she became my first girlfriend. And I remember at that moment after having my first kiss, I had this feeling that I can do this with any girl !!! Which is a strange feeling to get but wtv that's what I had :). When came time to sex, she was totally unvirgin, and it took me like 3 months to have sex with her. Each time we we're alone, we got naked, and I she'd make me hard, but then I'd get soft when I'd get like 5 fucking inches away from her vagina. I was super amazingly nervous that even my penis was scared to go inside her. After about 10 tries, I finally made. I got comfortably and stayed hard and we had great sex. For the info, I think I lasted about 8 minutes because, of course, I used to masturbate a lot. I wish I could do a podcast myself so that you guys wouldn't have to read all this :P. But what I understood from my experience is that I doesn't matter at all the way you look!! I realized that it didn't matter how big my biceps got, I didn't have anything to my personality except big muscles. Of course it's attractive for the first 10 seconds a girl sees you, but who gives a shit about 10 seconds a girl likes you ? I want a girl to like me and want to spend time with ME, not with my muscles. So that's why I decided to get in this journey of learning how to become a man and this is why I'm learning David's lessons. I want to change my life.

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Kyle

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

David, one word: hilarious! hahaha sorry thanks, kyle

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Dyl

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

David, I am still a virgin. I am currently a freshman in college. I have no problem hooking up with girls. One night I hooked up with three different girls at the same frat all within about an hour. Every weekend I can usually hook up with a different girl. It usually takes me about 5 min to talk to her to hook up. I just have a problem going to the next step to go to their dorm or back to my dorm. If anyone has any advice it would greatly be appreciated. Thanks, Dyl

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KJD

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Mine happend when I was just 15 years old. I always hung around an older crowd in my teen years and there was a group of us who would hang out every weekend in my buddies basement. We would drink, get high, and just party like underagers do. Back then I had a job working for my father and therefor having beer money was never really an issue for me. I used to work an hour before school and then when I got home I'd work until 8 at night. I would do this Monday-Thursday and as long as I was at work on time every day then I was free to do whatever I wanted on the weekends. Well one week I was late and therefor I wasn't allowed to go out that weekend. So I called up my buddies and told them I'd be on lockdown for the weekend and not to expect me out and about. So Friday night rolls around and ofcourse I'm bored as hell being stuck home alone while I know my friends are out partying having a good time. At about 9pm my phone rings and I answer it. It is one of the girls we usually party with... She is 17 and we always got along pretty good but until now it had only ever been a friendship between us. Well she starts asking why I am not out at the party so I explain the situation and tell her I'm stuck at home, I can hear my buddies in the background hooting and hollering having a great time without me and so my night starts to feel even crappier knowing the fun I'm missing. I get off the phone telling her I should let her go so she can have some fun. 15 minutes later there is a knock on my door and I'm expecting it to be a car load of my buddies trying to get me out for the weekend and then I'm going to hear it from the old man how I'm not allowed out this weekend. Instead it turns out to be just the girl that called all by herself and instead of my dad telling her I'm not allowed out or to have anyone over he just tells her to come in and looks over to me saying he will be in the basement. In hindsight I realize he understood the situation better than I did. We went to my room and I asked her why she left the party. She sat on my bed leaned back and responded "well I thought you deserved to have some fun this weekend and since you couldn't come to the party I thought I'd bring it to you"... Well I understood what that meant and didn't need to be told twice. I joined her on the bed and she took off her shirt. I laid her back and we started to kiss, she took my hand and ran it up along her body to come to rest on her bra. After playing with her breast over the bra while our tongues were swirling in each others mouths I work the clasp open and the bra came off. Her hands began clawing at my clothing stripping my shirt from my chest. My hands worked their way to her pants opening them and i slid them down teasing her through her panties with my fingers. I began to kiss down her neck working my way towards her chest but she had other ideas at that point. She pushed me onto my back and she began to unzip my pants. She had her panties off in a flash and there was little I could do to resist. She produced a condom out of thin air it seemed and was straddling me in an instant. At this point she became even more aggressive then she had been thus far and all I could do is hang on for the ride. She knew what she wanted and I wasn't going to stand in her way. She rode me like it was the Kentucky derby. One thing that sticks out in my mind was just as I was about to finish the song "Bad to the Bone" by George Thorogood (kinda ironic) came on the radio and I can't hear that song without thinking of her that night. Not a bad way to start my sex life out she definitely taught me a few things that night and after two rounds it was about midnight she went home.

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Dyl

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

David, I am still a virgin, and currently a freshman in college. I have no problem hooking up with girls. One night I hooked up with three girls at the same frat within about an hour. I usually can hookup with a different girl jsut about every weekend. I am having trouble going to the next step; to either bring them back to my dorm or go back to her dorm. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks, Dyl

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Ali M

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Mines wasn't that bad actually. I mean it probably lasted maybe 10 mins, but I don't think that was that bad for a newbie lol

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Bob

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

David, I don't believe this story is your origingal "virginity loss". It sounds like you are reading it, and not something you wrote yourself, ahead of time. You constantly make errors in your reading, and corrections after making them, as though reading something that you definately did not write, and are unfamiliar with. There is nothing wrong with the story, or the premise of the blog, but can you say definatively that this is YOUR true story, and your experience? I also, don't see you EVER wearing cowboy boots, and don't believe you would "lose it", before even sticking it in a woman on your first time. Most men are so nervous, that they have a hard time getting it up, much less losing it, when you are four inches away from the first time. This sounds like a story you seached for on the internet. Where did you get it, for real? NO I'm not saying you are a Lier, as you are getting ready to post, I am just saying the story is inconsistant, and questionable in nature.

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Daniel

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

@KJD You lucky basterd !! xD Did you start to date the girl ?

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David Wygant

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Bob I have no clue how to even respond. You are so right I found this story on the internet :) Google 18 year old guy has the runs when trying to lose his virginity. Sometimes I think you just pull shit out of your ass to stir things up. Everybody here is sharing there virgin stories and you think. Hmm how can I fuck this blog up with some ridiculous crap :) Bob how did you lose your virginity. I think you are just pissed that my story is so damm funny that you cant top it at all. And I was all about cowboy boots in 1981 and 1993. Had a huge collection of vintage ones from the 50s and 60s. Bob one day you and I will meet and finally you will stop your assumptions. As for most men not being able to get it up, very true I just had a bit pf premature thing going on. So Bob share with us your story. Time to expose the real Bob unless of course your still a virgin at 65 :)

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David Wygant

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Alim !0 minutes was 9 minutes and 57 seconds longer than mine :)

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David Wygant

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

KJD That story is what 15 your old legends are made of. A buddy of mine had close to the same expereince as yours. And we always bow down to him because at 15 it was a dream to lose it!

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David Wygant

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

MAtt You gotta love high school persuasion. I used always try that approach with my HS GF. Steve is having sex with Linda in the other room maybe we should try it as well. I would always follow it with a few I love you and want to be with you blah blah blah. I even used to try just the tip game over and over. You brought back some great memories today for me thanks for sharing.

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David Wygant

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Cole Congrats now the real learning of sex can start! Its good to get it over with so you no longer have that pressure that we put on ourselves for no reason at all.

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cyberden

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

I lost my virginity to a prostitute when I was 22 years old By the end of it, I took off the condom and did it raw for about 5 minutes, reason being that I thought I would never get to have sex trough normal means, since I have abysmal social skills

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Seth

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

David Great story I laughed my ass off. Cowboy boots really that is hilarious. I used to live in Tulsa and I still can not get the visual of the wanna be cowboys too tight in there too tight wranglers and cheap boots. I hope you did not wear bad wranglers.

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Jeff

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

I just lost my virginity this last saturday, and I totally regret it. I suppose I would've felt all "cool" and "braggish" had things gone differently, but they didn't. I'm 24 years old, and for most of my peers, that is a really long time to go without having sex. So of course, it was on my mind nearly all the time. So much so that it was preventing me from having any. So, I did what I had resisted doing so many times before--called up a "sure thing." After a few drinks and some really not-that-exciting conversation, the dialogue shifted to a sexual nature and pretty soon she was grinding on top of me. After a while of that, I pulled out my friend and got some head for the first time. After a bit of that, we moved to the bed. I had her apply the condom, and away we went. It took awhile to find the position, but eventually a modified missionary was the ticket. I performed fairly well, so I was told. She even told me I had a "big dick." I should've been stoked! But, there was an incident. The condom broke, and I didn't know that until I had already ejaculated... so now, i'm currently in the "FREAKING THE FUCK OUT" process waiting to find out if a girl i honestly don't have any sort of real connection with whatsoever and don't really see one developing either is going to be pregnant with my child or not. She said she had JUST gotten over her period and that we should be fine...but I'm not going to walk about all relaxed until I know for sure. Wish I had just masturbated instead that night, and then walked around with a little more self-confidence after that...maybe attract (or persuade since im far from the jedi-master that david is) a woman I was more excited about, a more equal partner, mentally, emotionally, physically, so perhaps I could've been the 2-10 pump chump who didn't break the fucking condom... I'd much rather be telling that story, right now.

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David Wygant

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Jeff Relax. I think you should be safe if she just got over her period. Its the middle of the cycle that you need to be more freaked out about. She will get her period and then you will be able to make this story really funny.

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David S.

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Still a virgin and I dont really mind. Everyone says I will mind once I experience it but having a girlfriend and falling in love is way more important to me than having sex (although I realize they go hand and hand most times). We really do put a lot of stock into having sex and I've never heard a story of both partners really enjoying their first time. I kinda just want to get it over with because it seems like it always ends quickly the first time anyway. I would be interested to know if its possible to suppress those anxious feelings the first time.

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Collin

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

@David S, don't worry about not having had sex yet. I had sex with a number of girls I didn't really care about, even girls I was dating, and it was never really that great. As for suppressing those anxious feelings, it's definitely possible. I didn't just lose my virginity. I had only kissed girls before, so I touched boobs for the first time, saw my first vagina, got head for the first time, and had sex all at once. I didn't really know what to do exactly, so I basically just imitated porn. I know it sounds like a recipe for disaster, but it worked pretty well. I kissed her, used moving my hands from her legs to her face as an excuse to graze over her boobs, went under her shirt, eventually took her shirt and bra off, took her pants off (I ended up naked and on my back at some point), and we ended up having sex. I actually didn't get off, because I was surprised that the vagina wasn't as tight as my hand. I got over it, but that's a sexy story for another day. Long story short, if you don't make a huge deal about it like it's supposed to be the most amazing thing in the world, you'll do fine.

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KJD

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

@ Daniel Didn't really date alot in my teen years, more of a hang out and hook up time of my life. She had dated a friend of mine previously so there was kinda the guy code we had among each other not to date each others exes. Hooking up was ok but the dating aspect kinda ruled out us dating. We did hook up a few times after that but it never really developed into any thing more than sex.

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Dave

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Lol, great podcast! I'm 27 years old and losing my virginity is TBD, never been kissed, never been on a date... Its only cause I'm scared shitless! I've been told in the past that some women have been interested in me, but I'm afraid of the intimacy. I just bought the Fearless Code and I squirm in my seat reading it, tough stuff for me, seams like a lot of work.

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Intern Dan

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

This reminds me of the first time I saw real boobs and vag (pronounced vajj)and not in a movie (Thank you Linda Hamilton in Terminator and Renee Russo in The Thomas Crowne Affair... first time in a movie theatre). Anyways, I was sitting in church with my mom, a few pews over from these Irish brothers. THe older one was getting married so we were having his bachelor party that night. I was 19. My mom asked me if we were going to the strippers(I like to call it the ballet)and I honestly believed we wouldn't be going to the strippers. So I told her no, they're sitting beside us in Church! Of course we won't go! Well by the end of the night There were 3 guys named Dan, an Iraqi, an Afghan with a bad leg and two Irish brothers walking into a strip club... Barbarella's Diamonds or something. We sit down, and being the good catholic that I was I sat at our round table with my back to the stage. Unfortunately for me Mary-Jane started dancing. She was quite the gymnast... and she looked like this girl from my history class that had been talking to me. I tried to see if it was her. I made eye contact... WHOOPS! She beckons me over to the stage and my friend kicks me out of my chair. I didn't so much walk to the stage as lunge for it. I sit in perv's row and she's like "Hey, how's it going?" Holy crap! I think this is the girl from my class! "Not bad... umm... do I know you?" "Am I someone you think you should know?" I quickly realized she was NOT the girl from class. "Um.. no... probably not." She started caressing my face... my first face caress "Oh that's too bad sweetie, I think I could bring a lot of joy to your life!" Then BAM! she threw her legs over my shoulders and my face was buried in her vagina. It was my first time seeing one! Hmmm didn't look to hard to navigate. So many things were going through my head (do I tip her now? I didn't ask for this... hmm... smells pretty good) No idea how long I was there. Time passes differently in a vagina. Then as quickly as she put my face in her snatch she took it out. Smacked me in the face with her small breasts and went on her way. As I get up to go back to my seat she stops dancing and says, for everyone to hear, "AAAAWWWWWWWWWW HE WAS SO SCARED!!!!" That was my first time with a vagina.

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Kyle H

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

I'm a sophomore in college and have yet to actually make it "far enough" with a girl for the opportunity of sex to present itself...but things are going well with this one girl in particular, and if I do EVERYTHING David and Shogo say, maybe our occasional dry humping will lead to something for a change...right guys? ;) haha

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Paula R

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

@Intern Dan: That's hilarious! You poor thing. As for my losing-of-the-virginity story, it's boring! I was 17, it was with a much older guy I'd been seeing for a few months and I was pretty much just like "Oh, yeah, I guess I might as well get it over with. I like him lots, maybe it's time." So, after a party in a field, we went back to his place and did it with a ridiculous bright red condom. It was underwhelming and kind of hurt, and after about 15 minutes (which seemed like an eternity), we stopped. Neither of us came, but we cuddled after. It hurt for about another 10 times after that (my poor vagina!). I didn't bleed though! That got taken care of when I was 8. I was skiing and I fell down REALLY hard. It hurt a lot, but, being the tough Canadian skier that I am, I got back up, brushed myself off and kept going on the black diamond run I was on. Oh yeah, I'm that hardcore. But I am Canadian, and from the part of Canada known for it's mountains, so I've been skiing since I was 3. Black diamonds started around age 8, and that's how I REALLY lost my virginity. To a mountain! Poor ladies! Losing our virginty hurts!

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Tom

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

I'm very disappointed in David, he didn't do my simple favor... lets try this again David... "remember duckie from pretty in pink? please david, just do me one favor, just one, watch this whole video part from Pretty In pink, the Jon Cryer(ducky) -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlNIAEp-BVE then you will understand why people like me and Duckie’s anger is justified. But onto me, I only had sex twice. same women, very boring, 1st one was in 1996, and 2nd was in 2009, the 1st one(virginity lost) it was missionary, no oral, no foreplay, because she didn’t want me touching her. I don’t even know her name. the 2nd time, which really probably by your standards isn’t a second time because I didn’t ejaculate was with a co worker, I did some oral, she didn’t like it, I felt like an idiot, we started the “doggy style”, I had a thought, I started crying and I left. you shared your amazing sex stories, and I shared mine, happy now david. just do me one favor david, just one. watch the entire video from the movie pretty in pink, I want you to analyze the club scene with Jon cryer yelling at molly ringwald. his anger was justified."

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Tom

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Wait... did anyone in this blog flag down that Pretty in Pink video? don't worry, it wasn't me that uploaded it, but I am pretty mad because I would periodically go to watch pretty in pink on there, those videos were there since 2009/2010, and I don't own the DVD, I'm going to have to take the brat pack collectors pack dvd at work, at best buy.

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Intern Dan

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Tom, what if you were to focus on the scene where Duckie gives Molly Ringwald his blessing to be with Blaine? It was Duckie's fault that he never went out with her. He never made a move. He realized it, got over it and became a man. That seems like a much better scene to emulate.

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Leo

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

My first time was awesome. I lost my virginity on my favorite holiday when I was 17. "Aww Leo you lost it on Christmas?" No you dope, Halloween! I went to a Halloween party with a girl I had been seeing from school at the time and like underage teens do we drank and had a great time hanging out. She was dressed as "little blood red riding hood" which was essentially just red riding hood with dracula fangs. It did the trick. Those leggings, fake vampire fangs. Can I possibly time warp back to that night? Anyway.. we went back to my house for a minute because it was getting pretty late and I figured the night was over. I got a call from a buddy asking me to come to a party and hang out some more. It was 1:30am or so at this point. Then, the magic happened. I suggested going, but she grabbed me and suggested she could provide much more entertainment in the comfort of my bed. 4 hours late (hey, it was my first time I was delaying with foreplay) my virginity was lost and the world seemed a little warmer that day. I was on cloud 9 for a week after at least. How cool am I? I'm a high school kid and I got LAID. Good times man.

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john

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Jeez, first time stories,, ok, mine sucks,, but, I was seeing a girl who broke up with her fiancee', I was 20 and had done everything else with other girls, but never actually "got it in". Her parents were REALLY religious, and home, and mine were always home, so I drove back in the woods with her, and got it on in the car. I wasn't nervous, until actually "sticking it in.". I was one that went "soft", in mid pump. I couldn't get it back up so, we left, and I dropped her off. She was so disappointed, she dumped me, and went back to her fiancee. I couldn't figure out what was wrong with me. I really stressed about it for a long time. And one thing, if you are worried about "losing it",, you will. EVERY DAMN TIME. It's been so long for me now (no real contact with a woman for over 12 years.), i'll bet I would be so nervous, it would probably repeat all over again. I doubt I will ever have sex, or even get a date, ever again anyway. Women have NO interest in me.

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Paula R

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

@Tom: you'll be pleased to know that in the original script, Duckie gets the girl. The reason Andie ends up with Blaine in the movie you see today is because the film studio thought viewers would root for Andie more, so they wanted her to get the boy. I agree with your general feelings on the movie though, I love Duckie! He's absolutely my favorite! He's dorky and funny and the scene where he lip synchs to "Try a Little Tenderness" is one of my favorite movie moments ever. Man, Pretty in Pink is one of my favorite movies ever, and is one of maybe only 2 chick flicks out there that I actually enjoy. Also, I don't think Andie was ever trying to hurt Duckie, Tom. She was just going for what she wanted, and never thought of Duckie as more than a friend. Duckie would often joke about how he loved her, but wasn't forward enough for Andie to realize that it was more than just playfulness and joking around. I get why Duckie got frustrated, and it's good that he vented his feelings, but it wasnt fair of him to be that insulting. If you're using that scene you mentioned as a model for how to treat people, it's not a great idea. He's also a high school kid, and one of the great aspects of John Hughes films is that he writes adolescents so well. But that's another point - these characters are teenagers, not adults. I think that Duckie's age characterizes his outburst, because at a certain level of maturity, you just gotta realize where you're going wrong so that you won't make that mistake in the future! Freaking out about something won't solve your problems and it may exaserbate them. So while it's understandable that Duckie, a high school kid, acts out like that when he's upset, it's not exactly a model for the rest of our behavior. I know I'm not David, but I AM a huge John Hughes fan and a HUGE Pretty in Pink fan, so I hope I could help shed some light on that! :) And another point in David's defense - he wasn't exactly sharing an "amazing sex story" as you put it, but rather, an awkward experience! As you can see here, we all have them! :) Not every sexual experience is good, and everyone has their share of awkward or bad experiences! All you can do is hope that the rest of your experiences are better than the bad ones! And I'm sure you've noticed, but noone's bragging here!!

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Brice

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

I was 15 when I lost my virginity. The girl said she had "dreams" about me. I had a few beers and for some reason, even though I was very shy, I went into biological hump mode and my instincts took over. I pulled her from within my friends room into a small 2 foot high by 3 foot wide closest and we had sex in his room with him and my sister in there! yikes! it lasted over 45 minutes. I never came and i went through 3 condoms. i also remember having blue balls for days.

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Jeremy

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

Like you, David, it took me two days to lose my virginity, but for different reasons. It started a few weeks ago on a Friday night. I was down at dinner eating a salad when a girl I knew came over and started talking to me. Her name was Delia, she was a grenade, and she wanted me. We started talking about a concert going on in the college rec center that night. At first she was complaining about how it was too much money. The next thing I knew she was offering to pay for both our tickets (20 dollars each). I couldn't say no to free. After pregaming with some friends, we went to the recreation center. My plan was to "get lost" in the crowd and find someone more attractive. Before I could, she introduced me to her friends Greg, Jamie, and Mary. Mary was hot, and we immediately started flirting in front of Delia. The music started and for about an hour we were grinding, again in front of Delia. I learned that night that when Alex Hitchins said "women relate dancing to sex," he wasn't kidding. We left the party and were planning on an afterparty when my roommate called to tell me he had locked himself out. Damn it, I thought, there go my chances. We had smoked a little weed, though, so I was too mellow to really care. Along comes a text from Delia asking where I was. Oh boy. Lucky for me, though, Delia's roommate was gone for the weekend and Mary didn't go to my college, so they decided to room together. Awesome! Mary, Delia, and I were postgaming when two dudes invited themselves in and started talking. And talking. And talking. It was 4 o clock in the morning and they were still talking about bathroom stalls, kneecaps, and how they sign their name on their driver's license. That was it. No pussy was worth that shit. So I left. No sooner did I get back to my dorm when Mary sent me a text, saying "u know u can sleep down here." Translation: "let's fuck." So I texted back and told her to let me know when the party was over. I put my cell phone in my pocket, thinking I'd wake up when she got back to me, and fell asleep. She got back to me, but I didn't wake up. Next morning I woke up, texting her back and forth, took a shower and went to breakfast, where I just missed her but didn't miss Delia, who told me that "Mary was pissed you didn't seal the deal." I thought, "fuck it, it's now or never." So I texted Mary and said "let's finish what we started last night." She said OK. I called my roommate and asked if he could get lost for an hour. He couldn't. He also had a girl. So I grabbed a condom and called Delia to see if I could use her room. She said yes, on one condition: "don't use my bed." I got to the room first and when Mary came I charged her an admission fee of one kiss. We started making out, and soon worked our way to the extra long twin college beds that were not made for fucking. I warmed her up with some foreplay, got her clothes off, and tried to get the condom on without looking. Later I found out that I put it on wrong. I stuck it in, and lasted about two minutes. She had work soon, so she had to go. I went back up to my room and got a text from Delia: "umm... so nice listening skills." So all in all, Delia had paid 20 dollars hoping to fuck me, but instead she got to watch me flirt with and grind on her friend, then fuck in HER room on HER bed.

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Brandon

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

My friends, today I tell you this story without fear. I was 24 when I lost my virginity. I was living in Japan at the time, teaching English. Her name was Rio. She was beautiful, kind, and made me feel like I was the only man on the planet. It cost me $800. But I'm getting ahead of myself. At that time, I had two other roommates, from Australia. After a few months, they got girlfriends, and I was the odd man out. It drove me nuts seeing the four of them all lovey dovey in our living room. It felt like there was a glass ceiling above my head that barricaded me from an awesome party that I could never break through! It felt like such an injustice that my two friends can have good things, but I can't! I was such a fool back then. Instead of being happy for my friends, I was jealous. It wasn't easy, but over time, I realized that the sledgehammer was always in my hands. Just like it's in all of yours. Anyway, one day I was reading through Metropolis Magazine (a free magazine for foreigners) and in the classifides I stumbled accross an escort service. So I got some money, made the request, reserved a hotel room, and a week later I met Rio. I wore a pair of khaki pants, and a black luminescent shirt, and a pair of brown shoes. Rio wore this LBD (Little Black Dress). We walked into the hotel room, and I took her coat. Then she asked for the money, which I stored in the desk. She had such a sweet voice which had a calming effect on my electrified nerves. She asked to use the shower, which of course, I said yes, and when she came out, she had her raven-colored back-length hair tied up in a bun, and a towel wrapped around her body. Then she sat down next to me on the bed, and I told her I was a virgin. She didn't mind a bit, and I was like, "So...How do we start this?" Well, I started it. We started making out, and she lowered me down on the bed. I unwrapped her towel, and for the first time, a naked female body was right there to touch! I tell you, the grandest victory music was playing inside my head as she went down on me. All through the night, we were going at it, missionary, woman on top, doggie style. I couldn't belive how long I lasted. I wasn't great by any stretch of the imagination, but I was able to keep the erection going all night long (these days, not so much). She thought I was on viagra. And I even managed to make her cum (I think) I put my finger into her vagina, and with her guidance, I found her g-spot, and I started wagging my finger like an excited dog. We laid side by side as I did this, her clutching my back shuddering and freezing every few seconds, and we kept this up for about 20 minutes. So, how did it feel? Honestly? I was thinking to myself, "You gotta me kidding me! THIS is what I've been killing myself over?" I'd guess by many people's standards it was great. But You see, folks, I didn't come at all during our time together. Not once! And I have been told that sex was like the feeling you get through masterbation multiplied by ten. Not so in my case. In fact to this day, I have only ejaculated one time through intercourse. Now earlier, I had mentioned that I am not afraid to share this. Why? Because I live by MY standards and MY rules, and no one elses. And in my rules, it's perfectly okay to lose your virginity to an upscale prostitute. Got a problem with that? That's your problem. @Tom Who said you have to be some big time pimp? I'm not, and that's alright. So what if you only had sex two times? No one's going to throw you in jail for it. I think you judge yourself too harshly. I know, I used to do it to myself, and that's still a work in progress.

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Shogo (Coach)

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Brandon, what years were you in Japan and where were you living? John, knew you would love today's podcast :)

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Mike

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

I lost my virginity when I was 16... One day after school a few of my friends and my girlfriend at the time went to my friend Segun's house. Me and my girlfriend had been together for a while (about 6 months) but we had never had sex. No one knew I was a virgin at the time including my girlfriend. Everyone assumed i was having sex because I was a real popular(because I played on the basketball team) and I had a lot of girls on me. Girls that liked me teased me about having a "fanclub". What everyone didn't know however was that I was awfully shy and nervous around girls. I had plenty of opportunities to lose my virginity beginning around 13 but I was just too nervous and scared to go for it... Anyways like I said it was one day after school and a few of my friends decided we were going to go to Segun's house to smoke some weed. So we were all high, laughing, joking and having a good time. I noticed their was a vacant room right next to us. I don't know if it was the weed that gave me the courage or what but I asked my girlfriend.. " You want to go in the room" she replied " Yea " So there we were in the back room and now my heart was racing. i was thinking in my head "Im finally about to do it!" We made out for a while and then I began to take off her clothes. When they were finally off I put on a condom and told her to turn around so I could hit it doggystyle. I spent about 20 seconds trying to find the hole unsuccessfully and to prevent any further embarrassment I played it off smoothly and told her to get on top. She then got on top and began to ride me. In my head I then began to think, "this is it ?" "this isn't anything like its cracked up to be", the next thing I know I was cumming ! She probably wasn't riding me anymore that 2 or 3 minutes, it was TERRIBLE. Of course I had to play it smooth once again so I said, " I dont know what happened, I never nutted that fast in my life.." She chuckled not seeming to be bothered and we both got dressed and put on our clothes and went back in the living room to join our friends... Her and her friend left not too long after and once they were gone one of my friends asked me why I didn't "do it".I told him she didn't want to do it with so many ppl in the house... lol

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Stephen

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Hi, I remember my experience, I lost it when I was 21. I had a girlfriend in highschool but never really attracted to her but back then I was new at dating so i didn't know how I would feel or could feel when in a relationship. My first year living away from my home town, Mishawaka IN, moving to University to another town of Bloomington IN, a girl hooked me up with her friend. We dated a few weeks and then one night when I came over to meet this girl I was hooked up with I felt the mood, we were kissing on the couch and it felt great. Feeling each other up. Great then after a while kissing and groping gets boring and pointless if your 21 and not sure what will happen after that, being first timer. So then I was getting ready to go and gave her a good bye kiss and then I started kissing her all over her neck and licking it and for whatever reason I chose her neck to turn her on. It must've been from reading woman's world mags or something. She turns and locks the door then that's when I knew I wasn't going anywhere. After turning off the lights and taking off clothes, and rubbing skin to skin, I knew I was ready and wanted to go where I didn't go before, there was a slight hesitation and she asked me if I was scared? I then just just said, uhh....no. and then just started going down on her very first thing, again it just felt like the next best place to go. Surprisingly it tasted pretty good to me. Then after that and seeing how hard I was I just went in and it was a new and great feeling. I lasted for a minute until I came. Being a virgin before that I was surprised at how great it was to actually feel that inside of the vagina with my stiff rod. Then afterwards we spent the night together and I was surprised at how easy it was and how sex lost it's mystique and mystery. I was glad and felt more confident of myself because I was getting laid and thought I was really something. Of course there were many getting laid, but it did feel more confident knowing I was one of them. Of course it wasn't until later on that I figured out how to get better at lovemaking. I am sure it wasn't that great for her at the time but she just did it because of curiosity or whatever at the time.

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john

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

^^ ummm,, her name was Rio?,, Was she dancing on the sand? ,, just like that river twisting through the dusty land? When she shined, did she show you all she can?, (sorry.)

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Kevin

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

When I lose my virginity, I'll be sure to post all the details about it and I'll ask the hooker how I was and let you all know.

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john

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

I'm just not into hookers at all.,, ok , funny hooker story,,, I was stuck for an extended period of time near Youngstown, oh, and there was a rub and tug across the street. It had a sign that said, "massage, showers, sauna". I figured, I'm bored, WTH. I went over and was greeted by a beautiful, young, Asian girl in a little nighty. She pulled me into a room, and wispered in my ear, "200 dollar EVERYTHING." I said "everything", ?,, she said "yes, you pay now, ok.". I said "shit...", and I whipped out 200 and handed it to her. She gave me a robe, and said, "ok now, you undress, I right back, ok.", I was nervous as shit. She took me back to the table shower, and told me, "ok now, you face down.". She washed my back, and stuck her finger in my ass, I was like "WTF?", but, ok. She said, "ok now, you turn over." I turned over, and she soaped me up with her bare hands. Guys, If you have never gotten a table shower, DO IT!. if you don't want to do anything illegal, tell them just a table shower and massage, no extras. It's worth it. Trust me. Anyway, after the shower, we went back to the massage room, and I laid down on the table, and she stood in front of me, and dropped her nighty. I thought "holy shit!" She jumped on my back, and started kissing up my neck, and said "ok now, you turn over". She started blowing me, with a rubber on. That SUCKS!, what's the point?, but I guess, ok, safety first. She got done, and said, "ok now, you on top". I got on top of her, and started hittin it, and all that went through my mind, was the cops busting through the door!,, just like that,, GONE. SOFT, NOTHING. She said, "you no done, you no come?, how come you no come?". I just started laughing my ass off. I was tired, and was pretty much done anyway. I was just thankful the cops didn't bust in. Fun experience, but not for me. But the table shower is the greatest. Highly recommended.

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David Wygant

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Brice Blue balls for days and went through 3 condoms and your sister was in the room.' You win the virgin story!!!! I could just picture that whole comedy like teenage drama

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David Wygant

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

John A client of mine took me to thailand and he was addicted to the table showers. But in thailand they lay you down on an air mattress soap you up and slide all over for 30 minutes. No worries about the cops busting in. Rub and tug places are hilarious.

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theresa

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Lol, this blog is great the stories are funny, I'd tell mine now but gotta go somewhere, its actually uneventful but im gonna make it long because I have a lot to say, ok see ya on the flip side, ah damn it, distance sucks. :)

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Intern Dan

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

John, love the Duran Duran reference. I guess you could say Brandon was hungry like a wolf...

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David Flores

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Hi everybody, i'm 20 and still a virgin, nobody believe me cause i'm a good looking man and i have pretty much confidance, but sexually.. i'm kind of affraid of coming too quickly with a girl, thats why i'm trying to find a girl who i trust, maybe a girlfriend, so if i come fast she'll understand and wouldn't be a problem. And my friends say i shouldn't tell any girl i'm a virgin, but i'm not into lying..

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Brian

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Lost it about 1.5 years ago. Did a favor for a friend by printing out a lot of flyers for her service organization. I was an engineering student (still am) and get a lot of free printing through the school (my tuition) so it wasn't a big deal. Went over to her house to drop it off, we sat on her couch and ate some desert, then all of a sudden I started touching her for no reason, she started getting horny and suggested we go to her bed and have sex. We did it once more about 5 days later, then she got jealous/possessive that I didn't want more.

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Finch

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

I sorta remember my first time. I was 17 and I was out at a bar (I had a great fake ID)and this 6 foot amazon bought me a drink. She was probably around 30ish. She looked at me and called me out on my age. I was like "Lady what are you doing? Trying to get me kicked out." Se smiled at me in a weird way and said "Bars are a dangerous place for youngsters to be..." and almost as if on cue I started feeling a little woozy. She had slipped something in my drink! Remembering what my Dad taught me "Son if a lady buys you a drink and you start feeling funny, go with it", I went with it. So I looked her in the eye and smiled. I told her "I'd like to get a better taste of your type of danger." And maybe it was the drug or just me being ridiculous, I kissed her. I don't remember much for awhile but when I start remembering stuff again I had a collar around my neck and I was servicing her with my tongue! And when I didn't do a good enough job she smacked me with a riding crop! It was terrifying! And kinda fun... then she took out this big stainless steel... I don't want to talk about it anymore.

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Nasho

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Hello everyone... I have been checking this blog and David's videos and materials for over a month or two now. But this is the first time I comment: I love Today's topic, it's both funny and a teaching experience. However, I would really like it if David can make his next topic about How the hell to forget about someone you have a crush on, it's a paralyzing feeling, I know that there are "plenty of fishes" out there, although, I can't act upon this fact. It's sucks, That woman is just a vision that I created in my head. I know that, but I can't get out of my head... Any suggestions!!! Thanks Guys.

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john

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Lmfao,, that is too damn funny.,,

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trocks211

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

ok, here it goes, i was gonna wait and write a real good story but like some of you said it isn't that great of a story and although I read some of the posts, i have yet to read all of them, as they might give me more insight on mine, but than again like i said it isn't that great of a story...so the first guy i dated in high school, we hung out a few times and i was ready to get down and dirty with him until i receive a note right before my class, on the back side of the note is the name of his ex girlfriend, what the f? i thought so im all pissed go to the bathroom and on my way back to class i can see him sitting in his classroom, the window of the classroom looks out into the hallway, so as I make my way back to the room I stick out my hand and flip him the bird, well after class we pass each other and he throws a note at me, lets just say that first note was a lot better the one with his ex-girlfriend on it, hahaha, thanks alot, oh well, unless there was some other meaning behind that (oopppss, i didn't know these things than and man did it take a long time to figure that one out, even after the fact i actually did, yeah i am totally embarrassing myself right now). yeah if you could have just held out the next date you would have been golden...ok so seven years pass and i do not have another boyfriend nor date anyone. college was a freak fest, no not really i was a complete prude for the most part, wow what an idiot i was. anyhow, the last day of college, (this is seriously too ironic), graduation day. i go out like the rest of my friends and party it up, well i meet a guy who i had met before at school, he was a year older than me and we hang out and the rest is history... so the actually doing it, i was so drunk i didn't have enough time to say no and before you know it, he's inside...don't get me wrong, i should have not drank as much as i did and also consented to that when i first met him but for some reason i always ran away from boys even if i liked them. and yes maybe i could have had that awesome romantic story if i had dated another person in high school but like a schmock(sp?) there was always one small detail i couldn't get past, what is up with that, therapists out there please explain this...it is ridiculous...this i do know though, with a certain someone it would not take me anytime, if you know what i mean, hint, hint ;) hope i didn't bore anyone and yes there is no detail about how he touched and how excited i was before because it was an in and out deal :( girls don't make the mistake i did, date someone even though you may have a question or two, you never know how great it could be...

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trocks211

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

ok, here's one, what is the square root of 69?

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trocks211

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

and this sums it up...lol ;) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Edv8Onsrgg&ob=av2e

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David Wygant

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Brian I think you may have inspired guys to start handing out fliers!

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theresa

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

wait a second (sorry it helps me understand things better when i talk/type through them)...is the reason things didn't work out with the first guy is because he wanted to still be friends with her and thought that i was jealous/possessive because i got mad?? i got mad because i thought you were going to break up with me, so i took it into my own hands, you gotta be kinding me....is this the correct analysis or did he just want to break up with me? help with this would be great...hey you, you know i let you be friends with whoever, i hate tests, i suck at them...i didn't have the confidence, damn it. so how do i get the cofidence? i'm gonna be single for the rest of my life, great :(

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Jennifer

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

I feel comfortable sharing my story of how I lost my virginity. I was 22 yrs old, five days shy of being 23. Mine also took two days. My boyfriend and I were together for two years. Before we started dating, I told him I was saving myself for marriage. He was okay with that and never pressure me. My parents wanted me to house sit while their were on vacation. I asked him if he would stay with me. He said yes. I didnt think I had anything to worry about since all we had done was kissing and hold hands. Plus, I wanted to impress him with a great dinner. After dinner, we walked my dog. When we came home, I made up the couch. He gave me a funny look. I said good night and went to my bedroom. Middle of the night, I heard noises outside my window. I asked to stay with me. I realized in that moment he was in my bed. Our curosity got the best of us. We were touching each other outside our night clothes and then he started taking one layer of clothing at a time. I didnt stop him. Then I was completely naked and I got so nervous. I pretended to fall asleep. So he just held me and when I woke up the next morning. I felt him kissing me all over my body and I couldnt believe he was going down on me. I just laid there didnt know what to do. Then he came back up and ask me if he can continue. The good girl wanted to say no, however I said yes. It wasnt like I imagined at all. It hurt and I was embarassed. When it was all done, he left the room and came back with a ring. He bought it three months prior. He promised the second time be better. It was. The second time was on our wedding night. Even though we are divorce, I can still laughed about my first time.

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Brandon

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

To Shogo: I had lived in Japan for five years from April 2004 to April 2009. First I lived in Mizonokuchi, 20 minutes south from the Shibuya district in Tokyo. That was cool. My second year I moved to Takasaki in Gunma Prefecture, two hours north of Tokyo. Not so great. The rest of my time, I lived in Kumagaya, Saitama prefecture, about an hour and 15 minutes north of Tokyo. That was okay. Watashi wa, nihongo skoshie wakarimasu, demo, nihongo osashiburi desu Translation: I speak a little Japanese, but it's been a while.

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Kevin

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Imagine losing your virginity to your sister or brother...How fucked up is that? Funny thing is though, some people have!

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David Wygant

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Hey Kevin Maybe where Bob lives :)

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David Wygant

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Hey Jennifer Pretending to fall asleep always worked on me when I was younger!!! Great story thanks for sharing.

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Raf

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Lost my virginity to my high school sweetheart. We were both virgins and dated 2 yrs. One weekend had a few hours alone. What sucks is it wasn't even romantic. We were fooling around, clothes came off, and in the excitement I was hard, she was wet, and I slipped inside her while she was in doggy style position. It was sort of an accident but we went with it. She later cried and I felt horrible for making her first time like that. Skip ahead we're now in our 30s and though she married someone and has kids, we're still friends.

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Brandon

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

That was an amazing story Jennifer!

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Amanda

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

I lost it to my dad. Unfortunately I had a very rough childhood.

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Bob

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Nasho, Time is the only cure. Wait one year, and you will be healed. Guaranteed!

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Seth

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Amanda Wow that is really heavy. How are you now as an adult? Have you been able to process this and forgive?

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Jesus El Savior

Friday, October 7th, 2011

I am a virgin and still very happy!!!! Got to save myself for Jesus (unless I get married of course)

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Seth

Friday, October 7th, 2011

@ Jesus So jesus is he going to come back and be resurectted and have sex with you? I can not stand Jesus freaks and all the savoir bullshit. Save yourself.

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rosco

Friday, October 7th, 2011

It happened to me when I was 22. When back on a month holiday to my hometown after finishing uni.Lucky I had read a few books about pleasing women beforehand so that took half of the anxiety away.There is nothing else you can do about the other half.It only goes away through experience. So in the 3rd week of my stay, I was doing my get together/farewell party in a rented bungalow 2 days prior and in the 3rd day everyone left and the bungalow was all mine. I invited an old friend of mine over after some flirting over text messages. When she arrived, I was in the bathroom showering.(I had a friend who would sit in her flatmate's room naked and she wouldnt mind. got this idea off him) I left the door open on purpose so she could come in to see me naked. She however stayed in the living room and asked what I was doing.I came out of the room, fully naked and greeted her with a smile.She giggled and gave me a peck on the cheek.She said I had grown up and become so manly. This boosted my confidence so I gave her a kiss on the lips. I went back to the shower and invited her to come.She refused saying she just had a tattoo done on her back.After I finished my shower I went back to the living room talked a little bit reminiscing about the old times.I felt the conversation was going stale and nowhere after a while so I asked her how many sex partners she had.She said she dated a man for 1 year before she found out the scumdog was married.I told her I never had sex before and if she would like to have sex with me.wasnt that terrifying as I thought.She however said no. I cant remember what happened next, just that after a while I started kissing her again this time blowing warm air and nibbling her earlobes.Then I gently slipped my hands under her shirt and massaged the sides of her boobs.Her pupils dilated and I knew I had her juices flowing. could feel her nipples hardening like 2 pointy darts through her bra.I dont remember in which order I took off her shirt, her bra and started massaging her p**sy through her jeans. I invited her into a bedroom,she was still hesitant.Meanwhile my c**k was so hard I felt my animal instincts raging through me.Through a stroke of genuis I told her I dont mind grandma knickers.She smiled and entered the bedroom with me.She said no sex. I knodded then threw her on the bed pinned her hands against the pillow and licked up and down her neck.Slowly the layers of clothes were peeled until there was the knickers left.I slowly rubbed her p**sy through the underwear and went it went SOAKED I went down on her and licked her till she was moaning with every lick. I slowly took off the nasty remaining piece of garment. Her natural lube was so much that it reminded me of mucus.There was a thread of it with the underwear as it came off.I thought that was so hot.The smell of her c**t was driving me crazy. The friendly sympathetic me morphed into an animal.She looked so vulnerable I became protective.I felt my virginity was secondary.My c**k was throbbing. I told her to rub her inner thighs while I undressed.She was to leave that pu**y untouched for my tongue. I kissed her c**t. Her back on the bed ached and she dug her fingers in my hair pulling my head closer.With each lick she moaned shyly, each moan getting milder in pitch till she was just silent.Seeing her tits pointy I kept going at the same rythm.Her body was suddenly overcome by spasms and she let out a big moan that resounded till the depths of my raging d**k. I gently blowed cool air over her clit. I summoned her for a blowjob. For the first time in my life, I was face to face with a woman let loose. Wild eyes looked at me while sucking my d**k. She was surprised that the skin on my penis glans did not slide over. It never did, I didnt even know it was supposed to.The sensation of her tongue on my c**k felt soft and tingly. I would have blown my load that I not accustomed my body to ejaculate only with vigorous stroking. It doesnt have a very happy ending. My member started throbbing in her mouth and her tits were becoming pointy again. I started fingering her while licking her pu**y.When I felt her c**t tightening against my finger I pulled out and asked if she would like me inside her. She asked if I had a condom.I pulled one out of the drawer next to the bed and put it on.I already knew that she had her fun and it didnt matter if I performed or not. That took a lot of pressure off. I inserted myself into her.She groaned and grinded. But to me it didnt feel that good because I was used to much firmer pressure while masturbating.I was still turned on though so I stayed hard and filled her c**t with my d**k.but I knew there was no way in the world I was going to cum with this light pressure on my penis. I kept going at it in missionary and doggy for probably around 45 min. My member became semi hard for the latter half of the time.Finally there was a knock on the door reminding me that it was time to leave.She felt hurt tht I did not ejaculate but I patted her on her head and told her she will get her chance at pleasuring me another time. For me that moment was my initiation into adulthood. The virginity thing was nothing compared to having a woman completely vulnerable and cuddling with you. In hindsight I would have taken a sex worker a long time ago to deal with the virginity thing. That would have been such a confidence booster. And I wouldnt have chafed and desensitised my penis to such an extent. I now have to do sensate focus exercises on my penis because of years of masturbating with a very tight grip.Ive tried 3 different women since with different pussy tightness and I never came. Another thing which is helping is an oil I purchased to bring some sensitivity back. Its called man-1-man oil. My penis is rejuvenating itself again.Cant wait..

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Kevin

Friday, October 7th, 2011

Jesus, What if you get married, then there is no sexual chemistry between you and your wife? Your going to wait until your married to discover that?

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Raf

Friday, October 7th, 2011

Guys I don't think anyone should be making fun of Jesus' religion. I mean some of you guys may believe in one thing, and someone else another, but you know maybe someday Jesus is going to meet the right girl and she'll probably share his faith and beliefs. So, whatever he feels is right to him, I say stick with it. It takes more of a man to stand up for something you believe in than to just fall with the majority. You gotta be your own person.

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Bob

Saturday, October 8th, 2011

Good Grief Rosco...You need to be one of those Romance writers for women. Never heard such detail since I glanced through one my exwife was readin' one time. What a story!!!

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Tim

Sunday, October 9th, 2011

This podcast made me laugh out loud! Back in the day as a teenager I had no clue what I was doing, and in hindsight it was all not a big deal.

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Kevin

Sunday, October 9th, 2011

Rosco you can say cock and pussy on here, you don't need to mask it.

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Matt

Monday, October 10th, 2011

The whole idea behind losing their virginity for most guys is so that they can validate their masculinity, and they feel inadequate with themselves outside of sex because they don't take the time to work on their inner core nor do they try to gain new passions and immerse themselves in them to feel like a man. Yes getting laid is definitely a confidence boost thing to do, but if that is the only thing in your life that gives you a sense of power and satisfaction, you've got some serious work to do on yourself.

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Ty

Monday, October 10th, 2011

I lost mine at 17 years old. I was so nervous it took us 15 minutes of foreplay to actually get me hard! Once I finally entered the vagina I was so nervous I was trying to focus on keeping a hardon! I never believed it would be like that for my first time! So we go for just over 20 minutes, without me cumming at all and she got exhausted! I couldn't believe 20 minutes went by that fast! So we stopped and I was so confused on what the fuck was going on with me! I was the complete opposite of your story David. Sort of made me look like a champ in her eyes. Luckily I had less and less nerves the more times I had sex. Was a lot of fun though!!

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Jon

Thursday, October 13th, 2011

I been subscribed for a couple of months now and been reading through Dave's emails. Having heard this post I think its more than fair I share mine. The chick was 31, 12 years older than me mind you (so I was 19). I met her at the DMV and got her number by asking her to text me her email address. I started texting her but was getting anxious to go on a date with her and noticed she was getting shy on the text backs. So I begged my best friend who "does good with the ladies" to text for me. He worked his magic and showed me the texts he was sending her and the magic happened when she suddenly called me and invited me over. I was stunned but didnt hesitate to say yes. So my friend lent me his credit card (I know... lol) and I went over and picked her up and took her to La Casa Blanca (a killer mexican place if you havent gone there). She found out my age but I somehow convinced her to keep going out with me. So we went back to her place and we did a nice night of skin on skin foreplay but no sex. That was awesome as hell but it wasnt long before I said to myself.. ok.. need to lose virginity now. So by getting my friend's help with those damn flirt texts the coogar texted me a few days after saying she wanted to kidnap me and take me to her lake she goes to. We went there and I seduced her on the rocky shore by telling her straight up that I wasnt going to make a single move on her until she gives me the signal. By the joy I received from the cosmos she bought into the fake confidence act and I went down on her and slipped it in. It didnt last long because she felt awkward doing it in public where people from the other side of the lake could see us easily... let alone the rocky surface. It wasnt pleasurable because I wasnt sure if i was all the way in but she seemed to be doing fine while covering my ass with her towel. We went home and I waited a week before texting her back so i dont seem desperate and therefore I was able to get more action :) That's mine

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Jeff

Thursday, October 27th, 2011

well, david, to follow up on my story.... we were just fine. she had her period on schedule, so no worries! so we just had sex again....and this time was even worse! haha, i was again commended for my performance, and she was shocked to find out that this was my second time out the gate, but...i dont know. haha i guess i just wasnt really genuinely attracted and have allowed my lack of self-esteem from really going out and choosing a partner who really does it for me..because yeah, she was blowin me, and that was nice, and then we went doggy for awhile, and then missionary...and eventually through some of the conversation that we had during sex....i pretty much went limp over time! it was just like....yeah i think you should probably go and ill just jerk off... this is not pleasing me! all in all, a funny, embarrassing, and educational experience... think i need to revisit that self love audio :)

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Les

Friday, November 4th, 2011

I lost my virginity just before I turned 23. I lived if a block of flats in Denver, CO and my neighbor who was 29 cam over on a Friday night and said, "Let's go out." I had just moved to the mile high city so didn't know anyone yet and I didn't want to spend my Friday alone, so I agreed. I was not into this girl at all, but we both got drunk at a bar walking distance from the flats. We went back to my place and started watching "No Country for Old Men." We didn't even get to the part where Lou Ellen finds the money before I had carted her off to the bed and had really bad sex. I never came. I was happy I had finally lost my virginity but disappointed that it wasn't this super-duper passion factory. The detail in this story I'm not proud of however is the fact that this girl was collecting disability money from the government for a bad jeep accident she had in El Paso, TX 5 years prior. She had suffered brain damage. And she was, for lack of PC terms, very stupid and slow. I essentially lost my virginity willingly to a retarded person. If that's not a big "OUCH," I don't know what is.

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oli

Sunday, January 1st, 2012

Hi David and co., I just turned 20 years old and the girl Im dating is 18 but I know she has a lot more experience than me. I'm still a virgin, and really its through lack of trying as I went to an all boys school up until 18 and then in the past year (19-20) I was working at a shitty job and didnt really have any friends or go out at all until I started going to university, which is where I met this girl. I was very much socially awkward up until recently and now I find myself with friends going clubbing every Friday and I love it and I know that women are surprised that I havent already made out with girls at unviersity since enrolling there, and most of the men in my dorm havent, though they dont know Ive never kissed a girl. Ive gotten myself in great physical condition as I train in MMA and your Mens Mastery series has helped my confidence a lot. Ive been reading up and watching videos on how to please a woman, I guess like rosco did, so my question is whether or not I should tell this girl Im a virgin before having sex with her, whether I should ever tell her and whether or not theres a good chance she'll realise anyway.

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rosco

Sunday, January 1st, 2012

Hey Oli. I told my girl I was a virgin before having sex. I did notice that she didnt let go totally in bed. I think it is normal for her to not give you her heart and her orgasm 100% if you are a virgin especially if it is an intense emotional moment for her. She let go totally and had her most intense orgasm with me on the third time we had sex. Generally I'd say it is not a big deal as you think. If you are masculine and make her feel SAFE IN YOUR PRESENCE, she will assume you are good in bed even if she knows you are a virgin. The most important thing is your focus and it should be on HER and not your virginity thing..which is why I made sure I pleasured her using my fingers and tongue first before entering her(that was the only time I thought about losing my virginity) Overall I'd say there is a risk in telling her you are a virgin but the payoff is..if ever you two do sleep together, the trust will be multiplied and it will be much easier to be open and be yourself to her. Good luck

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John

Sunday, January 1st, 2012

C'mon Miami!!! Go!!!!

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John

Sunday, January 1st, 2012

Well jets fans,, it's been a good run. All I need now is either an Oakland or denver loss and,, well see ya in postseason. Hahahaha! :)

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