Help Me Help You

By David Wygant February 27, 2017 671 Shares

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I got an idea today.

I’ve been a writer since 2001. Oh my god, sometimes I can’t believe how much content I have written.

I never run out of ideas, and sometimes I think I’m saying the same things over and over again. But yet, every idea and everything I write comes out a little different each time.

I might write the same article on how to meet or how to fall in love, but it’s a little different each time because each day that I write it, I’m going through something different that day, sometime different that inspires me to connect with you, my audience.

But today, I want you to help me help you.

I want to write some articles based on what you’re looking for.

Shit, I want to know your problems.

I want to know what you want me to write. What you need me to say. I want to know what is missing in your life right now. What you need some advice on.

That’s what I want. I want to know what things you want me to tell you, or help you, or inspire you. So help me help you. Tell me all about what you’d like me to write. What questions you have for me. What particular questions you have for me right now, so I can help you in your life. Help me help you.

Nowadays, dating is more competitive than it’s ever been — download this free report to learn 6 proven skills to stand apart & succeed in the modern dating world.

About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Jenny

Monday, February 27th, 2017

David, I don't know if you'll ever respond to this but I get confused. I've been going to the gym the for the last two years and I'm attracted to this one guy. I've talked to him and smiled at him but he's never approached me. I did notice that he stares at me and has pretended to look at the gym schedule because he's waiting for me to go up to him. Is this guy shy or just not interested?

Brijette

Tuesday, February 28th, 2017

My boyfriend and I have known each other for 10 years. At first we were friends and then I moved in with him and became his roommate after a year of living together we started to develop feelings for one another and decided to try it out and see what would happen. It been five years now. He keeps telling me that he doesn't want to get married right now (whatever the hell that means). We recently had two miscarriages within a year and I could easily blame that for the strain on our relationship but I think it is a combination of his family, his attitude, and the losses.He is a real mama's boy. He talks to her everyday, even when we are on vacation. Sometimes he talks to her more than once a day. My dad died last year and he didn't even sit with me at the funeral, he sat with his mom. My last miscarriage was in January and he was lovey dovey for the week that my mom was here and then a week later he started acting like an asshole, barely talking to me and being real short with me which developed into him not talking to me at all. It's been a month and we have not talked. We are rarely in the same room at the same time. He still sleeps in the same bed with me which is absurd to me. He stays on his side of the bed and makes sure that he doesn't touch me. I tried to talk to him last month and express to him that he was hurting my feelings and how he was acting and he basically told me that I shouldn't feel that way. So the next day I apologized and we haven't spoken since. I haven't moved out for various reasons. Im pretty much giving up on the relationship but I am trying to at least make sure its the right thing to do. What is your take on this? If you need more background I am more than willing to give it I just felt like I wrote too much already.

Chrissie

Tuesday, February 28th, 2017

So glad you asked! While your blog has been a tremendous help for me, I do have some thoughts some from my personal experience and others from my friends. - Online dating/profiles - you may have discussed this topic, but when you are dating a guy for a while what is protocol about when you both delete your online accounts - More do's and don'ts with your online profile. How your profile gives people an impression of you. I actually did an experiment on photos used and it was sooo interesting the responses. - When guys go silent then reach back out to you after a month(s) or even year. So funny how it seems like they always come back, why do they ghost in the first place and what on earth makes them come back? - Learning to date again, for those who have been in a relationship/married for a while - Dating someone with kids, striking that perfect balance, priorities, boundaries - Everyone has advice on your relationship, or dating status (friends, parents, siblings, co-workers) how to sift through all of it plus all the online noise. - Dating confidence, how to create and build your confidence in yourself and your dating life - Sex and dating, especially at an older age. Love these topics and want more! - Tips on how to not lose yourself when getting back into a relationship - Dealing with the rebound! We all go through it and how to go through it with the least amount of bruises - Did I mention Sex? I could go on for days ... thanks again!

Vonnie

Wednesday, March 1st, 2017

Life coaching! You do it well! That's why I'm here and hooked on your blog. I'll try and put together a list because I can't seem to remember anything right now. Stay tuned.....

bbw123

Thursday, March 2nd, 2017

I am a single mom of 2 kids, was separated with the father of my kids for more than 2 years until i got some help from merujhaspellcaster. When I learned to join social networking/ chatting, I've been emotionally involved to some of the men met here. Had been to three relationships and the last one is like a trauma to me. He was my friend since last year, but we've been close just last month. I fall for him because he is very loving. I didn't hide anything from him about my past. Same with him, he shared his past with me. He was cheated by four women before me. Deep inside myself, I love him very much but he always doubt and thinks I'm cheating on him. Until that saddest day he said he give up and he cant trust me anymore. He blocked me. As I try to get connected with him, I added some of his friends and made him more angry. He accused me of things I never thought nor planned to do, insulted me and all. I was very heart broken and deeply hurt.Despite all he did and say, I still loved him. A colleague recommended that i speak with merujhaspell on Linkedin which i did , i sent him a message and he called me back. Long story short, he was able to help me with some love spells which helped to bring him back and now we are happily reunited together as one happy family. Is it bad that i had some love spells done?.

John

Friday, March 3rd, 2017

I would make a request, but apparently I've been banned.

Jeffery D

Monday, March 6th, 2017

Hey David, I really admire what you do and what you're all about. I think for me you're more of a Tony Robbins, than just a great dating coach. Anyways my question for you is more of a general observation about my outlook, and how to approach fixing it. I grew up with a lot of violence and rejection from my peers growing up, and it has affected my self image, and interactions with people in general, but especially with women. I have a lot of contempt for people overall, growing up as a teen I was pretty isolated and kind of a wallflower in my interactions with others. My Father had little regard for personal boundaries when it came to a sense of humor. I guess My Dad thought he was a Don Rickles or something, My dad has decent qualities and I care about him don't get me wrong, but when it comes to a laugh at someones expense though nothing was off limits. To make a long story short my father whether it came to insults like, "you're such a fing pussy", "you're a fing retard", "you're a fing faggot" "you'll never get a woman to be attracted to you because you're a fing homo", "you're such a fing dbag", "you'll never get a date, girlfriend", etc... "you'll never know how to make friends", "you'll never amount to anything", "you're fing useless", stuff like this. Anyways I honestly don't know if you can help me or I should talk to a shrink about this stuff. I'm kind of a misanthrope and I grew up with a lot of anger and violence I displayed to others due to violent trauma, I have always been hesitant to try to get close to people dating, friends, job aspirations and college/academic confidence you name it. Some of it's me not believing in myself, some of it is the elaborate lengths I seem to go to push people away, with lots of shock value and social destructive behaviors. I don't really know how to cope with my past traumas, and live a productive life. I'm 30 now living at home, between jobs and without a driver license due to a stroke I had when I was a kid. Can you teach me how I can go about achieving my goals and become more mentally, emotionally, and inter personally adjusted to be the Man I hope to be? I got a lot of Good Will Hunting type crap I'm trying to overcome. I got to brush up on my advanced mathematics though. Have a great day Dave!

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