I have video for you today, which reveals the worst thing you could do on a first date with a man. It’s a tongue-in-cheek look at what I believe is the sorry state of many modern day dates. I keep hearing the same moans and complaints from both men and women about dating. “He didn’t seem to connect with me. I wasn’t sure if he was listening to me. It didn’t feel like he was present.”

Have you used any of those statements about a first date you’ve been on recently?

Did either you or your date have a cellphone or tablet on you during your time together?

If you did, did you use it?

Honestly?

You see, I’m out pretty much every day and wherever I go I see the same thing; people talking to each other, but looking down at their iPhone. What is that about?

How can you have a proper conversation, and how can you really connect with someone if you’re looking at your phone while they’re speaking to you. It’s the craziest thing I’ve ever seen, and it needs to stop. Of course we can’t get close to each other anymore, and of course nobody feels connected. How can we if we’ve always got our head buried in our phone.

Sure if you need to take a call, or send a text, then fine, but not the whole time. It’s madness!

Anyway, check out the video below and ask yourself, have you ever been on an iPhone date like this?