Don’t Stop Believin’

By David Wygant November 2, 2008 615 Shares

What do you believe in? What do you stand for? How do you define yourself as a person in this world?

What are your beliefs? What are you willing to do, and how much are you willing to take?

Who do you respect? Who do you honor? Do you honor yourself? Do you honor who you are as a person?

Do you have beliefs that are so strong that you’ll stand up for yourself no matter what? Or are you a pushover in every way – you’re just taking the scraps of life as they come to you?

Man, this sounds like a harsh blog – but it really isn’t!

I want you all to step up for yourself today and I want you to write down what you believe in.

I want you to write it on the blog right now. Start it off with this: “David, my name is _____, and I believe in…” Tell me what you believe in.

I’ve spent the last year writing blogs for you guys, and you know what I believe in. You know what I stand for: I stand for truth, justice, and the American way. Am I Superman, or what?

But what do you believe in? What are you going to stand up for? How do you want your life to be?

I want to hear from you guys today. I want to hear what you are all about.

You write me a blog today. Write me a long post and tell me what you believe in. Tell me what you’re fighting for. Tell me exactly how you want your life to be six months from now – and what you’re doing every single day to make that happen.

I challenge you to stand up for yourself today on this blog. Only the gutsiest people are actually going to stand up. Most of you are just going to read it, think about it, and wait for the perfect thing to write.

But there is no perfect thing to write.

I just want to hear what you believe in; I want to hear what you stand for, and I want to get to know you even deeper.

About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Bertie

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

My name is Roberta Ann.... While I'm not a guy...there are a few things I believe in. Myself. My kids. Honesty with kindness. I can do anything I want to do or have to do....like fixing the toilet. At first it made me cry then I put on my big girl panties, looked it up online, went to the hardware store got the stuff, and fixed the damn thing. I just kept saying to myself...I made it through college, my ex who quit, can do this, and I'm certainly smarter than that, therefore you can do this. Work shouldn't make you exhausted just to reduce the bottom line. (I could write an entire blog on this, but I'll leave it at that) There has to be a better way. There has to be a better way to protect our respective environments and still maintain accessibility and our standard of living. This next thought has been percolating in my head for about a month now.... I'm not sure that I'm long-term relationship material...the trouble is I also don't see me being alone forever either even though I'm quite happy with the way my life is right now. So I've been trying to figure this out a lot lately.

Greg

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

My name is greg, im a college student studying biochemistry. I hope to do research that will help us fix this enviornmental mess we have created. Socially, I value respect, honesty, and trust above all else. My friends can talk to me about anything, and know that i wont go and share their secrets with anyone else. I used to be a pushover, extremely shy and quiet, but now I say/do what i feel like doing, and dont really care what other people think of it, because I cannot control what they think of me.

David

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

my name is David and i believe in my own experiences, i believe in love, i have a crush on a friend of mine and i believe that she likes me too and that she gonna be my girlfriend soon, i believe i have a lot of friends and i improve my confidence everyday by meeting new people whenever i can

surprise boy

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

I sort of have this problem with talking to girls after class. Here is a typical situation, I always arrive to class at least 15 minutes early to class so i can talk to the girl, and i do. But once class is over everyone rushes out to leave class. I want to talk to the girl some more after class so we can get to know each other better and she always seems to be out with such a rush! Is it that she doesnt care if i talk to her again or is it that she is not aware that i want to talk to her some more? Or is it that she just doesnt want to talk to me so she just leaves?

surprise boy

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

M

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

I get paid to respond to this type of question and usually answer with books and screenplays, but a quick blog would be good too. My life's work is to understand the people around me, the influences I recieve on a daily, hourly, and minutia level and to transform those experiences into works of staggering emotional and truthful thought. I believe in the power of my voice and the direction it carries me through life. I believe in the power of the human spirit and how capable, controlled, and how incredible a life devoted to making that detail work in everyones voice can be, not just the one who believes in it. I believe in resonating with a large audience because the things that resonate the best are the ones that no one takes the time to study anymore and with each new day and each new hour, we find things that are as invaluable, unique and precious as every single diamond on this planet. We have ourselves to honor and we have the moments that make up a beautiful day to carry us through to the next one. But I believe every moment can be beautiful if we all work hard on making that dream a reality. I believe everything happens for a reason and the reason is something we create together, either as a union with another soul or as a union with the material behind the source of all of creation and inspiration working with the voice and flow of words and ideas through our minds. I believe in human decency, compassion and empathy overwhelming the nuances of troubled creative minds. I believe we are given strengths and weaknesses before we are equipped to understand them and when we do turn our attentions to what we need to work on and what substantiates us as humans, then the real work begins. I believe we never stop giving up and we never stop believing in the world and what a wonderful place it can be if we hold on to our faith in our spirits of creation and our love for ourselves. I believe everyone has a voice worth listening to and I want to see what other people have to offer on your subject. Because I believe in the force of creation and change and those are the two most powerful forces in the world when applied to human creativity. And I believe that there isn't a single moment in a single person's life that is more valuable and precious than any other moment we experience no matter how important the value is in an arbitrary sense. David is someone who teaches that selfless attitude and understands the power of creation can come from helping someone realize their own power. It empowers him and it makes him special and I believe in what he is doing with his time, energy, expertise, and knowledge. Take care, M

Rogerio

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

My name is Rogerio - for those who don't know, I was at the London boot camp. And I am a guy (just checked - their still there ;) ) I believe in me, myself and I - in the gift that is life and that nothing is impossible it just take longer than the easy stuff (just need to keep reminding myself of that). I need to listen to myself (inner voice - not monkey chatter) more than I currently do. I know I am capable of anything thing – another thing that I need to keep reminding myself of. I have worked on myself for over 3 years - I'm at the point that I no longer have monkey chatter. When I do allow "chatter" it's always positive and more of a dialogue with myself. I can control my mind and go blank in an almost Zen like way - if someone says pink elephant nothing happens. Adam tried that with me during the boot camp. I am against stupidity in all it's forms - not talking about the ha ha funny type stupid but stupid as in knowing that the master key to a building has been stolen and only deciding to change the locks after 2 months and a lot of offices being robed without any forced entry. David Wygant is the reason why I now have a shoe and watch fetish. My second goal for this year is to be fearless my first (and still is) is to change my life completely this year. I am against “boring” in all it's forms. That's it for now.

David

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

I believe in love. And I hope that belief is more than just my own personal concept. Some religions are perceived as just "beliefs" and not "facts," but I believe in God, too, and I hope that's more than just a personal concept. I believe in doing it my way, and not worrying about the way others perceive me. That belief is sometimes really hard to deal with, and I struggle with it often. I strive to not be as affected by others' opinions or judge my own self-worth by the number of friends I have, but honestly, my academics have really driven me apart from friendships. This summer, I learned to reverse that through meeting new people as Wygant teaches. It's tough and I have little to show from it. But this mindset will change me for the better, even if it's in the long-term. I believe I can make the world a better place, especially through my work in journalism. I think I help other people find their voices. I believe in justice, and even though I think the guilty should pay for their crimes, I believe in their redemption, and I wish they only had to pay for their crimes with jail time and not public outcry for the rest of their lives. I'm pretty much a pushover in that regard. I guess what's been on my mind most recently is why I'm so comfortable with others I'm not attracted to, but nervous and a pushover with women I am attracted to.

Infinity

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

Hey David, my name is Thomas and I believe in helping others. I believe in pursuing dreams. I believe in fulfilling potential. I believe in sharing wealth. I believe in love, friendship, and emotion. My life has been completely different since I have graduated from college. Almost two months ago, I have opened up Project Infinity, which is a blog devoted to helping guys improve their lifestyles, and while I have been doing that, I haven't forgotten about why I do it. Not only do I get to help others improve their lives, but I also get to learn more about myself and get the best out of everything I do in my life. I get so passionate about this that when I talk about it, my hands go all over the place. I'm even having a hard time keeping my hands still as I type this! It's important that we all help each other better ourselves. We have the opportunity to learn so much about other people and ourselves. I believe in taking risks and not judging people for who they are and where they come from. I believe we deserve to have our cake and eat it too. Gorgeous women are women that we guys are more than capable of attaining. Gorgeous women want us to attain them. Remember that. When you're in a bar or a club, the point of these places is to provide a venue for entertainment and meeting people. Have fun, enjoy yourself and expand your social circle. I believe in satisfaction and striving for it. I also believe satisfaction and happiness go hand in hand. You all are great people and I love coming here to read what people say. And David, thanks for providing this forum for doing so. I am so excited about life and everyone else should be too!

Taryn

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

Hi David my name is Taryn I believe that life is short and we need to live it to the fullest EVERYDAY! I believe laughter is the key to life and without it you will be lost. I believe good karma will come back to you so be kind to others around you. I believe in doing what makes you happy and NEVER settling for less than you deserve.

Vic

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

Considering the late hour here in Madrid, nearing a quarter to 2am and the fact that work begins early Monday morning, I will make this brief: My name is Victor, and I believe in The Golden Rule: Treating others how you yourself would want to be treated. I believe in social justice and helping those people who are less fortunate than you. I believe in empathy, random acts of kindness and that I have concrete morals that cannot and will not be compromised. I believe that we need to take advantage of the abilities that have been given to us, that at times we may take for granted without even realizing it. In 6 months time, I will be finishing my work here and either head back to the States or will have been able to extend my time and will continue working here in Spain. Thank you David for providing this space. Your insight has truely been helpful.

Jonas

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

David, my name is Jonas. I believe in life, in all it's forms. From the air we share with the green turtle, to the women we meet. Every little thing, every detail is important. The words we exchange with ourselfs and others are really unique, and I'm trying to be as truthful as I can when they come out of my mouth, adapting them to the greater good in my thoughts. We have the power to change and be whoever we want to be. I want to be myself with every good aspect I find in those around me, and all of you, specially David are showing me some (or how to find) really good things. I believe that life is in randomic movement, never stopping, allways changing. I believe that if I live my life with respect and chase my dreams I will get the most of it and fulfill them in some manner. I want to be a good father, husband, friend and person. In six months I want to have made some accomplishments in work and in myself and built new dreams and objectives. So, live your life and don't expect anyone to do it for you! Hugs and kisses for all.

Taras

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

I'll keep this short and sweet... My name is Taras and first and foremost I believe in expression. I also value trust, honesty, positivity, intelligence, and independence of thought. I would rather speak my mind and risk getting into some trouble than stay silent to make others happy. I am a psychology major and my passion is the human mind, although that may change as I continue to go out into the world and find new things that interest and intrigue me. That's all. peace.

Gale

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

My name is Gale. I am believe in honesty. I believe you have to make a great day happen. I used to believe that sky is my limit, but not any more...I don't know if it means that I am giving up on some of my dreams or it is a sign on maturity... I believe that things happen in this world for a reason. I believe that good is good and bad is bad, but at the end - good prevails.

Robert H

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

My name is Robert, and I believe in the power of rock! Rock is the only thing that actually gives me a drive in life anymore. If it wasn't for Journey, REO, Nickelback and Bon Jovi. I first found my life nitty gritty, but actually it's a little bit better than that. If it wasn't for my life being so crude and harsh I prolly would of never found myself. We all strive to find myself and I already did. Myself, I am a Rocker. I listen to AC/DC, Bon Jovi, and Def Leppard. I told myself that I would never listen to such music as Eminem, Chris Brown, and T-Pain. But the lyrics in themselves talk about self-improvement. Specially Eminem. Seeing 8 Mile for the first time in my life I realized how one person can overcome all obstacles in their life. Going to Jail is perhaps one of the major break-throughs in my life. It taught me to take life with a grain of salt and always to live on the edge. Being normal is a thing of the past and as Nickelback said, You Gotta Be Somebody. David has been some help in my life, but all together it's my choice if I listen. What he taught me most is to act like yourself. I'm still working on fine tuning it, but I got most of it together finally after all these years. I wish I knew just a bit more, and lived over where the bootcamp areas. Coming from a small town is the only negative thing about meeting various woman. Perhaps I set my standards too high because of rumours that someone has herpes in this town, and everyone goes out and screws each other like rabbits. I digress. I believe in self-improvement. I believe influential lyrics in Rock and Rap. I believe in the power to make my own decision. I also take pride in the fact I once had a Mullet which marked me for ridicule, but I am a individual.

Vince

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

Hey guys, this is kind of funny. I just finished watching the movie (into the wild) and was pondering the same questions. Well my name Vince and I am on the road to better myself in all aspects. I have been travelling and experiencing new situation in the past 2 years. It is helping me grow to eventually become the leader I want to be. I left my hometown and my career to explore my country (canada). I believe that it would lead me to my true passion which I know I found. It lies in helping people to start believing in big dreams again no matter what their age and help them achieve them. Whatever your mind can concieve it can achieve (Napoleon Hill) And so finally I feel Im on the right path to impact this world in a positive way. This time next year I know I will have met David Wygant because his life works inspires me almost everyday. I really enjoy reading his blogs and your guys comments. I'm currently reading a book called ''The slight edge by jeff olson'' It's an awesome book to help you change. So I will leave you guys with this and keep on growing!

DW

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

David, my name is David and I believe in living in the present. Time flies too quickly to be stuck on auto-pilot and I want to change that about myself. I found your blog about a month ago and find its advice practical, natural, and conducive to trying to live in the present. keep up the good advice and I'll keep reading.

Sam

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

My name is Sam, I believe in striving to do my best in everything I do. That means not settling for second best, no matter what. I'ts hard but I refuse to compromise my integrity and live a lie. I believe in being honest with others, and trying to make the lives of those around me that little bit better in any way I can. I believe in love and one day I will experience it again! ...and I believe this was a good idea for a blog, nice posts everybody :)

Just Adjust It

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

My name is Anthony, and I believe that there's a cure for all the problems and ailments we have in this world. I am a chiropractor and I believe that there's a cure for all our health problems out there. Some have been discovered and others haven't YET! I am going to share with the world everything I know about health and wellness and this trickle of knowledge will one day be a breathtaking waterfall that will help the world.

Ian

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

David, my name is Ian, and I believe in myself. I'm far from perfect, and I have a lot of progress to make in bettering my life, but I know that when I set my mind to something, it gets done, maybe not right away, but it does get done. Right now I'm dealing with a lot of confidence issues, and you know what? I am SICK of it. There are times I just can't stand myself, I need a change, I'm constantly analyzing myself and others and it simply stresses me out, this isn't the life I want to live. I want to happy with who I am and sincerely believe in myself, but I know it takes work. I promise to myself and anyone reading this, that I AM going to change, I am going to be happy with who I am and where my life is headed, not for you, not for the girl down the street, but for ME. I want to be happy, and I'll do whatever it takes to get there.

PeteC

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

My name is Pete, i took a (fucking awesome) bootcamp in London in August. I fully believe in Individuality, and being yourself, and not being an empty soul who's only after getting laid. I belive that Health, Wealth and Relationships are all as equally as important as one another. I eat plenty of superfoods (brocolli, sweet potato, Spinach, quinoa etc), veggies, and protein, and work out 3x a week on Starting Strength (missed a few sessions though). I am consistently looking for new opportunities to make sustainable money, and o finish my degree with a decent grade to a) satisfy my parents b) prove I can remain comitted to something in the long term. THing and grow rich truly is the bible of my life, and I'm determined to come to America or Australia and work for a mentor, at the minimum wage, or even for free, to learn invaluable life lessons and improve myself. I consistently try to get my 5 a day in people, and am always up for going out (read gettign wrecked) and talking to some fascinating people, who are probably more fascinating when drunk. I believe in listening to people, and what they have to say, and valueing what they have to say. I believe in your own space, and respecting other peoples things. I value people who are generous in the right quanity, and distrust people who pick and moan and have emotional rants at small things, instead of sorting them out rationally and calmly.

Darkpoet3113

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

my name is Joe, i'm from Boston. i'm a composer/student. I believe in Art, Creativity, Passion,nonconformity and indivduality. I believe in giving a person a chance and getting to them before making judgements. i believe that deep connections and open mindness make a relationship/friendship. not looks,career, height/weight or material object. i believe in karma, the threefolds law. treat other as you wish to be treat. I do what you want to do, regardless of what others think. it's your happiness not theres. i'm 30 back in college finishing what i always wanted to do with my life. i give up alot of do to it. too bad it's sad people look down in that instead or admiring it. cheers, Joe

John

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

I believe when one person falls everyone falls together and that individual salvation is bullshit.

Matt

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

My name is Matt, and I believe in the Elohim of the Bible, the Annunaki of ancient Sumerian text, and the gods of the Greek, Roman, Indian, (as well as Native American) African, Asian people whose ancient tales all told of the “sky people” or the “gods who came from the sky”. In fact, the word Elohim means “those who come from the sky” in the most ancient Hebrew language and it is important to know that it was mistranslated into a singular “God”. The Elohim are the Ones we have all been waiting for. All religions announced Their return for these thousands of years - and they will bring with them all the great prophets, who also promised humanity they would return one day. Jesus, Mohammed, Buddha, Zoroaster, Moses, Elijah, Joseph Smith (and over 30 others) will all return with the Elohim one great day in the near future…if we just welcome them. How do we welcome them? By laying down weapons and using science to save lives instead of take lives. We have all the intelligence needed to save this planet – if we just remove the power of the current religious and government institutions whose goals to date have been to maintain their own power and wealth.

Jenny

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

Hello David, my name's Jenny. I recently discovered your blog. Like it alot. I believe in choosing our life. Specifically: choosing our happiness. It's cheesy, but think about it: how many do this? How many truly choose their happiness or blame life/loved ones when it doesn't "find" them between work and the t.v.? Bad luck? Poppy cock! Lovers don't fall from the sky and never leave, bad things sometimes come with the good, and wrinkles happen. It's all in how you roll with it, from the big stuff to the small moments. I'm a graduate student (so I'm frequently stripped of joy and licensed to strangle), but I often take my best lessons from a 2-yr old: curse, and then laugh...hug freely...find joy in the mundane...don't hold in your anger.... Thought of another way: if I were to die tomorrow, which moments would I regret today? Aside from not hopping the first plane to Hawaii this morning, they'd be the ones that didn't produce happiness, however short a moment it might be. So ya, I guess that's what a I stand for: choosing happiness, taking responsibility for yourself, and knowing it's never further away than our daily choices. Not too original. But unlike many, it's not just a dust-collector on my nightstand. Oh ya, and in six months from now, I want to be ace-ing a certain math subject that is currently kicking my arse, I want to OWN my research project, I want to secure funding, and I want to CEASE having a torturous crush on a certain (married) faculty. Who else wants to hear David's spiel? And don't give us any of that superhero shit, David. C'mon. Dish! ;-)

Samuel

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

Hey! My name is Sam! I just went through a huge move and tough break-up, but I'm working on building myself back up and getting to the real me. I believe in the real me. I know that I can do anything that I want to do, cause I have done it countless times. I went back to school and finished my degree in a damn hard subject (economics)... I can learn anything I want on guitar, usually by ear... I fixed up a house mostly by myself and flipped it to pay down most of my student debt... but I sometimes fall prey to this huge boulder tied to my inner mind... it's like I'm the mental Sisyphus, constantly rolling that boulder up the hill. And it totally doesn't have to be that way, cause I believe in myself. I believe in being honest with people and respecting the way other people feel. And at some point, when the person is right, I want to be involved with another person who communicates super well with me, and is honest about the way they feel throughout with me. Not just at the very end of things, when it's a total surprise. I believe in becoming more self-aware and aware of things going on around me, and not living in my head so much. I miss soooo much sometimes! Just the other day, I was a play of Dracula, and this cute girl moved next to me, said she was scared, and at one point hid her face on my shoulder out of fright (whether real or feigned?). What an opportunity to talk, and I didn't seize it. I believe in seizing those moments.

DanTheOriginal

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

I enjoyed reading some of these comments. The following had me ROFL: >>>>>>>>David Wygant is the reason why I now have a shoe and watch fetish. >>>>>>>>I believe in the power of rock! Rock is the only thing that actually gives me a drive in life anymore. If it wasn’t for Journey, REO, Nickelback and Bon Jovi. No time to write my own, sorry. Tomorrow I believe in Obama:-)

Jessica

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

This blog sounds like a beautiful poem! I believe in myself. I believe that anything positive is better than anything negative. I believe in learning. XOXOXOX!

AJ raza

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

hi. My name is AJ and I believe in making others laugh. I love spreading the wealth of comedy around, and I may still be single/lonely on my 21st birthday as I type this due to my below average looks, I am still very happy with my life because of all the positive things that have happened to me.

Mo Bounce

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

Hello, I'm Mo Bounce, and i'm an alcoholic. ...Oh wait, wrong meeting! lol jk. I believe first and foremost in being real. And seeking & sharing the truth with all. Being real & telling the truth aren't always pretty, but i'm not either. I'm raw sometimes, but trying to be more classy. My entire life has been dedicated to just being real & truthful, never having to act, it just comes natural. Occaisionally people get pissed at me for my words, but generally it's because they can't or won't accept them. I'm trying harder to share the grace of God thru my words and not speak so bluntly, but there's a time & a place for everything. With women, I believe in being a huge flirt and sharing compliments when they're real. I love tugging their hair when i've busted their chops on something funny, or bumping them with my hip. Just a little something to send them reeling with ecstasy!! I have no need to kiss ass, never have, never will. Some women don't know how to accept a real compliment, it's foreign to them. If I run into damaged women, I just smile & walk away. They're missing out on the grace of God that runs thru me. Everywhere I go, I try to brighten someone's day. Usually, compliments from me arise from just being observant. Example: There's this little hole in the wall liquor store by my pad and i'll cruze over there for a beer and pet the Rott out back, slap hands with the owner and stare in awe at the scenery inside. It's like a museum of cool stuff. Wildly shaped bottles of alcohol from around the world, A Pirate ship, a worm, a dragon, an Easter island statue, etc. All the different types of beer from around the world, not just the american 3. The amazing hand blown glass pipes, bongs & hukas. The amazing selection of cigars & blunts. All those things. When I go in, he gives me shot bottles free every time. I've never asked once. I went to the mall recently looking for some new clothes to upgrade my wardrobe from 20's to mature adult. I found this high end business suit store and decided to check it out. I told the mgr my mission and I walked the store for 20 mins and observed everything, commenting on the high quality dress clothes from Italy, etc. I ended up finding this amazing Hawaiian shirt, by far the most vibrant item in the whole store. It's like 100 stitch per sq inch. Excellent quality. I looked at the price tag and it was like $100+. I said whoa, that's a little out of my price range, but it's so dynamic, i'll take it anyways, and 2 pairs of dress pants to match also. I talked to the mgr for awhile and he asked my name, I told him "They call me Mo Bounce," He was Pakistani and had trouble pronouncing it, so I helped him pronounce it. He smiled when he got it, and told me his name was "Mo." I smiled & said "You're Mo Bounce too?!" He knew I was joking and said "No, Mo-hammed." I shook his hand and thanked him for the tour of his store. I went to check out, and he gave me his employee discount and saved me over $50 on everything I bought. Very cool! I took my Jeep to get the brakes done and was just talking to the mgr and he asked all about my Jeep, what i'd added to it and where I wheeled. We talked for awhile. After the service was done and he rang up the bill, he said he'd given me his employee discount. Never asked, just hooked it up. It's days like those that make Being Cool worth every minute!! Cheers & Beers! *C

Susan

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Hello David, my name is Susan and I'm new to your blog, too. I believe in me, my abilities, my success, my honesty, my integrity, my gift of service to others-when you set out to do something "charitable" for someone else you walk away from the whole experience completely grateful for the gift they have given to you. David, your philosophy of going into a dating situation hoping to get nothing from it can easily be translated to charitable acts. I find the most humbling experiences in my life is when I've set out to do something for someone else. Anyone out there feel their life is not where they want it to be? Go and serve dinner at a homeless shelter and you will come away knowing how lucky you are and how not that different you are from the person across the serving line.

vic bradley

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

my name is vic :) hey there david :D I believe in honesty and trust, love and the expression of your self weather it comes out in dance song, poems, art any wich way as long as you can find your true self and learning how to turn those few seconds into your own life style. right now i am trying to get into school and find a way to pay for it but i believe that the sky is truly the limit and where theres a will theres a way. for me i am told that i have my head of in the clouds sometimes but i want to be the person that is passionate about my dreams and chase them down to see how much i can actually do. so I'm not the best writer in the world so me and what i stand for in a nut shell wold be dreams, fun, honesty, passion, reliable, trust, love. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

Przemek

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Yeah, that's my name LOL .. Ok, so I'm on my "enlightment" journey, thx to this bloig too after reading "The Power of now". It's making more sense everyday, but sometimes their are doubts in the head .. Thanks to this blog I see I'm not alone, that EVERYONE has his ups and downs, and that only thing worth investing on is yourself .. Keep un the good work, peace ;]

Elise

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Hi, my name is Elise and I believe in following your passions and figuring out life your own way. im the youngest kid of two and used to be greatly influenced by other people before I would go and seek something out myself. I am easily emotionally attached in relationships and it has been hard to assert myself, and figure out what I want before when around very dominant personalities. Identifying that this is a problem and being more conscious of when this happens helps me to get one step closer to being the person who I would like to be every day. I believe in independence and originality and hopefully I will get there one day soon. Im a new reader to your blog, but I enjoy your stories and tips, thanks!

Dirk

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

David, my name is dirk, and I believe in myself. I'm a 49-year old divorced-once male, and I have to believe in myself and obtain all of my self-worth, self-confidence, and validation from myself. I no longer need someone else to determine my worth or validate me as a person. I've started a new life for myself post-divorce and want to live a life that is good and honorable and that gives back to my community. I want to honor my friends and family, while lovers come and go, friends and family will last you your lifetime. I want to lead by example. To that end, I became an elected official this year and plan in the next 6-months or so to run for a higher office. Oh, and thanks for the value that you add to my life.

nitin

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Hi, my name is nitin . I am working for Microsoft Sales projects from india. I do often read your blogs when i feel low and full of hazzles so that i could get enough strength and beleif to cure my loneliness . I firmly beleive in live and let live policy, i beleive every1 has the right to say & speak what is correct from an individual perspective. i do feel sometimes that i panic a lot due to work load pressure even when there is no need of it . I used to feel sometimes that having a gal is like some kind of an achievement but my perception was changed to a great extent after reading david'd advice and have got a bit of confidence now when it comes towards girls however i am still single may be due to some other reasons. Anyway david you are doing a good job You rock Cheers

Markus

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

hey it's me, markus! I believe I can do anything on earth as long as I really want it. I will take any effort necessary and then achieve it. I believe in the good in anyone and especially in the world itself. I believe that people act upon you the exact same way you treat them and accordding to the impression you gave them. I believe in the universal laws of the universe, sometimes called Law of Attraction which basically says you will get what you focus your thoughts and energy on. I believe in learning and (self-) development. I take everything, good or bad, that happens to me during the day as a unique learning opportunity. I believe it is key to look at especially the inconvenient stuff as it often bears the most valuable learnings. I believe that it is always advisable to have the ability to take a "third-person-view" on myself in all difficult situations. From outside, things are much more clearer and easier as they may seem from one self's point of view. I believe in respecting myself and treating myself well. When I buy something or stay in see place or travel, I do as comfortable as I can get/afford. I don't work that hard to stay in mediocre places, eat bad food or dress in bad clothes. And, damn it, I believe in my iPhone that allowed me to type all this long text without crashing or anything!!! :-) Greets Markus I believe in freedom and in respecting other people.

Markus

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

ok still a long way to go for my phone to format everything correctly... Well, I guess you got the message anyway.

Jim

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Trust me...this may sound serious but at the end of the day it's usually fun and energizing when I'm coming from the right place. I believe in... -pushing my limits and learning from my mistakes. -authority over arrogance. -groundedness. -life shrinks or expands in proportion to ones courage (Anais Nin). and someone else's courage doesn't have to match your's...they may be doing the best they can. -just when I think I've got it all figured out I'll say or do something and prove myself wrong...humility is a good thing. -if you have to be right in a relationship I suggest not being in one. -if you're the smartest one in the room you'll never learn anything. David - Have good one!!

Dunga

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Simple. I believe in observing, learning, testing and experimenting. In going for what I want and making no apologies for who nor what I am.

Antonio

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

After having met a beautiful woman in Colombia, I realized that happiness truly exists in this world. Life is much, much richer with another person in your life. How we met is too long to write here, but at the end of the day, as a guy, you have to make a push to meet a woman. A great book I recommend is "Remains of the Day." The key story line is about a butler who has a secret crush on a maid, but doesn't tell her for like 30 years!!! The story is about regret and longing. Don't let this happen to you!!!

Jessica

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Markus, It is so good to hear from you! And Bertie is here! Where is our Disparate Housewife? Does anyone know?

Jeff Gentry

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Hi David My name is Jeff, I believe in My self and my ability, I believe in America and my way of life, I believe love is possible and has many different form's, I believe anything is possible. I believe in the president of our country, I believe they will do what they think is right for our country even though I may not agree. I believe i am a valuable, productive member of our society, I believe I am loved by many people, I believe I can make friend's and connect with many more people. I believe my life will be filled with more friend's and beautiful woman than I could imagine, and I am talking to people and trying to connect with new people everyday in every place I go. Jeff

Mark King

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Hi, my name is Mark King. I believe that everything and everybody is connected together, what we do for others, we also do for ourselves. I believe I've been very fortunate to have the life I've had. I believe in helping those who are struggling or less fortunate. I believe the world would be so much better if humans would start helping, instead of hurting each other. I believe my diet is starting to pay off because I caught a hot lady scoping out my body yesterday. Nice Peace

Markus

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Hey Jessica it is good to see you too!! After a while of absence (i was extremely busy at work) I'm happy to be back on the blog. Theres a lot of good stuff coming here every day. :) Markus

Jeff Newinski

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Hi David I wish I could retain the knowledge from reading books but I had a T.B.I. and I have short term memory loss so what ever I read I do not retain in my memory. I feel like I am trapped because of this. Take Care Jeff

JOHN

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

I believe in the power of my cock to solve the worlds problems, thanks for all your thoughts david.

Rob

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

My name is Rob Davenport and: I believe that all men & women are created equal and have the rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness (and that happiness itself is up to you). I believe in the inherent goodness of all human beings. I believe in the Golden Rule. I believe in a higher power, but I reject the notion that access to that power is restricted to those belong to a certain group, read a certain book, dress a certain way, pray a certain way, or enjoy intimacy only in a prescribed manner. I believe that the female body is God’s greatest work of art, and each imperfection is God’s artistic statement. I believe in the Constitution of the United States, that the Wealth of Nations was the most important intellectual work of the past 300 years, in the teachings of Jesus, in the insight of Buddha, and in the wisdom of the Tao. I believe the greatest thrill is floating down a mountain on a bed of fresh powder. I believe that it’s the economy (stupid!). I believe in me. I am all that I can and should be. And, I will become all that I have passion for.

Julie

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Hi David, my name is Julie, and I believe in heroes...i.e... those people that are willing to stand up for what they believe in, regardless of ridicule or hardship. I also believe in love, and the existence of life, itself. e.e. cummings said it best...quoting from his poem "i carry your heart" "here is the deepest secret nobody knows (here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide) and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart)" I think if we all carried each other in our hearts...the world would be an easier place to live in. Thanks so much for your blog!

David A Steenblock

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Hey Dave, I beleive that as human beings we have the capacity to better ourselfes, it's just that usually we have the choice right in front of us, but were often too lazy or stubborn to do it. I dont want to keep doing that and thats why I'm here. My greatest beleive at this time is ones own personal conviction, to be able to look yourself in the mirror instead and say "Hey, what can I do to make my life the way I want it to be?".

Matt S.

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Whats up David. I believe in honesty. White lies or little lies are fine, but when a person sits there and makes shit up, its annoying. Honesty, although hard to handle sometimes when someone is truthful with you, makes things easier in the end. All those little games and stories just provide false situations, which isnt good for anyone. I believe in God. Im not a religous person, where I attend church and follow the bible, but I believe in the after life. I'll keep it as simple as that(not gonna preach on your blog)...but if you'd like to know what my idea of after life is, ask and i can tell. I believe in keeping myself in good shape and staying healthy. I believe that everyone has their own opinions and voice with every situation; but no one person should force that upon someone else. I believe that life is what you make it. If you sit back and expect things to come to you 9 times out of 10 you'll be disappointed...unless you're "lucky"(like you stated in your blog). Thank you. Matt S.

Janet

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

I believe in myself (even if no one else does!)

Michelle

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Hi David, My name is Michelle. I believe that you can have what you want in a relationship. It is really all about vibrations. You can welcome someone into your realm by simply allowing them to enter. What you think of yourself will emulate and attract that in a soul mate. It is possible and if we believe we deserve it we can have it.

Iggy

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

David, my name is Igor. I don't really like using the word "believe" because in a lot of times it involves uncertainty. However, I do stand up for my family and friends. All throughout high school I used to be a shy kid, but having to go through college and getting a somewhat serious job really changed me for who I am. I used to take a lot of "verbal" abuse before I would explode... I used to keep things to myself. But it is no longer the case. So, most of all... I believe in myself. I also believe in what you're doing, which is helping people open up more. And that is very important. There are way too many people out there who live "under a rock" who are cranky and have no personalities. So, thank you for what you are doing (even though it's technically your job now, but hey... at least you enjoy what you're doing)!!

Anthony

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

My name is Anthony and I believe that ultimately (not relatively) Truth lies in the silence and the stillness of "not-knowing". I believe we are all perfect as we are in any given moment but at the same time their is room for improvement. I also believe that my beliefs are just that, beliefs. Just like my opinions are opinions. They are tools, a way to help me choose a path, a pair of shoes, a bottle of wine, etc. But experience and wisdom (and thousands of hours of Zen meditation) tell me that when I become attached to them or become identified with them I am living from habituality and not being present and living authentically. They are useful but also very limiting. A big challenge in my life is recognizing when to put them down and when to pick them up. It is very difficult to remember to remember. One way of putting it is that when it comes to the big, big questions in life (and many small ones for that matter) my belief is that I do not know. I am at peace enough with myself to not need or want a story. That seems to keep me out of trouble. Life is mysterious and beautiful. Best to just smile and rest peacefully in the mystery of it all when we can. That being said, I do believe in setting and achieving goals but not in getting overly attached to the outcome. After all, it's the people and experiences that arise along the way that awaken us (hopefully, if we are paying attention) and give life it's true richness. Like the cliche' states, "The journey is more important than the destination."

sugarshane

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

i believe in taking the time to appreciate the people and opportunities in our lives, i believe in treating people with kindness and respect no matter what, even if theyre just plain assholes, i believe in being the bigger man in any situation, i believe it is a gift to be somebody people can trust and to have people i can trust, i believe in loyalty, i believe our destiny is in our own hands but because god has given us the ability to make our own decisions, i believe in no traditional higher being - but that god is love, chance, opportunity and spirit. i believe we should follow our dreams and live our lives for ourselves as well as for others. i believe nobody will read this, but this is a good exercise in introspective thinking and will help all those who take the time to do it.

Langknow

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

My name is Lang. I believe in trying my best, and that no matter how bad things can get, there's always the brighter side of things. I believe that people should be able to laugh at the same and not take life too seriously. I believe that you should help yourself first, before helping other people. I believe people's true colours show when they are in times of hardship, that character comes from how you deal with those hardships, and how you overcome those obstacles. I believe people are not either this or that, that most people are in between. I stand for justice and all things good. I'm the guy who gets out of my seat to let the pregnant woman sit, not matter what she says about it. I'm also the guy who sometimes is insecure , but I'm I won't to change, and I'm taking steps to change my self. I believe the journey of love is a path of happiness, suffering, and more hapiness, and it's ok to take some detours before you reach your final destination. What are your beliefs? What are you willing to do, and how much are you willing to take? Who do you respect? Who do you honor? Do you honor yourself? Do you honor who you are as a person? Do you have beliefs that are so strong that you’ll stand up for yourself no matter what? Or are you a pushover in every way – you’re just taking the scraps of life as they come to you?

Helen

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

G'day David, my name is Helen and I live in Australia. I am a success, dating and relationship coach and a motivational speaker. I believe in being the best and truest you that you can be. I believe if we all live up to the best of our abilities and skills, and those that we then want to acquire, all of life will be better. I believe in my clients abilities to be the best and truest that they can be, until they start to believe it themselves. (oh, and then the fun wild ride can begin). I believe in paying it forward. I believe we should all give 10% of our income or our time to those who haven't begun to believe in themselves yet. I believe in God. I believe that I've taken so much crap onboard in my life that it took too many years to get rid of it, and it is always a work in progress. I now believe that anything is possible in life if you be your best and truest self. (on the diet side - in the last 4 years I have gone from a massive size 28 to a more managable Australian size 14, and still exercising and losing weight. I believe that I am very proud of myself and this is what I believe when I get up at 5.30 each morning to exercise.) Who do I respect? I respect all people. If you look hard enough, each person will have a quality to respect. By respecting that part of them, they can grow it and become the greater. Peace to all who read this, from Helen, a work in progress. (but oh, a fantastic journey!)

Jill

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Hi David, I'm Jill, and I believe in the inherent good of all people. I believe we are all connected. I believe what I do, and the intent behind it, affects everything everywhere. I believe one person can make a difference. I believe in the power of love. I have no idea what my life will be in six months, but I know it keeps getting better and better ,so the odds are in my favor that it's going to rock! Thanks for providing the forum for this!

nmr

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

my name is nicole. i believe in others. i believe the power to vote is more powerful than who we vote for. i believe in optimism. i believe in lowercase letters and the pleasure of a good laugh. i define myself by being myself...quirky, smart, sweet, silly, with the best of intentions. i am not a blonde-stick-figure-trophy-wife and i dont want to be. i believe that what you do is not necessarily a reflection of who you are or what your potential is. i believe most people need an advocate, or at least someone who they know is on their side. i believe in the potential of others and the potential of myself. i respect my grandparents and anyone humble enough to say "i dont know". i honor our military service personnel and those who are of service to their family, friends, community, nation, or even just another individual. i value the creative, the passionate, the humble, and the compassionate. while i am great at helping and advocating for others, i am not good at doing the same for myself.

Ella

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

I believe in the power of self healing. I believe in the power of an apology and a smile. I believe that if I don’t believe in myself no one will do it.

Bertie

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Hi Jessica, I haven't talked to Desperate in awhile. She was really busy when last we talked, and I've been teaching twice a week also at the hospital...It hasn't left me with much time to peruse the blog.

Nelson

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Hey David, I'm Nelson. I believe in the Universe - freaking amazing thing I can't stop loving, I believe in me - such a box of surprises, in Nature - such absolute equilibrium, and in the police force - putting their lives at risk for the wellbeing of everyone. Not to mention the goodwill of people in general, did you know the neurons that transmit good emotions are longer and thus faster than those that transmit bad ones, so it's easier to feel good? (From "Social Intelligence" by Daniel Goleman I guess.) Morally/ethically I believe in respect, responsability, friendship, tenacity and optimism. How do I want my life to be? Simple, filled with lots of friends, a special girl, some kids, an exciting job and radical sports/martial arts. Rock on, Nelson.